Experienced people will sigh that many mistakes are made at the most proud time. In life, we can also see many people fall off the altar when the scenery is infinite, and even lose their reputation.
These words in Caigen Tan tell us how to behave and how to avoid disaster when one succeeds.
First, a gentleman's talent, jade beads hidden, can not make people easy to know.
On the surface, this sentence means to hide your talents, and don't be sharp-edged. In fact, this is a truth lying on others. No matter treasure or talent, you can't show off and show off everywhere, so your psychology will change, and it is easy to cause jealousy and framed by others.
A successful person, if he doesn't know how to hide others and is willing to show off everything, is easily suppressed and becomes the object of envy.
In fact, no matter where you are, you should know that it is not a good thing to let everyone know your intelligence (capital), which will not only bring pressure to others, but also make yourself the center of the whirlpool.
Second, full works are often defeated by subtle things.
Details determine success or failure. No matter how successful you are or how high your status is, you may be down and out overnight. A cigarette butt may destroy the whole forest, and the embankment of a thousand miles is destroyed by an ant nest. Be careful what you do, especially when you achieve something.
Many people think that if they succeed, they will have everything, so they will relax and control the details. In fact, at this time, it is very likely that you are too casual and careless and affect the overall situation.
On the other hand, people should have a sense of crisis, otherwise it is easy to stagnate and make various mistakes unconsciously.
Third, after the festival of fame, it is not appropriate to enjoy it alone, but sharing it with others can far harm the whole body; It is not advisable to put all the insults and stigma on yourself, and introduce some to yourself, so that you can hide your strength.
When many people succeed in their careers, they say that all the credit is their own. In fact, what a person can do is very limited.
Such people are stupid. They don't understand the truth. The more they talk about their feelings, the less they contribute. Taking credit for your ignorance will not only make others admire you more, but will cause big trouble and even become the laughing stock of others.
On the contrary, when you achieve something, don't pity your honor. When you encounter mistakes and humiliation, you should take the initiative to bear some, which will do you no harm and attract fewer jealous people.