1. It is impossible for a person with an imperfect personality to become a person who really makes a difference.

You can't just live in one person's world. You should learn to communicate with people from all walks of life and actively express your views and opinions on various things.

A first-class person and an ordinary person may have the same performance on general issues, but their performance on first-class issues will be very different.

Only proactive people can succeed in the ever-changing competitive environment, and only those who are good at showing themselves can get real opportunities in their work.

Only those who dare to face reality and meet challenges can truly achieve the goal of surpassing themselves and reach the realm of Excellence.

6. There is a common problem in China society, that is, everyone is expected to develop according to a model, and whether everyone is "successful" is measured by a unified standard: achievement in school and fame and fortune in society. Real success should be diversified. Success may be that you have created new wealth or technology, you have brought happiness to others, your work has won the trust of others, and you have found a self-returning and peaceful lifestyle. Everyone's success is unique.

7. Everyone should know his interests, passions and abilities, and give full play to his potential in his passionate field.

8. Whether it is to drive away sadness or get happiness, we need to get positive encouragement from conversation and communication.

9. Have the courage to change what can be changed, the mind to accept what cannot be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish the difference between the two.

10. University is a key stage in life. This is because this is your last chance to receive a systematic education in your life. This is the last time you devote yourself to building your own knowledge base. This may be the last stage in your life where you can spend a lot of time studying, or it may be the last stage where you can have high plasticity and concentrate on enriching yourself. This may be the last time you learn how to be a man in a relatively tolerant and ideal environment.

1 1. Some students learn English just to pass CET-4 and CET-6, some students learn English just to find the necessary skills for a job, and some even think that learning and using English is equal to worshipping foreign things and obsessing foreign things. In fact, the fundamental purpose of learning English is to master an important learning and communication tool.

12. No matter what major or course you study, you can have a deeper understanding of the knowledge system and firmly remember what you have learned through comprehensive study and hard practice. When you go out to work or do projects, don't just pay attention to salary (unless you really have difficulties in life). Sometimes even if the salary is not satisfactory, there are many opportunities for exercise and practice, which is worth a try.

13. Don't take things recognized and valued by society, family or friends as your hobby; Don't think that the interesting thing is your interest, but experience it personally and make judgments with your own mind; Don't think that what you are interested in can become your career.

14. I think honesty, integrity, initiative, good communication and lifelong efforts are the personal qualities that China students need most.

If you want to be a successful leader, the most important thing is not your IQ, but your EQ. The most important thing is not to be a charismatic and persuasive leader, but to be a modest, persistent and courageous leader.

16. It is best to constantly compete with yourself-don't always try to surpass others, but try to surpass yourself and make progress at your own level.

17. Consciousness, empathy, self-discipline and interpersonal relationship are four key factors that play a decisive role in the success or failure of modern people's career.

18. Only those who make unremitting efforts, are good at grasping themselves and dare to meet challenges can achieve real success.

19. Success means being the best you can be.

20. Those who dare to try must be smart, and only those who dare not try are absolute losers.

2 1. Self-confidence is conscious rather than arrogant. With perseverance and courage, we can gain confidence from success and increase our consciousness from failure.

22. Strengthen your strengths and manage your weaknesses. Gain self-confidence from success and increase self-awareness from failure.

23. To live for yourself is to work hard for your own happiness, interests and life goals, rather than living in other people's values.

24. The power of optimism and positive thinking is infinite. How do you know you can't if you haven't tried it?

25. Have the courage to change things that can be changed, the yardstick to accept things that cannot be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish differences.

Seven things that students should learn: self-study, basic knowledge, practice integration, interest cultivation, initiative, time control and dealing with people.

27. With a proactive attitude, nothing can be done.

28. A person is defeated not because of the external environment, but because of his reaction to the environment.

29. Passivity means abstention. If it can't be solved, it is also solved. Not making a decision is also a decision. Negative solutions and decisions will make the opportunities in front of you disappear.

30. Every door of opportunity has a gatekeeper, but sinking into the sea doesn't mean being in vain.

3 1. Don't be fooled by the creed, blindly following the creed is to live in other people's lives. Don't let anyone's point of view drown out your inner voice.

32. Active steps: have a positive attitude, face life optimistically → stay away from passive habits and start from small things (don't blindly listen to people's words, calmly analyze and actively verify; Don't let things come to you, you should take the initiative to influence things; Don't habitually echo or follow others, learn to be "independent"; Don't say "I can't do it", try actively) → Be responsible for yourself and control your own destiny → Try actively, be fully prepared, strive actively and create opportunities to improve yourself actively.