Women are forced, from inexperienced girls to proficient in all kinds of martial arts. It is life that gives them courage.

Women are forced, from being afraid of a little ant to strangling a caterpillar without hesitation, it is time that gives them courage.

Women are forced, from fragile to concrete and steel-like bodies, it is love that gives them courage.

I have seen too many such women, from my mother to some of my friends.

It is said that they were forced and also caused by secularism. In the traditional concept, women should be loved and protected by thousands of people. I mean, just girls in castles or women in palaces.

Can a real woman do this?

Feng Tang's psychological method says that women should be spoiled, but they should be independent and lovely. Even if they are trapped, they can live in the sun. Don't be an unconditional coquetry. "Girls are expensive" is a bad style for three reasons:

First, social strata are stratified and barriers are solidified. Because of traditional ideas and physiological structure, women are already in a weak position. If they are spoiled like pets, they will lose their competitiveness and can no longer stand on the society.

Second, women who have been materialized for a long time and ask for money are more likely to be tempted by money.

Third, wake up, which man is not a scum? Who can a woman rely on besides self-improvement?

Nowadays, equality between men and women is advocated, and women also bear corresponding social responsibilities and obligations, so they should be as successful as men.

You can be gentle and changeable, or you can be independent; It is both gentle and tough.

I gave Qian Qian a great honor, not only in the trivial things in the morning, but also in the ups and downs outside.

02

Successful women are always like this-

1, can bear hardships, do your own thing well, and solve your own problems without causing trouble to others.

Can bear hardships, do more, exercise bones and muscles, and be healthier. From this perspective, you are making money, doing nothing, or "pampering" yourself. For a long time, you are a weak person with poor energy and no spirit to do anything.

If you don't bother others, you will definitely improve your ability to solve problems. After a long time, you will be more confident to face the problems in life. When trouble comes, you should not be a problem, but a problem solver.

Take me for example. I used to be afraid of trouble. Always at a loss when encountering problems, complaining bitterly. The more you do this, the more you can't solve the problem and make yourself very depressed.

I have great patience when I encounter problems now, and I always feel that I can solve them. Facts have proved that the more I do this, the more I can solve many problems.

2. Have a healthy body.

Healthy body is the premise of success, so fitness is a very important thing, and fitness should be regarded as a part of life, even life-oriented.

Weakness without wind should no longer be a sign of a woman, and a woman should have a strong body.

In the face of danger, people who can stand the wind and rain have healthy bodies. Women are no exception.

3. Be able to nourish your heart.

The inner wealth will not be tempted by the outside. Have your own hobbies, have your own spiritual paradise, and don't rely on others.

If your love is rich, you won't go outside to find love, and you won't be tempted easily.

Women are easily tempted. If they are a little attractive, they are either cheating money or cheating. Be extra careful. Most of them are malicious, not your own mother, and no one is so sincere to you.

What can nourish you must be yourself, life is your own, don't rely on others, let alone love.

People who love you will change. Don't believe in vows of eternal love. Only by loving yourself will it last forever.

4. Have your own ability circle.

When you get stronger, you won't feel that the world is ruthless.

Self-help is not as good as asking for help, that is, having the ability of self-reliance and not asking for help in everything.

Find a field that you are good at, do it well enough and professionally enough, and gradually form your own ability circle.

When you become stronger, you can help others and have the ability to love. Conversely, you can get help from others.

03

In this era, it is the same for everyone, and women get even more respect.

But it also faces more challenges, such as preventing one's heart from being stolen, preventing some people from bewitching, and preventing some bad guys from invading.

A woman must turn herself into her own queen. A woman who can crush half the world must bear hardships, be strong, be full of spirit and be capable.

"Girls should be raised expensively" is really outdated, inappropriate and misleading.