We all know that life in the world will always be full of troubles, but people who really have a pattern will not care too much about this kind of thing, face life optimistically and enjoy life. Let's read the real classic prose together, I hope you like it.
There is a story in the classic American prose 1: three masons are building a wall, and a man comes over and asks them what they are doing.
The first mason said grumpily, didn't you see it? I am trying to build a wall.
The second answer is that we are building a tall building.
The third said happily that we are creating a better life.
10 years later, the first person was still a mason, the second person became an engineer, and the third person became the boss of a construction company.
There is no difference between the works themselves. Why do three people's lives go in different directions? This is the difference in the pattern, leading to different endings.
The so-called pattern is the internal layout of a person's psychological elements such as vision, mind and courage. Faced with the same situation, different patterns will determine the different direction of things, and what kind of pattern will create what kind of life.
The pattern is not unattainable. Everyone has a pattern, but everyone is different.
In Li Bai's view, the pattern is "laughing and going out, is our generation Artemisia?" In Yue Fei's place, it is the heroic spirit of "eight thousand miles of clouds and moons, thirty fame, and the dust settles"; In Su Shi's place, it is the heroic spirit of "the great river does not return, and it is a romantic figure through the ages".
The pattern is a big feeling, and it is tolerant only when there are all rivers in the sea.
The ancients said, "You can only be a gentleman if you can tolerate a villain." People with a big pattern will not be confused about the gains and losses of one thing. They have clear goals and firm beliefs, and they pursue them tirelessly until they succeed.
People with a big picture not only have a broad mind and lofty aspirations, but also have unlimited horizons. They will not stick to the immediate constraints and see more possibilities than limitations. They will broaden their horizons and expand their territory.
Trees move to death, and people move to life. Changing thinking and enlarging the pattern may open a brand-new vision, usher in a new life for yourself, and even turn a corner to realize your previous dreams.
But if you are short-sighted and have no overall view, it will be difficult to achieve anything in the end.
There was a colleague who was like this before and refused to eat a small loss. As long as she can't take credit in front of the leader, she won't do it and feels useless. Over time, colleagues in the department will never ask her for help again, and naturally they will not call her if there is something good. After working for five years, she is still the last in the department and has made no progress.
Zhao Wen, her colleague who came in at the same time, was completely different. Xiao Zhao was active, studious and quietly helped others clean up the mess.
On one occasion, the leader assigned a difficult task. If he did well, there would be no praise. If he did badly, there would be criticism, and everyone was unwilling to take it. Finally, only Zhao Wen volunteered to help everyone.
In the following days, she worked overtime every day, consulted a lot of information, analyzed and studied various coping plans one by one, and finally chewed this hard bone down.
On the day she went to work, it happened that the big leader was there. She saw the plan and was very satisfied. Soon, Zhao Wen was promoted to assistant general manager of the department.
The students who graduated from the same university have worked for five years, and the gap is so big, which is the different outcome created by different patterns.
Only when a person is ambitious can he bear loneliness, calm down and do things, and then he will not focus on the immediate gains and losses, and will unswervingly adhere to his ideals.
A person's life is a process of seeing the world, all beings and himself. Different cognitive levels have formed different life patterns. It determines what kind of scenery you can see.
We often complain about the unfairness of fate and the lack of poetry and distance in life, which may be precisely because we are not tall enough and the pattern is too small. When you see the heavens and the earth, all beings and begin to see yourself clearly, you will become more and more aware of what kind of life you want. When you understand this, your life may be different from now on.
People with large patterns will naturally exude different temperament in the crowd, humble but connotative, gentle but powerful. They will pay attention, they will do it, and they can enjoy the best or bear the worst.
They improve the depth of their thoughts, the breadth of their horizons and the breadth of their hearts from the books they have read, the roads they have traveled and the people they have met.
As the saying goes: "When a person's life pattern is big, he will not indulge in the triviality of life. People who are truly confident can always be simple and powerful. "
The chess game of life is sometimes determined by the pattern. What kind of pattern you have, what kind of ending you will have.
There is a saying in American classic sketch 2: No matter how big the pancake is, it is bigger than the pot that burns it.
The philosophy of this sentence is:
You can bake a big cake, but no matter how big the cake is, it is limited by the pot that bakes it.
The future we want is like this pie. Whether you can bake a satisfactory pie depends entirely on the pot that burns the pie-this is the "pattern".
In the Song Dynasty, there was a man named Lu Wenjing who said to his wife one day, "Our four sons will all become talents in the future, but I don't know which is the prime minister. I want to test them. "
So, when all four children were playing in the yard, the maid was asked to drop a jade on the ground on purpose. The three children uttered a cry of "Oh dear" and hurried to report to the lady. Only the second one was silent, as if nothing had happened.
Seeing this situation, Lu Wenjing asked the public, "Jade is broken. Why aren't you worried at all? " The public calmly replied: "It's broken. What's the use of worrying? " ? Might as well not think about it. "
Lu Wenjing then told his wife, "If you marry this child, you can be prime minister in the future." Later, Gong Gong really became prime minister.
It is a rare temperament for a person to achieve great things, to have a big picture, to be calm and calm when things go wrong, to deal with them calmly and to be unhurried.
Su Xun, one of the eight masters in the Tang and Song Dynasties, said in the article "Mind" that "Mount Tai collapses in the front and the color remains the same, and the elk thrives on the left without blinking", which is the concrete manifestation of this temperament.
Zeng Guofan, a famous strategist and politician in China in modern times, famously said: "Those who seek great things should pay attention to the pattern first."
Sparrows can never fly above Qingyun, because they only stare at the rice on the ground;
The eagle can soar freely on the summit because its eyes are full of mountains and rivers!
Only the big realm can have a big mind, and the big pattern can make great achievements.
People's minds are very interesting. If they have great pursuits and ambitions, they will have great patience, tolerance, vision and tolerance.
Three endings of pomegranate seeds:
When planted in a flowerpot, it can only grow to more than half a meter high at most;
Planting in a jar can grow to more than one meter high;
If planted in the yard, it can grow to four or five meters high.
The height that people can reach in life is often the height that people choose for themselves psychologically.
Standing high, there are only a few buildings in the whole city. Looking down at the city from the clouds on the plane, the city became a bonsai. God saw the pity of a beggar, walked up to the beggar and said to him:
"Here you are 1000 yuan. What will you do with it? "
The beggar said, "buy a mobile phone." ...
"Give you 65438+ ten thousand yuan. What will you do with it? "
The beggar said, "buy a car." ...
"Give you 1 10,000 yuan, what will you do with it?"
The beggar said, "Buy the most luxurious section in the city." ...
People with a large pattern, "including the opportunity of the universe and swallowing the ambition of heaven and earth", see things more comprehensively and meticulously than others. As if standing higher, you can see the whole event at a glance.
On the contrary, people with small patterns are short-sighted, confined to one city and one pool, and often stand still and dare not try. They only see the present, obsess over the trivial things in life, and have no long-term plans, and they will never achieve great things.
Pattern is a kind of tolerance, a kind of feeling, a mountain in the soul and a clear world in the depths of the spirit.
The big picture is a kind of wisdom, and it is stupid to be smart;
The big pattern is a realm, with courage and fear;
The big pattern is a kind of depth, loud voice and great joy;
The big pattern is a kind of character, and cleverness is clumsy;
The overall situation is posture, and the elephant is invisible.
Don't look for tricks on people who are greedy for money, and don't look for tricks on people who pursue power.
A person who is seduced and confused by money and power will not have a pattern.
The real model can only grow in a calm mind.
Like a tree growing in the wilderness, the wind blows gracefully, the clouds pass lovingly, the flowers are stolen, and the flowing water is blurred, but it is still a tree, sticking to the wilderness, with wide fields and eight winds.