Without the tenderness of spring, you will have the passion of summer; Without golden autumn, you will have clear ice in winter. God is fair. When he closes a door for you, he will open a window for you.

Life is bound to have gains and losses. I have always believed that if I get one thing, I will lose another, so I will cherish what I have. When I lose something, I will tell myself that I don't have to be sad. I will get more, lose it or get it. We must all be calm. Life without suffering will be easy and beautiful!

There is a story about a shipwreck survivor who drifted to an isolated island. Two days later, no boat passed by. As a last resort, he built a humble shelter on a desert island. When he came back from picking fruit in the Woods, he found his hut on fire, with thick smoke billowing, and all his efforts were swallowed up by the fire. He sat on the beach in dismay until death came. Until dusk, the outline of a ship became clearer and clearer. There will be many accidents in one's life, some will bring you misfortune, and some will bring you good luck. Whether lucky or unlucky, we should face it calmly, which depends on our attitude.

The ancients also used actions to show the unity of gains and losses. Tao Qian's career is not smooth, he lost his brilliance, but he has achieved such profound literary attainments. Purple lay people are not reused, but live a free and easy life; Su Wu herded sheep. Although he lost his relatives, he showed noble integrity. ...

The road of life is inevitably bumpy, and no matter how much wind and rain, it will eventually come to an end. If God lets you die, it will definitely make you miserable. Quietly experience the flowers bloom and fall, and look down on the success or failure of life. Without the East, mulberries will be harvested.