Talking back to parents doesn't happen for a while, it's a habit formed from childhood. If your mother is uncompromising since she was a child and talking to you is like giving an order, you will do as she says, and you will not dare to talk back when you grow up. Now that I have grown up, it is reasonable to have my own ideas and express my views. Parents should also respect their children's self-esteem, and can no longer listen to their children in everything, right or wrong. So it is understandable to suggest that you express your thoughts appropriately. Maybe your mother is very strong and can't stand your retort. You can exchange views with her politely.