Now there are more and more people on WeChat, but few people can really talk. Shouting to eat, exercise and go shopping every day is just lip service. As for how long I haven't eaten with others, only I know. I'm too lazy to go shopping, hook up, chat, socialize or even eat in the cafeteria. Unit party, don't chat, don't drink, just eat your own food. The selfie sent to the circle of friends was only praised by three people for half an hour, and then secretly deleted.

I have long been used to staying in the comfort zone, afraid of being rejected when socializing with others, afraid of not being able to integrate into other people's circles, afraid of not being able to pick up other people's topics, afraid of chatting, echoing and forcing a smile. Although I say that a person is free, I always peek at other people's circle of friends and envy the lively life. In fact, to change the status quo of loneliness, just send "Are you free?" In the wechat dialog box. Have dinner together. "The difficult thing is to overcome your original determination and take the first step to get rid of loneliness.

Second, "violence can never win you, only by maintaining dignity can we overcome everything."

A recent news triggered a heated discussion-"Because of one sentence, the woman pushed the 74-year-old man out of the car and killed him." Kadaisha, a 25-year-old American woman, pushed Serge, a 74-year-old man, off the bus because the old man advised her to be friendly to others, which led to her unfortunate death. In the future, she will only face endless responsibilities and jail.

In Green Book, Betty Black Tang was treated unfairly by the white police. Tony, as his driver and friend, injured the abusive police in order to get angry, which eventually led them to be trapped in a cage and almost missed the next performance. Obviously, the injustice of the police is the first, but it is oneself who gets into trouble in the end. Many people in life are also like this, and they are carried away by anger whenever something happens. Obviously, I am reasonable, but because of my reckless behavior style, I was jailed. In the end, I was wrong, but I was beaten. Guiguzi advocates that people should "do things slowly" and don't wave their fists blindly. After all, fists have no brains. When encountering difficulties that can't be solved in time, first "let go", think from multiple angles and aspects, and there will always be another village.

Third, "superiority is just a state of mind, which does not mean that you are really better than others."

Superiority refers to the quality or state of showing contempt or conceit, which is a kind of self-awareness. Most people will have different degrees of superiority, such as professional superiority and value superiority. Generally speaking, it is a psychological state of being identified as being better than others in physical and psychological aspects. In the final analysis, it is a self-righteous feeling, or just an illusion. The sense of superiority can help us overcome our inner inferiority to a certain extent, but it often blinds our eyes and makes us unaware of our own shortcomings.

At this point, I have to talk about Einstein. The greatest scientist of the twentieth century, whose contribution is smaller than who? But he never thought he was special or superior. He only attributed his contribution to "curiosity" and said nothing more. He simply believes that his creative psychological activities are stimulated by "monotonous and quiet life". He said: "I always find the vulgar goals that people strive for-property, vanity and luxury-contemptible." He thinks this is an "ideal of pigsty". He is very attentive to his conscience. He said: "My life is based on so much work done by my compatriots, which often makes me feel heavy. Therefore, I am deeply aware of my obligations to them. "