Haha, this is a very good question.

Before answering, let me tell you what happened yesterday. Yesterday afternoon we went to pick plums to eat. There was a 6-year-old child with us. While walking and chatting, this child actually liked playing chicken and the weapon of big pineapple. I was surprised at the time, but then I thought about it. When I think about it, children nowadays are very normal.

When we were children, we didn’t have the conditions we have now, and the Internet was underdeveloped, but we also had our own entertainment methods. Today’s children’s entertainment methods have just changed, becoming loyal to mobile phones. What about us adults? Not anymore. Children sometimes just follow the same example.

How to improve this situation?

Personally, I think it is better to be sparse than blocked. The more you forbid it, the more he wants to play. Sometimes he may secretly run outside to play, which is actually more gain than loss.

First of all, we need to tell our children that you can play with your mobile phone at home. Mom and Dad also like to play, but we must set a time period for the children and do not play every day. We should supervise each other.

Then, I think the most important thing is to spend more time with the child, go outside with the child to take a look, and divert the child's attention.

Suitable games are good for the brain, but excessive games are harmful to the body.

I am a person who has ruined my studies due to excessive use of mobile phones. When I was in school, I was always out of town and it was inconvenient to contact my parents, so I discussed with my parents about buying a mobile phone, and the process was a bit tortuous. After pleading hard and making various guarantees, my parents finally bought a mobile phone after much hard work. It was okay when I first got the mobile phone. After all, I was new to it at that time and did not form any dependence. But later on, after evening self-study, I had nothing to do, so I just lay in bed and played with my mobile phone, read novels, play black and white games with others, and follow anime. Wait, sometimes I play for an entire night. Do you think about whether you can stay awake during class during the day? How can you not take a nap if you are sleepy? You fall behind in studying as soon as you are in class. The most serious thing is that slowly, you also think about it during class. Enjoy the exciting content you see on your mobile phone. Don't just trust your child's self-control. Children at this period have a relatively poor sense of autonomy and cannot accurately judge the quality of this matter. Therefore, if parents can intervene and guide, and the child has a certain degree of self-control, you can consider it. Bring a mobile phone to your child, but if you don't have these conditions, you still have to be cautious. Nowadays, mobile phones are smart enough. If the child becomes obsessed with some content that has an impact on learning, it will affect the child's learning.

This is my personal opinion, and another small aside. You should understand why I answer such content by looking at my writing style.

This question touches my heart. My child is 6 years old. He looks at his phone every morning when he gets up and eats. He also looks at his phone when he comes back from school in the evening. He also looks at it before going to bed. Now I don’t know if it is serious or not. Even when eating and drinking, I have to look at my phone. Several times, I got water everywhere. Now I have some methods. I take her to play some games every day, such as playing flying chess, and take her to the park to play. But as long as I never leave my mobile phone at home, and I don’t listen to what I say several times. And when I look at my phone at night, the brightness is too bright. I say it more than ten thousand times. Every time I say it today, it will be the same tomorrow. I am really speechless. , I guess there are not many people like this, so I think it is not impossible for children to look at mobile phones. You can try to look at it less and take her out to play more. I have changed from the original ink mark to very patient. Remember You can't hit or scold your children. You can speak slowly or compare them with other children. Children who are more sensible will understand this, so it's not particularly difficult. I have mastered the skills with my children. Again, children It is normal to be disobedient. What is important is how parents educate their children. But there is one thing they cannot do, that is, they cannot beat or scold their children, and they cannot say words that hurt their young minds. This is my opinion.

I am very happy to answer this question. Our baby is eight years old this year and also likes to play with mobile phones. But sometimes we still have to try to control it and not look at it for too long. Our baby only talks the most in one day. Leave your phone on for an hour and a half.

When we were young, we usually played with mud and wooden guns. The hand-made toys we made at that time were the simplest toys. There were also things like throwing sandbags, rolling hoops, and kicking shuttlecocks. Rubber band jumping, children nowadays can only play games on mobile phones and watch TV.

However, this has something to do with the environment. Times have changed, and today’s children no longer have the toys we used to play with when we were children.

Today’s children have fewer outdoor activities and fewer opportunities to play outside. Children stay at home and play with electronic products every day. If you want your children to put down their mobile phones, the best thing for parents to do is to accompany them. Look at your phone less and spend more time with your children, read and play games more!

Companionship is the longest confession of love, and companionship is the best love for children!

Nowadays, there are more and more electronic products, and mobile phones have more and more functions. From the elderly to the children who have just learned to walk, everyone likes to look at and play with mobile phones. Most parents I think there is no benefit at all for children to play with mobile phones, and it is not good for the eyes, but there is nothing you can do about it. Not only the children, but also you can't do anything about it. To quit the addiction to mobile phones, you can only try to control your children's use of mobile phones. However, parents have found that, Even if the control seems to be of no use, this may not be the fault of the parents, or there may be a problem with the control method.

Parents can do this when their children play with mobile phones, it will be better for their children

1. How to supervise children to play with mobile phones

Many parents do not let their children play with mobile phones The main reason is that they are afraid of affecting children's vision. Playing with mobile phones for a long time will lead to vision loss. Now you can supervise children's sitting posture and distance from mobile phones when playing with mobile phones. There are also regulations that do not let children lie down or lie down to play with mobile phones.

2. You can download some useful games

Nowadays, mobile phones have more functions. While letting children play with mobile phones, they can also play interesting quizzes or puzzle games. This will have many benefits for children.

3. Take your children to play outdoors or in the playground more often

Children are more active. If there are more fun things outside or in the playground, the children will not be addicted to mobile phones. .

4. Restrain yourself and try not to play with your mobile phone in front of your children

Although it is difficult to restrain yourself, teaching children can be convincing only by setting an example.

Conclusion: Nowadays, most parents have children in Hohhot who let them play by themselves when they get home, and they will naturally take out their mobile phones to play. Parents can put down their mobile phones and spend more time with them. Spending more time with your children is better than anything else.

Personally, I think parents should not over-interpret the harm that mobile phones can bring to their children; however, they should look at mobile phones in a negative light. After all, everyone now has a mobile phone, and parents can only control their children for a while.

Secondly, parents can look at the problem from another perspective. A child playing with a mobile phone can effectively regulate the brain and learn knowledge beyond books in a more effective way.

Finally, if parents feel that their children play for a long time, they can take them fishing or hiking to divert their attention. Don’t: Don’t forcefully criticize children when they play with mobile phones. This method can only make children rebellious and become addicted to mobile phones for a long time.

First of all, parents can install a monitoring software on their children's mobile phones. Now mobile phones have such a function. This can prevent children from actively contacting unhealthy websites or information.

Note: Parents should not be secretive when installing this software. They can explain it openly and clearly to their children. Secondly, it is best to make an agreement with your child, for example: play for one hour every day and get off the plane immediately when the time is up. If the child does it, give him a reward, such as a small red flower. When he collects 7, he can exchange it for something he likes.

Finally, the power of role models is endless. Every word and deed of parents is the best education for their children. If parents want their children to read, they must first pick up a book and read it, and then their children will follow our lead.

What you are like is what your child will be like.

For the future of your child, you will definitely be able to do a great job! Bless you!

1. Mobile phones are a double-edged sword, more lethal to children. Because the child lacks self-control. Mobile phones are more harmful to children than television because they offer a wider range of choices. Although children can use it to look up information, they can also quickly go off topic and wander around the world with their mobile phones. So when children face mobile phones, you have to be vigilant and don’t believe that children can consciously resist temptation – adults can’t. Strictly control the time your children use mobile phones. Figure out whether to use your phone for study or entertainment. If you use it to study, you must not go off topic!

2. Mobile phones can make children blind! This is not alarmist, you will believe it if you go to an eye hospital. I have seen many young people whose eyes are almost damaged and dare not look at their mobile phones, otherwise their eyes will hurt. Children's eyes are more susceptible to damage. Nowadays, most of the children wearing glasses in primary school classes are because their parents do not supervise them well. The children spend too much time looking at mobile phones, which leads to eye damage and they must wear glasses! Glasses can save a moment, but they cannot save a lifetime. Staying away from mobile phones is the way to go.

3. Mobile phones are modern opium. Any student who doesn't do homework at night and yawns all day the next day must stay up late at night looking at his mobile phone. Cell phones can make children addicted. It will make him neglect his studies. If you want to harm a child, just give him a cell phone. Therefore, some people say that if you want your children to become successful, they should cut off the Internet and put away their mobile phones, so that they can cultivate their minds and study hard.

4. Mobile phones are the trigger of "war". I have seen many parents "fight" with their children because of mobile phones. Parents also know that mobile phones are harmful to their children, but their children are already addicted, so they start a battle for mobile phones.

5. Mobile phones are a necessity in life. Starting from the time when their children enter first grade, all parents must switch to smartphones, otherwise you will not be able to collect class WeChat messages and homework. Children must read homework on their mobile phones every day. So it is difficult to eliminate mobile phones. This is a contradiction.

In short, set family rules and strictly prohibit children from playing with mobile phones from Monday to Thursday. They can only read homework and check information. Parents can even check it for him to save their children from making excuses. Friday night entertainment is available for about 10 minutes. After completing the homework on weekends, you can play for about 2O minutes. Since we can't leave each other, use rules to restrict them, which will be more effective than arguing every day.

Qingyun National College will give you the answer.

The first is the impact:

Positive impact:

1. Accept more information, improve your knowledge, and expand your horizons. Mobile phones are now the main tool for disseminating information. Children who are exposed to mobile phones can see a different world without going out.

2. Solve problems faster. Sometimes when children need to look up reference books, for example, when they encounter a word they don’t know and there is no dictionary at hand, a mobile phone can quickly solve the problem.

3. Facilitate communication. If children live in school and cannot see their parents, they can communicate via mobile phone, which is convenient and fast.

Negative effects:

1. Damage to vision. Today's children are addicted to mobile phones. Prolonged exposure to electronic screens will cause vision loss. Some children are more likely to squint when lying down and playing with mobile phones. Moreover, when teachers look at electronic screens, their eyes will become dry and uncomfortable.

2. Communication barriers. Part of the reason why children experience temporary language delays during their growth stages is because after being exposed to mobile phones, children communicate with cold electronic screens all day long and lack interaction with their families. This also causes some children to speak late.

3. Sleep disorders. Not sleeping at night, and electronic screens will affect the body's hormone levels, thereby affecting children's sleep.

4. Receive too many spam messages. When children play with mobile phones, there is a lot of content on the mobile phones, and sometimes there will be some pop-ups with bad information. Children are young and lack the sense of judgment, so they are easily affected.

5. Inert thinking. When some children encounter a problem, they will not take the initiative to think, but just copy it on Baidu. They lack the ability to actively explore and divergent association, and have no creativity.

What should parents do?

1. Control often.

When a child wants to play with his mobile phone, he can control the time he plays, for example, he can only play for 20 minutes or half an hour, etc.

2. Control content. For example, some children use Kuaishou, Douyin, etc. You should control what your children watch, and strictly resist those that are vulgar and in bad taste.

3. Teach patiently. If the child does not have a clear understanding of this information, parents should help the child understand it and convey correct ideas and values ??to him.

4. Lead by example. Parents should communicate more with their children after get off work or on vacation, and play with them more, such as reading to them, painting with them, etc. Parental company is actually more important than mobile phones.

Today’s children are highly spiritual and self-taught. They can learn many functions of mobile phones in a few days. My child is like this. He wants to play games and watch cartoons whenever he has time every day. Especially on Saturdays and Sundays, he doesn’t go out to play. He spends the whole day playing games. Looking at mobile phones for a long time is not good for the eyes, and he doesn’t want to do his daily homework. You said you yelled at him and he put it down for the time being, but he was always thinking about his mobile phone. Whenever he had a chance, he would play with it secretly. If there was a problem, he had to solve it in time.

After a period of exploration, we found a set of "effective" methods.

①Lock the phone. Parents' approval is required before viewing mobile phones.

②Do your homework first, then play with your mobile phone.

③Using mobile phones for no more than half an hour at a time is required.

④Restrict the content you watch.

⑤Enforce the above measures.

It is impossible to completely eliminate it, and some homework also requires mobile phones to be completed. In fact, children don’t just play with mobile phones. Parents should spend more time with their children. They can play chess at home, or they can go outdoors to a nearby park together. They can play roller skating, skateboarding, playing ball, kickball and other sports. Find something that the child likes to play together, even if it is Learning can also be done with your children, especially mathematics. You can find interesting calculation and application problems, and compare them with your children. If you can’t do it, your children will do it well. Just encourage them, and their confidence will double, and they will learn better. Fun (I myself use math software to learn and compare with my children), which gradually reduces children's dependence on mobile phones. The more parents accompany them, the less dependent their children are on mobile phones. ...Use your brain every day to stay young; stay with your parents and children and leave no regrets!