Thinking of our conversation, I said: accept everything, this sentence is so sad! You said: I have seen through it ... I said: when you get married, you won't have time to chat. You replied: yes, married, with children, there is no time ... and you said: go to bed early. I remember my answer was: Let's talk again, and treat each chat as the last time ... Miyazaki Hayao said: When the person accompanying you wants to get off the bus, even if you can't bear it, you should wave goodbye. It is also this kind of acceptance!
? The book also says that avoiding pain will aggravate our anxiety and indignation. By admitting that pain is impermanent, we can focus on dealing with the problem itself, rather than obsessing about the wronged emotions. Pain is inevitable. When it happens, we should accept it instead of obsessing about why it happened.
If there is a way to solve the problem, don't worry. It's no use worrying if there is no way to solve it.
Three major pains of Buddhism:
Suffering, everyone thinks suffering is like a broken hand.
Bitter and happy love → the pain of lovelorn, delicious ice cream → gaining weight.
Suffering, all beings are trapped in reincarnation, which is helpless and incomplete.
Excerpts from veil;
People can't find peace from work or happiness.
Or find peace in the real world or in a monastery,
You can only find peace in your own soul!