Guo Degang once said: "You don't know my pain, so don't persuade me to be generous."

Throughout life, many people do not know the reasons and just stand on the moral high ground and comment on others in vain. Little did he know that he was cutting into other people's hearts with an invisible sharp knife. And become an invisible tool for killing people in disguise.

Hemingway once said:

In this life, it takes two years to learn to speak, but it takes a lifetime to learn to shut up.

As a human being, you must know how to control your mouth and do not say these words casually: do not judge others casually, do not repeat old things to others, and do not tell others your secrets.

Watch your mouth and don’t judge others casually

The ancients said: Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don’t gossip about others.

When you see others doing this or that, you should think about what you are like, whether you are in the same category, and whether you are also like this. Looking at others is the best mirror for yourself. Everyone has a share of care and love. If you are tolerant, then I believe the world around you will be smiling.

Judging others casually will cause great harm to others.

I remembered that the heroine Ye Lanqiu in the movie "Search" I had seen before had her peaceful life broken because she went to the hospital for a physical examination. Her physical examination report showed that she had cancer. I didn't want to believe that this was true, so I sat on the bus and couldn't come to my senses for a long time.

Then on the bus, people were coming and going. An old man got on the bus, walked next to her, and asked Ye Lanqiu to give up his seat because he was old.

Ye Lanqiu wore a pair of sunglasses. She probably didn't want others to see her sadness and was still immersed in her own pain. She sat there blankly, ignoring the old man.

Everyone on the bus criticized Ye Lanqiu. One of the aunts said angrily: "You are so beautiful, you shouldn't take the bus!" ?

Ye Lanqiu patted his thigh angrily and said, if you want to sit down, just sit here.

Ye Lanqiu's actions and words became the target of criticism, and the whole process happened to be photographed by an intern reporter.

The intern reporter showed the video to her boss, who thought it was breaking news and immediately posted it online. This also became one of the reasons why Ye Lanqiu chose to commit suicide by jumping off the building.

Since the video was released, people all over the Internet have been scolding Ye Lanqiu, accusing her of teasing the elderly and being uneducated. Some people even started doxxing her, causing serious damage to her life. It's caused by online violence.

A person relies on the screen and thinks that he has watched a video and feels that it is all other people's fault. He opens his mouth and shuts up to blame others, evaluate other people's behavior, and interfere with other people's lives. Such people are actually the most uncultivated.

Watch your mouth and don’t spread lies

In "Twenty Not Confused", Luo Yan was molested by a gangster and argued with the gangster. Her roommate Liang Shuang was also there at the time. He came to help and then recorded the video, but because Luo Yan accidentally pushed Liang Shuang, some people who confuse right and wrong caused a prank, edited another video, and posted it on the Internet, causing everyone to accuse Luo Yan of being ungrateful. Liang Shuang helped her and pushed a kind person, so he deserved to be sexually harassed. ?

At that time, Liang Shuang also became popular because of this video, and his fans quickly increased, but he did not come forward to help Luo Yan clarify.

Actually, Luo Yan pushed Liang Shuang away just to save Liang Shuang from being bullied by the gangster, so she accidentally pushed Liang Shuang away.

At first, Luo Yan was accused and scolded by netizens. She said she didn't care on the surface, but in fact it had disturbed her life. In school, someone secretly filmed Luo Yan and then continued to play pranks. In fact, Luo Yan was secretly filming her in school. I am very concerned and very sad. I am obviously a victim, but I have been made into a person who does not understand moral integrity. This is simply an insult to me.

Zeng Guofan once said: Only when you know people without judging them can you become a master.

The highest virtue in life is to control your own mouth and not judge others casually, because you are quick to say something for a moment or because you use generalizations to seriously destroy other people's happy lives.

As a human being, don't spread rumors by spreading rumors. Only by accumulating virtue through words can you gather blessings.

Watch your mouth and don’t talk about yourself to others casually

Master Hongyi once said: Don’t have false thoughts in your heart, don’t act rashly in your body, and don’t speak rashly in your mouth.

The human heart is complex but unpredictable.

In this life, no matter how you live or what your past is, don’t tell others casually.

When you have something to say in secret, and you think that person is good to you, you just tell her casually, but she is actually a loudspeaker. If you tell her, the whole world will know, and you will be embarrassed. Just yourself.

When you encounter many unfortunate things, don’t tell everyone that there is no one in this world who can empathize with you. Others may not care about what happened to you, and will end up treating you like nothing. Laughter later.

Sometimes, the more you talk, it will only bring disaster to yourself. Don’t talk about your privacy everywhere. If you mention it too much, it will only cause trouble.

Many things are not what we see with our eyes. Life itself is a big drama! As a person in the drama, you should have the attitude of a person in the drama towards what you see, and don’t make rash comments!

Because what you impose on others may happen to you one day! Silence is golden, sometimes it’s not just words! Come to this world, whoever is not working hard to live, the best evaluation of others is to shut up.