The first one is the League of Legends Global Finals in 218, and three teams from China Division advanced to the quarter-finals. In the next game, RNG Club, which had the highest voice to win the championship, lost its title, and EDG also lost to its opponent. Just before IG Club reached the final with a momentum of 3:, the manager wished a carol (Xiao Luo) but questioned the significance of IG winning the championship. In this regard, Qingxi (the hedgehog esports CE), who came from Shanghai to support the preparation for the war, answered with the story of Musashi Miyamoto, a young man whose life goal is "the best swordsman in the world", who challenged Yagyu Zongyan, who has been lingering in his sickbed in his twilight years. Although Musashi stole in when the old man was ill, yagyu woke up in a daze on his deathbed and subdued the young man conveniently. Only then did Musashi realize that his strength was far from being recognized as the world's first swordsman, and he was convinced by the loss, and sincerely asked: "What is chinese odyssey?" Yagyu on the couch casually replied, "chinese odyssey, why bother?"
Xiao Luo understood Qingxi's intention after listening to the story. Looking back at Qingxi, he said, "Let's go and get the champion first. We have plenty of time to think about its meaning. " Take it first and then think about the meaning. This sentence hit me like lightning. When I stepped into the society, the spirit of newborn calves who were not afraid of tigers was gradually replaced by the balance of meaning. Before things started, the psychology of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss came out, and my energy was consumed by emotions. In the end, nothing was achieved. In fact, only those who have made sense have the right to speak. Before it is done, all the tangled thinking about meaning is just meaningless emotional internal friction, and it will drag and drop actions in turn, making people suffer from loss and hold back.
About two years ago, I made up my mind to develop reading and writing into my own sideline, one as the spiritual support in my ordinary life, and the other as well as enriching my head and pocket, so as to make my little life more moist. Arguably, with this goal, the main energy of my spare time in the past two years should be to read and write without hesitation, but the reality is that most of my energy is spent thinking about which subdivision direction I should work hard on. It seems that I can't really start reading and writing without knowing the specific direction and significance of my efforts, so I can only continue to be anxious and confused and endure the pain of being powerless. In the past two years, apart from keeping a diary every day, I have not done anything substantial to promote reading and writing. After attending the reading camp in the second half of 221, I realized that it takes effort not only to realize my dream, but also to find my dream. My original reading and writing is just a vague concept. Only practice can make this concept clear. If you don't have a specific direction, then don't have a direction. Whatever it is, read the books that can be read first, write the materials that can be written first, and talk about the rest later. Just as the territorial dispute in the South China Sea is difficult to solve for a while, our country has put forward a particularly wise solution called "shelving disputes and developing together". Indeed, problems that can't be solved now should be put aside, and precious time and energy should be spent on development instead of disputes. Problems in development will be solved by development, and one day the time will be ripe.
The same is true for personal growth. Some puzzles are that there is no good solution for the time being, but can't we work hard until the confusion is solved for the time being? Since "all roads lead to Rome" and this road is impassable, let's go around and take another road first. Wait until one day we have the ability to achieve mastery through a comprehensive study, and the road we bypassed before may be inadvertently passed. In the first three years when I just switched from school to the office, I had a particularly hard time. The interpersonal relationship in the office was complicated. Because I didn't know how to live in harmony, I suffered a lot in interpersonal relationship. In order to integrate into this environment, I made all kinds of efforts, but it was always pointless. Just last year, when I gave up these efforts, shifted my focus to myself, and showed my true self (advantages and disadvantages), those relationships that were not good in the past magically became harmonious. It has taken me nearly four years to get along with people from the outside to the inside. In fact, these four years are not how many tips I have learned to get along with people, but after many times of friction in reality, my focus has turned back to myself from the outside, and it has become real from the end. Real people are comfortable and others are comfortable.
when the ancients marched to fight, "the soldiers and horses did not move, and the food and grass came first." The real materials came first, not the "meaning" of retreat. Putting into action immediately is always greater than thinking about meaning, as Qingxi said: "When we founded the company, we thought about many things. The speed of this era is so fast that we have suddenly come to the door of the new world before we realize it. Go straight in? Or do you want to know the meaning before you go in? Many times, we don't have time to think about it. If you don't go in, someone will go in first. There is always some truth that we don't understand, and there are always times when we will doubt ourselves. Is this the right thing to do Is it worth it? There is no way, we must walk in through the door with questions. After entering the door, there is plenty of time to think. " It takes time and experience to grow up, so you don't need to ask too much about the meaning. Start with questions and confusion, act with the determination of Qingshan, and make friends who are persistent in time. One day, the meaning will come naturally, and the meaning will naturally come out at the moment when it is done.
Ordinary people often think too much about meaning before they act, and delay their actions. However, if they can directly chew on this "hard bone" with the determination of "sticking to the castle peak and not relaxing" regardless of meaning, they may inadvertently find a way for themselves. This is the second story that impressed me deeply-the story of a little girl who started memorizing American movie lines from grade one in order to improve her English. The little girl who graduated from the sixth grade and a group of freshmen and sophomores gathered at Mr. Liu's house to eat watermelon and chat. During this time, the little girl asked her big brothers and sisters how to improve her English. After everyone answered noisily, Mr. Liu couldn't help but join in and proposed to recite lines from American classic movies to learn the refined expression and pure application of English, and gave a practical plan on the spot: recite them for 4 minutes every day according to the film duration of 9-12 minutes. If you memorize a movie in a month, it is logical to memorize 1-12 movies a year. After that year, your practical English application ability should be significantly improved. After going back, the little girl cut the plot of each movie into 3-5 small pieces with editing software for two years, and persisted in reciting it every day. In 24 months, she conquered 2 American movies and accumulated profound English expression and application. Relying on these, she was interviewed by the top private high school in the United States in the third year. Before going to the United States to study, I was reunited with the original class at Mr. Liu's home again. When the little girl saw that Mr. Liu and his students were surprised to hear that they insisted on reciting every day, she asked her soul, "How many movies have you recited?" Everyone looked at each other, and the scene was a bit embarrassing. Teacher Liu quickly greeted everyone for dinner. Teacher Liu didn't recite it himself. Although he gave a practical plan in those days, he just casually said that he didn't practice it before and after that. His college students only verbally recognized this method. No one recited it after returning in those years. Only this little girl engraved this method in her own actions and produced a result, which is far from over. After she recited the lines of 3 American movies crazily, she gained a lot of experience in film lines and shooting. And won the appreciation of her literature teacher in American high school. This teacher who worked in Hollywood for 2 years and wrote many best-selling American dramas gave the little girl a lot of professional guidance. Later, the little girl wrote to Teacher Liu and thought about the future: "Uncle Liu, do you think I can become a screenwriter in the future?"
I like the little girl's courage to take action without asking for hard work. She didn't think about the significance of doing it, and even her age (12 years old) and mental level might not be enough to measure these advantages and disadvantages. It was just that the authoritative teacher Liu, who she trusted, told her that this method could improve her English, and she went to re-enact the action in a businesslike manner. However, we adults often seem to weigh the gains and losses wisely, and repeatedly "think about the meaning" before leaving. In fact, we want to accurately consider how much benefit we can get. If we think about it, we find that the expected gains are not proportional to the efforts we are about to make, and no part of adults will not do it because the gains are not worth the loss. Therefore, at this point, we have to learn from the children who are "angry but not afraid of tigers". Houlang's spirit and action are a model for every adult who surrenders to reality.
The story of the little girl reciting lines from American movies reminds me of my experience of reciting English texts for half a year before the middle school entrance examination, and it was this experience that enabled me to enter the best high school in the county. In junior high school, I studied in a rural school with a weak English foundation and almost no enrollment rate. In addition, my favorite English teacher jumped to the city school after teaching the first grade, and I was even less interested in English classes. I barely passed the third grade. After a monthly exam, the head teacher came to me and asked me if I wanted to take the exam in the best key high school in the county. If I wanted to take the exam, I would have to make up the lame leg of English, otherwise I would forget it! The head teacher's words stimulated my competitiveness, and I also felt that it would be a loss if I planted it in English, and vowed to improve my English scores. After swearing, I found that there were too many lessons left behind in the past two years, and it was basically useless to brush the questions. What should I do? Since the teacher said that a sense of language is the most important thing, "Beethoven" (reciting more points), let's start with reciting. Hurry up and find all the English textbooks for junior high school for three years and recite them from the first article. As long as there are English letters in the words and sentences, recite them all, regardless of whether they are grammatical or not. Anyway, I can't understand them. After less than a semester, something amazing happened: I still don't understand the grammar of the real questions in the senior high school entrance examination, but with the accumulated sense of language by reciting, I can do most of the questions correctly, and my reading comprehension is not bad according to my feelings. This greatly inspired my confidence in reciting. Apart from memorizing textbooks, I also copied my favorite essay and model essay when doing real questions, which also accumulated a lot of materials for writing small compositions. Finally, I got 135 points (out of 15 points) in my English test after the senior high school entrance examination. You know, I barely passed the exam six months ago. Because my English scores caught up, I not only passed the exam, but also exceeded the admission score of the best high school in the county by 2 points. I was also the only one who was admitted to the junior high school where I was, thanks to recitation. At that time, the senior high school entrance examination was just around the corner, and I didn't have time to think about the use of reciting it. I just recited it day and night. On the contrary, I often wondered about the meaning of learning something as an adult. Without the energy of giving everything at the beginning, I naturally couldn't reap the happiness of jointing and growing up after giving my all.
In fact, no matter adults or children, if they want to get something done and chew on the "hard bone", they have already decided to do it. Before doing anything, don't leave yourself time to think about the meaning and ask questions, but do it at once. Thinking and asking questions repeatedly before acting seems to be thoughtful, and more often, it is an excuse for yourself in disguise. If things are delayed for three times, it will be cold in nine cases. If you really want to give time, please give time to the process of doing things, and give yourself more patience in the process. It will take 21 days to form a habit. At worst, you should give yourself a month to finish it every day, and then talk about the meaning and results after a month's accumulation.
For example, I have been punching in my feet every night for 2 days. At first, I was troublesome. I had to boil ginger slices or wormwood in water for 2 to 3 minutes, and I had to pour water and clean the floor. But because I was soaking with my familiar friends, I was embarrassed to give up halfway, so I had to bite the bullet and get used to it. I naturally thought about it after 9 o'clock every day. I used to know that I had to go to bed early, but before going to bed. I seldom go to bed before 23:, but now I have soaked my feet at 9: or 1: , and I feel that it is hard to soak my warm feet, so I can't let them get cold again. I have to get into bed quickly. After soaking my feet, my body is warm and it is easier to fall asleep than before. About the 12th day of soaking, I suddenly realized that I fell asleep much faster after soaking my feet. Since soaking my feet is a must before going to bed, why don't I put the time for soaking my feet five minutes earlier every day and tie it with going to bed early, so that the time for soaking my feet will be advanced and the time for sleeping will be advanced accordingly. Going to bed early and getting up early is a natural thing. Now I have been practicing going to bed early and getting up early for eight days, and I will do it myself after five o'clock in the morning. In fact, the original intention of punching in the feet is just to soak my feet warm before going to bed and make it easier to fall asleep. However, I didn't expect this unintentional move to bump into a road for my early bed and early morning sleep schedule adjustment. Perhaps this is "unintentional". In the past, I saw many friends practice getting up early and forcing them to go to bed early. I actually did it for two or three months, and the effect was not good. In addition, it is winter now, I can't get up at all in the morning, and it is useless to set several alarm clocks. This time, punching in and soaking my feet easily solved this problem that bothered me. This is the compound interest brought by persistence.
In fact, the real meaning of a thing is not the meaning that we racked our brains to imagine before doing it, but that you take action, spend time and energy polishing the spirit and life state presented in the process, and put it into action immediately, which is the meaning itself.