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Two days ago, I listened to Fan Deng's reading club and invited Alina Zhang, the author of "Handbook of Life Efficiency", which is a particularly practical book, but what impressed me most was that the author mentioned her mother, who is the most beautiful woman in her world, with a waist of one foot and nine at the age of 6, and has a strong self-discipline spirit. She went to and from Japan to do business, and opened her mother's account to enlighten her life efficiency. She is her idol and she wants to be like her mother. I am a mother, and I have a lovely daughter over one year old. I try my best to make live high's life wonderful, set an example for my daughter, and have the initial enlightenment for her life.
In addition, I talked about a reading habit at home, which touched me very much. Before my daughter was born, I already knew the importance of reading, and I bought many books for my daughter to read, but I didn't have a fixed time and a good plan. I picked them up casually, read them at a fixed time, step by step, and read the theme, which may be more beneficial to my children. I am constantly studying myself, and I have never been self-contained, but I have been reading them intermittently. Now I have roughly three parts: parenting, financial management and leisure, which are gradually adjusting.
People's energy is limited. I have consumed myself too much in this marriage. My mood fluctuates greatly with each other. I want to restrain my emotions, so I can be angry for two minutes. After I get angry, I have to work hard and learn more about financial management. If I make a breakthrough, I will quit my job in the system, go to study for further study, change myself, increase my knowledge, and be a better mother.
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Recently, I started two parenting books, Especially Cruel and Especially Love, written by Sarah. I've noticed it before, but I didn't start. I bought books for my daughter by the way, and the result is very good. There are many lessons about children's education, such as financial education, educational principles, and love education. In the middle, Sarah mentioned that she was divorced and took care of three children alone. In order to give her children complete love, she didn't mention the bad feelings of her father on the premise of her children, and she also lied to her father to call and care about them, so that the children could not feel the lack of fatherly love and had a complete personality.
Reflecting on my chaotic weekend, I couldn't help quarreling in front of my daughter. My daughter was frightened, and she was particularly distressed by her. In turn, she resented herself on the other side, and her mood was depressed repeatedly. She didn't give her whole-hearted love and happiness, but she also let herself lose and resent. Why?
Although I haven't divorced yet, I took care of the children by myself. Why should I let the other party participate in some unnecessary activities? If it affects my mood, the other party won't participate, and the children and myself are both hurt. The problem lies in myself. Keep a calm mind. If the other party participates, it's a surprise for the children. It's normal to take care of the children by yourself. Plan and cultivate well, and strive to improve yourself in your spare time.
Allow yourself to be angry, angry and resentful, but ten minutes or so will end all emotions and return to a normal life. Maybe you should redouble your efforts to be a competent mother and be a better self. Women can only work hard to live up to you, cherish every moment they can work hard, and the future is more involuntary.