Shakespeare has a famous saying: A virtuous woman, even if she looks ugly, is also a decoration for the family.

There is a famous question at the Austrian Association for Girls' Care.

"If a family has two children, but only one education fund, who would you vote for?"

"Vote for the daughter."

"Why ? ”

“Because when you educate a boy, you only educate an individual; when you educate a girl, you educate a family, a nation, and a country. ”

< p> In fact, we can see here that the importance and influence of a woman on the family is far beyond that of a man. As often mentioned, women are the superior Feng Shui of a family and directly determine the temperature and direction of a family.

What kind of wife a man marries not only means what kind of life he chooses, but also what kind of height and level he can reach in this life, which is often determined by his wife.

As the old saying goes, a woman’s wrong marriage will ruin her whole life, and a man’s wrong marriage will ruin three generations.

There are some phenomena that we cannot deny and have to believe and obey. Marriage is a lifelong event.

Lincoln once said: "Everything I am, everything I am, I owe to my angelic mother. If relatives are not harmonious, the family will fail." For men, it is important to find someone who can be down-to-earth. , A woman who lives with her wholeheartedly is really important. So many times, we can't choose appearance or figure, but we must pay more attention to inner quality.

A reminder to men: Women with these six characteristics are not suitable for life! First, it is difficult to arrange the order of life.

A few years ago, there was a topic about "the most important order of Papi's life", which became a hot search topic.

In "My Girl", Papi Jiang lists the most important priorities in life. Her ranking is: herself, her partner, her children, and her parents.

Maybe this is selfishness in the eyes of the elderly, but I have to say that only when you are better can you have greater ability to love others and protect your loved ones. Only when your husband and wife are better, children and parents Only then will you follow suit.

If you cannot even distinguish this point, or if you always focus on your natal family and only think about your natal family, it will be impossible to live a stable life. If a couple doesn't focus on their own little family, how can that family be steamy? Second, he is overbearing and unreasonable.

The strength here is not the kind of personality, strength and bravery, but purely the kind of strength that is too controlling and self-centered.

When marrying such a woman, unless a man tolerates it blindly, he can avoid the escalation of marital conflicts, otherwise there will be endless quarrels. Men are very likely to become weak, inferior and cowardly later on.

It will destroy the feng shui of the family and destroy the blessings of the three generations up and down.

If there are children in the future, girls are most likely to become like their mothers, while boys are most likely to become like their fathers.

Always demanding others with your own thoughts, and everything must be under your own control and control, which means that the couple simply cannot get along with each other, nor can they communicate together. Third, selfishness and indolence.

Care too much about your own feelings, only consider your own feelings or interests, easily deny others, and will not consider others.

Selfish people are terrible, like a bottomless pit that can never be filled. No matter how hard you work or how much you pay, you can always be easily denied with one sentence.

Like a vampire, the parasite lying on your body will never give up until it hollows you out, but it will not touch your greatness.

A family requires the efforts of two people to live well, and of course it cannot rely on just one person. Once a woman is indolent, extravagant and wasteful, her life will definitely be impossible. After all, we are all ordinary people. Fourth, they are ungrateful.

She takes everyone's kindness to her as a due and is not moved. She always feels that the whole world should revolve around her.

You can't tell what is outstanding about her, but she has an inexplicable sense of superiority that is implanted in her bones. It is basically unrealistic to change her outlook on life.

Didn’t someone say that? An ungrateful woman is more terrifying than a poisonous snake.

You don’t know when she will bite you back, and you don’t know when she will take advantage of you and hurt you in turn. To put it bluntly, there is a quality problem. No matter how good your parents are to her, it will still be in vain.

Having a grateful heart is the foundation of being a human being. Don’t be dazzled by the beauty in front of you. Fifth, be good at calculation and scheming.

Generally, people like this have a dark heart. Once they are together, the pain they will bring you is only one aspect.

The most important aspect is that she will make you a human being inside and out, break up family relationships, be at odds with this relative, with that friend, and everyone will gradually stay away from you because of her. go.

What is the most important thing for two people to be together? It's comfortable to get along with.

If you are always on guard against the other party, it is undoubtedly a "gong scheming", and such days will make you exhausted.

In "Forrest Gump", Forrest Gump once described the kind-hearted Jenny: "I have never seen such a beautiful person, she seems to be an angel."

Kindness must be something we cannot ignore. Beauty of the soul is the real beauty. Sixth, vanity is very strong.

The most important thing in living your life is to live your life steadfastly and honestly, and it has nothing to do with others.

It doesn’t matter what others think, it’s what you think that matters most. This is the truth of the old saying "contentment always makes you happy". If you feel you are happy, then you are happy, and your life is not lived for others.

Happiness is something that is self-perceived. There are no unhappy people, it just depends on how you define happiness.

Once a woman's vanity is too strong, she will inevitably love vanity. This is not the most terrifying thing. The most terrifying thing is that her comparisons or comparisons after marriage will drive you crazy.

And it is very easy to do things that exceed the moral bottom line because of your own vanity.

Too much vanity can easily cause people to lose their bottom line and principles and become addicted to their own world, which is completely unreasonable and represents realistic money worship.

The above are the six characteristics of women who are not suitable for life, and they must be taken seriously.

Life passes day by day, and the feelings and experiences each day brings to you will determine the quality of your life. Life is not infinite. Every second is worth taking seriously. Just treat it as an explanation for yourself.

A person only lives one life, and this life is made up of yesterday, today and tomorrow.

In these long years, happiness and comfort are the most important things! You can live a simple life, but you can't live casually. It should be given a certain amount of attention.

I guess there must be many people who think that getting married is a task and that’s it.

Don’t be confused, marriage is not the end, it is clearly a new beginning. After getting married, life has just begun. The most unfortunate days, I think, are not the bad things in front of you, but the negative impact of the bad things in front of you.

It is very likely that you will not be able to get out of it for the rest of your life, taking away your optimism and your enthusiasm.

Life is not easy, nor is it simple. Relying on feelings alone is not enough. Wisdom is also required. The character of both parties is the real cornerstone of life.

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