This is not selfish, but shows that you have the ability to care and be kind to others.
A person who doesn't even know how to be good to himself, let alone to others.
What kind of person you are and how you treat others.
How can a person who is mean to himself be tolerant of others?
How can a person who doesn't like himself have the ability to love others?
Caring for yourself and being kind to yourself is an opportunity for you to gain love from your heart and let others be kind to you.
Sean Xiao, a star, once said, "First of all, you should live a good life, and then you will have leisure to pursue your favorite star."
Back to real life, too.
Only by living a good life can we have the spare capacity and ability to choose the life and work we like.
Otherwise, your life is a mess. What ability do you have to pursue the life you want and how to realize your dreams and ideals?
Only by caring for and being kind to yourself and making yourself a better self can you have a chance to live the life you want.
When a person doesn't even care about himself, how can he care about others except himself?
Everything is people-oriented. Only by living well can we have the opportunity and ability to love others.
How can a person who doesn't even love himself love others unconditionally and sincerely?
If you don't care about yourself and treat yourself well, how can you be cared for and treated by others?
Sometimes getting along with people is really subtle.
When you love yourself, you can not only get the love of others, but also get the support and protection of others no matter what you do.
There is a famous saying: "God helps those who help themselves."
When you know how to care and treat yourself well, others will naturally care and treat you well.