The stories about the way to make friends include a bosom friend's friendship, a rubber knee's friendship, a neck-crushing friendship, a friendship in Taoyuan, a friendship that never turns back, a friendship that gives one's life, and so on.

1. A bosom friend

In the Spring and Autumn Period, Boya was good at playing the piano and Zhong Ziqi was good at listening to it. Once, Boya met Zhong Ziqi, a bosom friend. They talked about the piano art and became bosom friends. After Zhong Ziqi's death, Boya was so sad that she stopped playing the piano to commemorate her bosom friend.

2. Knee-to-knee Friendship

Chen Zhong and Lei Yi were two wise men in the Eastern Han Dynasty, and they became bosom friends. When Chen Zhong was young, he was recommended as Xiao Lian, but Lei Yi was repeatedly recommended as Xiao Lian, and Chen Zhong repeatedly gave his fame to Lei Yi. Lei Yi was later recommended as Mao Cai. When he was going to his post, Chen Zhong and Lei Yi held hands and sent him away. Because of his friendship with Lei Yi, he stayed at home for three days. Later generations used the metaphor of "a close friend" to make friends.

3. A Close Friendship

Lian Po and Lin Xiangru were two ministers of Zhao during the Warring States Period. Due to Lin Xiangru's several meritorious services, the Zhao King made him a Shangqing, ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po was dissatisfied with this and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru in public. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po. Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to attack Zhao because of me and Lian Po. I have a conflict with Lian Po, which is not good for the country! "

This word reached Lian Po, so he went to Lin Xiangru House to apologize. Lin Xiangru invited him in and sat down, but all the guests avoided it. Lian Po offered a humble apology, and they shook hands and became best friends.

4. taoyuan became sworn friends

during the eastern Han dynasty, the political corruption in the dynasty, coupled with years of famine, made people's lives very difficult. Liu Bei intends to save the people, and Zhang Fei and Guan Yu are willing to do something together with Liu Bei. The three of them hit it off, and they chose Zhangfeizhuang as a peach garden. At this time, when the peach blossoms were in full bloom and the scenery was beautiful, Zhang Fei prepared a green cow and a white horse as a sacrifice, burned incense for worship, and took the oath. The three men recognized their brothers by age. Liu Bei became the eldest brother, Guan Yu the second, and Zhang Fei the youngest. This is the famous Taoyuan Jieyi in Romance of the Three Kingdoms.

5. A best friend who never turns his back on us

During the Warring States Period, the philosopher Zhuangzi talked about Zi Si, Zi Xing, Zi Li and Zi Lai, saying, "Who can be friends with a mind of doing nothing, a backbone of doing something, and knowing life and death as one." The four of them smiled at each other, and they felt that they were rebellious and became good friends with each other.

6. Turn to lay down one's life

During the Warring States Period, Zuo Botao and Yang Jiaoai met each other and went to Chu to see Chu Zhuangwang together. On the way, they met with heavy snow, but at that time, their clothes were very thin and they didn't have enough food. Zuo Botao gave all his clothes and food to Yang Jiaoai in order to fulfill his friends, and he committed suicide by hiding in an empty tree. This is the story of a friend who gave his life.