2-3 years old-childhood
The girl is 7 years old.
The boy is eight years old.
A general term for youth-general perspective
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13- 15 years old-the year of dancing spoon
15-20 years old-the year of dancing.
12 years old (female)-Year of Chai Jin
13 years old (female)-cardamom
15 years old (female)-and the year of death
16 years old (female)-Jasper Years
20 years old (female)-Tao
24 years old (female)-in the prime of life
30 years old (female)-Xu Niang.
20 years old (male)-weak crown
30 years old (male) -30 years old
40 years old (male)-an unquestionable age.
50 years old-over 500 years old, the year of knowing destiny, the year of great development.
60 years old-the year of flower, flat head, listening, Zhang Xiang and reform.
70 years old-ancient and rare, the year of the country, the year of events, and the year of politics.
80 years old (sound Mao Dad)
90 years old
100 years old-Qiyi
Confucius said: I have five out of ten, but I am determined to learn, standing at thirty, not confused at forty, knowing my destiny at fifty, listening to my ears at sixty, and doing what I want at seventy, not exceeding the rules.
Shu of Emperor Xing said that this chapter was Confucius' seclusion to saints and Shu Ren, urging people to study hard.
"Nine times out of ten, I am determined to learn. The word "you" has the same sound and meaning as the word "you". In ancient Chinese syntax, five of ten means five of ten, and the style is fifteen. Confucius said, "I was determined to learn at the age of fifteen. "Biography of Mao Poetry" said: "Poets have aspirations, aspirations in their hearts, and words are poems. According to this explanation, "ambition" is what the heart is, which means wholeheartedly. "Determined to learn" means to concentrate on learning. " "Historical Records Confucius Family" said: "Confucius played for his son, and the imperial guards gave gifts. Confucius knew learning from an early age. Here Confucius said that he was fifteen years old and devoted himself to studying, and Huang Xing's Shu was interpreted according to White Tiger Tongbi Yong. Fifteen is the age of adulthood, so he has been studying since he was fifteen. Liu's "Justice" According to the "White Tiger Biography", 15 years old is the year of entering the university, and what he has learned is the classics. According to the Book of Rites University, from the beginning of knowing things to the end of governing the country and the world, Liu is a classic learned by the university.
"Thirty. The emperor's "Shu": "Li, that is, what you have learned, is also established. Liu's Theory of Justice: "Standing is learning." . From the age of fifteen, I was determined to learn. By the age of thirty, what I had learned had been established. In other words, learning is rooted and powerful, which cannot be shaken by external forces.
"Forty without confusion." Kong Anguo notes that "not confused" means not confused. Cheng Shude's The Analects of Confucius quotes the last three sentences of Huang's The Analects of Confucius: "If you stand, you must not be confused first, and then you will not be confused. Why not?" Confucius said, you can stand with it, not with it. Stand up and observe the scriptures. Don't be confused, also reach the right. "Don't be confused", you can exercise your power when something happens, nothing, nothing. "Li" means: you can do it, but you can't do it. I don't know how to change. Therefore, "stand at thirty, but don't be confused at forty."
"You know your destiny at the age of fifty." Destiny "is a command from heaven. For example, Liu's Justice quoted Dong Zhongshu's Hanshu as saying: "God's will means fate. Liu's "Theory of Justice" said: "Those who know the destiny, their confidants, are born in vain. Master Gai, when Zhou declined, saints did not last long. When you are 50 years old, you can learn the Book of Changes and know that you have something to do, but it's no big deal to be modest. Then the reason why Heaven gave birth to itself is to live up to itself. Therefore, I have a responsibility to know my own destiny. Life depends on itself, but by heaven, saints dare not resign. Confucius studied Yi, but he knew his own destiny. Although we know the destiny, we may not know it, so we must first believe the holy word to learn it.
"Sixty and obedient. Zheng Kangcheng's note: "Listen to his ears, smell his words and know his meaning." The emperor's Shu: "But if you listen to what he says, you will know its meaning. Listen to what you don't listen to, so listen. The emperor's Shu is quoted as saying: "The heart follows the ear, so the ear obeys." Shunza's Shuo Wen: "Reason also damages the page. Zhu Duan believes that the circulation from the top of the head to the heel, such as a river, is smooth. Follow it, and you will see justice and organization. It can be seen that "listening to the ear" means that the function of the ear has been psychologically smooth for yourself and others, so you can smell what others are saying, that is, you know what others are thinking. This is a place where you can hear and hear.
"Do it at seventy, and don't exceed the moment." Obedience from the heart Moment is a tool to end one side, and prose is a giant, which extends to the meaning of statutes. At the age of seventy, Confucius obeyed his own inner wishes without overstepping the rules. It is natural and legal to follow one's inclinations, that is, to be tempted without deviating from the Tao.
Cheng Shude's Annotations on the Analects of Confucius quoted Gu Xiancheng's lecture notes and said, "This chapter is a chronicle of Confucius' life and a wonderful recipe for masterpieces throughout the ages. Guggenheim believes that Confucius' ambition to study at the age of fifteen to forty is to cultivate the realm. Fifty knowing the destiny is awakening. Sixty is obedient, and seventy is from the heart, which is proof. Guggenheim said that makes sense.
This is Confucius' self-report. Why did Confucius make a self-report when he talked about being a politician? Confucius was 72 years old. In a few simple sentences, he reported his life experience and the spirit of hard struggle. His background is very poor. When his father died, he also had a semi-disabled brother and a sister. He has a heavy responsibility to shoulder this burden for his family.
He said that when he was fifteen, he was determined to study. Fifteen years later, according to his rich experience and life training, he stood at the age of thirty. "Standing still, the principle of doing things remains the same. Decided that this person must go this way.
But at this time, there are still doubts and vacillations. "I am very confused at the age of forty." Forty years old, I don't doubt it, but this is for metaphysical study and life.
Ten years later, I won't know my fate until I'm fifty. Fate is the universal source of philosophy, which is the ontological scope of metaphysics.
At the age of 60, the problem comes again. Did Confucius have any problems with his ears before he was 60 years old, and his ears were inflamed? This sentence is difficult to explain. Maybe there was a leak. It may be "60". There is a sentence to read below. If it doesn't change, the principle of "obedience" is that from the age of 15, I have learned how to be a man and how to cultivate myself. At the age of 60, even if others say good things or bad things, I can listen, not tempted or angry. If you scold me, I can listen to them and feel calm. Attention! Peace of mind is not dead, it is very lively, and right and wrong, good and evil are very clear. It's hard to learn that good people feel cute, and bad people feel that they need help to become good people.
Then spend another ten years "doing what you want to do." Western culture is free, but there is a very important saying: "Don't overstep the rules". Let's go out and have a look. This steamed stuffed bun is well made, so we can eat it. It's "we can do whatever we want"! Is it okay? Don't cross the line. There should be a range between people. "Do whatever you want"-freedom can't go beyond this range, so "don't go beyond the moment" also conveys the metaphysical truth.
In addition, 80 ~ 90 years old is called octogenarian; 100 years old is called "Yi", and the Book of Rites Quli says: "Yi is a hundred years old." It means that life lasts for a hundred years, so it is called "the year of life". Chen Yuan Hao explained: "Life is a hundred years, so it is a period; I am embarrassed that everything I eat and drink is moving. "
It seems that there are few nicknames for 20 years old, and there are many nicknames close to its age, such as twelve years old for girls. Called Jin Chainian; The woman is thirteen years old and her name is cardamom. The female is fifteen years old and is called "she" (Book of Rites: "The female is five years old." ) ; Women 16 years old, known as the year when Jasper's youth broke the melon (the word "melon" was broken down into 2008 by scholars in the old days, known as 16 years old, mostly used for women. ) 。 When a man is twenty years old, he is called a "weak crown" (Book of Rites Quli: "Twenty is a weak crown." )。
Standing at 30, not confused at 40, knowing destiny at 50, obeying at 60, and interpreting at 70.
Eighty-year-olds and centenarians
What does it mean to stand at the age of 30?
A 30-year-old person should be able to rely on his own skills and independently assume his own responsibilities, and has already determined his own life goals and development direction. In short, a 30-year-old should be able to face everything calmly. It can be summarized in three aspects.
Standing, standing is to establish your own character and self-cultivation. I think it should include three aspects: ideological cultivation, moral cultivation and ability cultivation. Self-improvement is the foundation of our life. Don't pin your needs on the support of your parents and the help of others. That's a sign of weakness. Standing is the minimum requirement for everyone to stand in society.
Establishing a career is to establish what you are engaged in, and people in their thirties should have a relatively stable career. In every career, you must have skills, which is to have a skill in modern terms. This is a necessity to make a living. With the development of modern science and technology, the requirements for everyone in all aspects will be higher and higher. China's surplus labor force has intensified this excessive demand, which is only a special phenomenon in this special historical period. Establishing a career is not only a means of survival, but also a necessary condition for fulfilling social responsibilities.
Starting a family means having your own family. The fierce competition in today's society has delayed the time for young people to get married, but I still think it is not too early to get married at the age of 30. As for getting married or starting a career first, everyone's situation is different, and there is no need to distinguish which is the first and which is the last. Young people must take on social and family responsibilities, or earlier.
Standing at the age of 30 is the minimum requirement for young people, but the reality is far from our expectations, which is of course related to China people's doting on their children and employment pressure, which is also the characteristic of China!
Forty without confusion, what do you know?
"forty without confusion", until forty years old, I don't doubt it. Forty-year-olds are chewing the changes of the times and feeling the ruthlessness of the years. It's been a long time After forty years of doubt, hesitation, excitement and joy, this is meditation, this is epiphany ... less * *, more calm; Less impulsive, more calm; Less trouble, more reason; Less laissez-faire and more responsibility; Less blind obedience, more self ... a 40-year-old man, very rational and sober, external, he understands society; In his heart, he knows himself; For himself, he understands his responsibility.
On the surface, he knows this society. People can't live without society. The more advanced society is, the more people will depend on it. This 40-year-old man is no longer young. He lacks the illusion of society and the desire to join the society. His life experience has somewhat smoothed out, and he has become more calm. Frustration made him understand that the relationship between people and society is the relationship between individuals and groups. Individuals are part of the group, and individuals can't control the group. Therefore, we must face it squarely. Personal ideals and wishes must be based on the real society, otherwise it is a pipe dream. He will have a power to calmly deal with the outside world.
In his heart, he knows himself. So the so-called growth is to make the heart stronger through experience, and the so-called return to life is to turn external things into internal energy. Have ideals, not delusions; Have desires, but don't expect them; Do something, but do nothing. There is an ideal that I think should be there, but the key is to take care of it and practice it; You can have a wish, and the key is to be practical; Moderation is the key to success. Forty years old is the most practical age. They have gone through half their lives, and there are fewer opportunities and opportunities. They should not make mistakes again and take detours.
For himself, he understands his responsibility. The greatest feature of a 40-year-old man is to understand his responsibilities. He must bear social responsibility, family responsibility and the responsibility of raising children. First of all, he must do his job well, which is not only the need of survival, but also the contribution to society and the social responsibility he must fulfill. Only the efforts of every member of society can bring about the progress of the whole society. Secondly, a 40-year-old man, whose parents are old, must bear the family responsibility of supporting the elderly and do his best to be filial as soon as possible; Also, the children of 40-year-olds are in the learning stage. Cultivating and educating children is the responsibility of parents, and it is also the social responsibility of social continuity and development.
A 40-year-old man is a glorious period of life, and also a period of greatest contribution to society and family.
You knew your destiny at the age of fifty. Do you think it's weird?
You knew your destiny at the age of fifty. In China's ancient philosophy, heaven was regarded as a god, which could decide the fate of mankind. In Confucius' theory, there is also the view of "destiny". Confucius "knows destiny at fifty", and "destiny" is what we are talking about today. He knows there must be something in life. Don't force what you don't have in life. Lotte knows that life is not forced at all. By the age of fifty, he understood this truth and everything. No matter whether this statement is right or not, no matter how many statements there are, I think "fate" is very simple, that is, what you should do and what kind of person you should become. To put it bluntly, it is a kind of outlook on life. "Destiny", providence or command, is extended to inevitability or fate. Life has passed more than half, and the basic outline is faintly visible. Both knowledge, experience and self-control have reached the highest level, and the basic direction should remain unchanged. At the age of 50, I know my destiny and don't complain; Know your life orientation, especially people; Know your unfinished responsibilities and never slack off.
Know your destiny, don't complain. At the age of 30, most people's life trajectory is tortuous, but it is advancing by leaps and bounds. At the age of 40, the trajectory of life reached its peak, and it was relatively stable at the age of 50. If there are no special circumstances, it is difficult to have another big fluctuation. Fifty-year-olds have spent most of their lives and are in the most sober stage of their lives. They will never complain about the injustice of heaven, but silently accept the existing reality. But also very clearly predict their future, will work and live very quietly.
It is especially important to know your life position. After more than 20 years of hard work, he has a career. No matter what his occupation is, after more than 20 years' efforts, his professional level, technical level, experience, decision-making ability and personal accomplishment have reached a very high level in his life, and he can be said to have certain strength. Economically, after more than 20 years of accumulation, it also has certain financial resources; Moreover, after more than 20 years of training and rich experience, I have improved my ability in all aspects. Although everyone's strength, financial resources and ability are different, their influence on society is not the same, but by the age of 50, these aspects should be said to be at a higher level. A 50-year-old man will never complain again. He knows his life orientation and is used to the role he should play.
Know your unfinished responsibilities and never slack off. Fifty-year-olds have not yet reached retirement age, but they are not out of reach. At this time, everyone will think of continuing to work for ten years and fulfilling their social responsibilities; Fifty-year-old people, whose parents are old, often rush about for the trivial things of the elderly because they have to fulfill their family responsibilities; Fifty-year-old people, their children are in a critical period of study and employment, and their children's future is often the most concerned and concerned thing. They must try their best to be good parents. Every time a 50-year-old thinks about his unfinished responsibilities, he feels that time waits for no one, and he dare not slack off and make unremitting efforts to fulfill his due responsibilities.
Fifty-year-old people, in the most mature stage of life, success and glory bring happiness, but they are often accompanied by some pressure, but they can face it calmly because they know the society, but they know themselves better!
Sixty years old, what have you seen?
At the age of 60, although people say good things and bad things, they can listen, not be tempted or angry, and their hearts are still calm. Hu Shi said: Listening to the ear is tolerant of "unpleasant words", and listening to "unpleasant words" does not feel "unpleasant". I think it's more important that people of this age can think calmly no matter what they hear or what twists and turns they encounter, so that their emotions can conform to the objective environment and the laws of things, and learn not to be irritable, discouraged, sad or shrink back, so as to achieve a consistent situation. In my opinion, the highest state of self-cultivation is to be able to control and grasp yourself. At the age of 60, it can be said that it has reached or approached this state. Sixty-year-olds see through life; Sixty-year-olds see through life; A 60-year-old man sees through fame and fortune.
A 60-year-old man sees through life. Life is divided into three periods: from birth to entering the society, it is to learn all kinds of knowledge, skills and life, and it is a stage around the age of twenty, which I call growth period; 20 years old, working until retirement. These forty years are the working stage, contributing to the society, contributing to the family, supporting the elderly and raising children, which I call the contribution period; From retirement, from social role to family role, I call it harvest period. People who are 60 years old are willing to accept this reality when they understand this. They clearly know that people of every age should have the life that people of that age should have.
60-year-olds see through life. Life, life depends on life, and life determines and affects life. Therefore, it is most important for a 60-year-old to live a good life. A healthy and happy life can not only reduce the burden on children, but also contribute to society, at least reducing the consumption of medical resources. The meaning of life is that your contribution to society and others is greater than your demand for society and others. If you do it, you won't regret it.
A 60-year-old man sees through fame and fortune. At work, the role in your career determines your social status; When you retire, your corresponding role has changed, from social role to family role, and your original role has returned to society accordingly. For example, what are you at work? A director, a section chief, a director, an engineer, a teacher, a doctor ... When you retire, you are called a retiree. As for profit, your retirement pension is bound to be less than your salary in the post. Just arrange your life according to your income. No matter how much property you have, you will leave it to your children when you die. Only your body is your own. If you are ill, no one else can take your place. If you are healthy and happy, others can't control you.
A 60-year-old man has experienced years of polishing, twists and turns and setbacks, leaving only the footprints of his life, but what he has achieved is his rich experience, cultivation and accomplishment. A 60-year-old man is the late autumn of his life. His pace of life is very slow, but he can savor life, appreciate all kinds of scenery during the journey, enjoy the sense of accomplishment after giving his hard work to the society, enjoy a carefree and relaxed life, and enjoy the unique feeling brought by tasting sweet and sour memories. A 60-year-old man is in the late autumn of his life, but only in the late autumn can he have his unique style!
How should I do what I really want to do?
Seventy do what you want from the heart. It's very simple, that is, obey your own ideas and do whatever you want. But the last three words are very important: don't go beyond the rules, don't break the rules, then, what should I do? I think it should be: let nature take its course; Be happy with what you want; Do you want to do it or not?
Let nature take its course, follow one's inclinations, have no complaints about the outside world, don't care about the amount of pension, don't care about whether children come often, don't have high requirements for material life, as long as they can eat well, the house is not big enough to live in, do what they are interested in, don't care about other people's opinions, don't panic about physical aging, and don't fear death, let nature take its course.
Everything goes with the times, face all kinds of life experiences calmly, encounter happy things, don't be overly excited, encounter sad things, get rid of sadness as soon as possible, encounter frustrated things, don't care, even face the pain calmly and bear it silently. In short, no matter what happens, you will keep a calm and stable mental state.
Do you want to do it or not? What you want in your heart doesn't mean you don't care about anything. If you don't overstep the rules, you must follow the rules. What rules should you follow? I think it's just three words: reasonable method. Generally speaking, no one will do anything illegal, but pay attention to how to make it reasonable. Between old comrades, old classmates and old friends, and within the family, we should be more reasonable. Even within the family, we should only be reasonable, and there is no right or wrong. The old couple will spend the rest of their lives healthily, which is happiness. As long as it is reasonable, you can do whatever you want, as long as you are interested, as long as you are happy, as long as you are happy.
Some people say that a 60-year-old person is the same as an official, and a 70-year-old person is the same as the rich and the poor. There is some truth in this. After the age of 70, everyone is the same, pursuing good health, which is the basic condition to ensure the quality of life. Not pursuing longevity, pursuing high-quality life, high-quality life, is the most perfect life. In the middle of a journey, 70 years old is also a period of life. The first 70 years are a new starting point. If you always put yourself on the journey of life, you will feel that there is plenty of time, you will not sigh that you are old and weak, and you will live happily every day. Looking ahead, there will always be new life content and new happiness in a new day, and you will see a copy of life.