Introduction: As the saying goes, you know a person's face but not his heart. In daily interpersonal interactions, what everyone fears most is meeting villains and being betrayed. People nowadays are so good at pretending that it is difficult for us to tell whether a person is a good person at a glance, because good or bad is not written on his face. Be careful. People who often say these four sentences are likely to have bad character.

1. Let’s talk about it.

Confucius said: "What you say must be done, and what you do must be resolute." Doing what you say is the basic principle that everyone should do, but in life we ??can easily encounter those who write us blank checks. This kind of person always likes to talk big words, or will agree to help us do something for the sake of face, so that we can see a glimmer of hope in the midst of disappointment. But when he actually fulfilled it, he always pretended not to remember or simply refused to admit it, saying "Let's talk about it later". Nine times out of ten, people who often say this kind of thing are of bad character, so be careful.

Two. I really didn't mean it.

No one is a sage, how can anyone have no faults? Making mistakes is a normal thing for everyone. No one is perfect and no one is always easy to make mistakes. People can be forgiven for making mistakes occasionally, but there are some people who pretend to be innocent little white rabbits and say "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to do it" even though they know they are wrong, and then they still know the same thing next time. Don’t correct your mistakes. Therefore, if a person always says "I really didn't mean it", then nine times out of ten, he has a bad character.

3. Be generous and don’t be so stingy.

Guo Degang once said in an interview with a program: "I hate the kind of people who advise you to be generous regardless of the situation." It is true that everyone can understand the principle of taking a step back to open up the world, but We are not meant to be kind and tolerant to everyone. How to repay kindness with kindness? Those who often say "be generous and don't be so stingy" are actually the most petty.

4. What do you and your children know?

Baby kids are a group that everyone dislikes. As the saying goes, like father, like son. Behind every naughty kid, there must be a pampering parent. If a person always says things like "you know nothing like a child", nine times out of ten, he is a bad character and you should stay away from him.

Summary: People are inherently mixed, and you cannot guarantee that you will not meet evil people. All you will meet are good people. All we can do is to constantly improve ourselves, start by changing ourselves, and give this Society and the people around you bring warmth and stay away from evil people.