Time can make people who once loved each other fall apart, and it can also make former friends become strangers. Please remember that the person who is willing to stay by your side regardless of the ravages of time must be someone who treats you sincerely.

A passage from the philosophy of life

1. Good and bad are gone, good and bad are gone. Real dreams are always being realized and more importantly, they are being persevered. When you are tired, just stop and let your hands touch each other, and feel the warm and indifferent years; when you are bitter, just smile, let your heart be close to your heart, and appreciate the touch of your beloved; when you cry, let your tears flow freely, and it hurts your heart. It's also wonderful. Choose a path, choose a life without regrets. The haze will eventually clear away, and the evil smile will eventually become boring and despicable, and it will eventually become silent.

2. Caring too much about other people's opinions and evaluations will only make you unable to do things freely, hesitant, losing yourself, losing your personality, and losing your own value. Sticking to what you choose and believing in what you insist on is the right path for you. It doesn't matter what others think of you. What matters is that you be yourself and do what you think is right.

3. Please get rid of your anger and hostility and face life calmly. The true meaning of life often lies in the ordinary. No matter it is a life of ups and downs or a life of mediocrity, we will eventually return to ordinary. When all the excitement becomes a joke, that is the moment when we truly enjoy life. Every period of growth is a treasure that teaches us maturity and strength.

4. The reason why people are unhappy stems from their lack of contentment. Everyone has different feelings and requirements for happiness. A person who is easy to be satisfied and knows how to be satisfied is more likely to be happy. "Happiness is like a pyramid. The higher you go up, the less happiness there is, and the harder it is to get happiness." Happiness is actually a kind of expectation and a feeling of the soul. As long as you discover and feel it with your heart, you will find Happiness is actually around us.

5. When the pursuit becomes a long marathon, you will often get something you don’t want. Just like an enemy seeking revenge, after years of hard work and exhaustion, he finally gets his revenge, but finds that he has given up too much of the joy of life and ends up with nothing; gain calmly and lose indifferently, instead of looking up at the glory of others, it is better to do it with your own hands Light up your inner lamp, set sail, and grasp the truest self.

6. Every time a period of time passes in life, you have to "clear" the past and let yourself start over. Don't let the past become a burden to the present. Only by traveling lightly can you go further. The human soul is like a container. Over time, there will inevitably be sediment in it. You must always empty the sediment in your soul, let go when it is time to let go, and forget what should be forgotten. Delete the garbage in your mind and refresh yourself every day, so that you can regain your new life!

7. If it is sunny and sunny, just enjoy the leisurely clouds. If the rain knocks on the window, just listen to the wind. If there is love in the passing years, my heart will bloom with the flowers. If time passes, cherish the past. No matter how unsatisfactory life is, you must learn to warm and comfort yourself, and give yourself more appreciation and encouragement. In life, you must learn to settle, settle your experience, settle your mood, and settle yourself.

8. I was confused at first because I didn’t know where to go. We know where we are going, but we are still confused because we don’t know how to get there. Finally getting to where we wanted to go, we were still confused because we didn't know how to stay. We stayed, still confused, just because we wanted to stay longer. As long as I am young, I hope to try my best to make progress, because every new confusion is the beginning of re-flailing my wings.

9. Remember that you are a woman. You should believe that you are the most beautiful girl. Then forget that you are a woman. You should not decorate yourself excessively. In addition to your appearance, you must also have temperament; you must Know how to respect yourself and love yourself, and not look down on yourself; you must be kind, and you must make the people you care about feel warm.

10. The orchid lives in a deep valley, and it is fragrant even though it is lonely. It is a kind of indifference without fighting or snatching; the plum blossoms are blooming in the corner, and the fragrance is flowing even though it is quiet, and it is not dull or angry. This is a kind of elegance; the water droplets stick to the stone. , not sluggish despite encountering obstacles, neither slow nor slow, this is a kind of low-key.

When we live in this world, our mentality should be like an orchid, which can see everything clearly; our temperament should be like a plum, and learn to bloom beautifully in the winter of destiny