124. Those who cannot hear flattery are lucky, but those who cannot hear criticism are dangerous. ——Niu Gensheng (2009.3.11)

123. A gentleman does not lose his footing on others, does not lose sight of others, and does not lose sight of others. ——"Book of Rites" (2009.3.10)

122. We must be cautious and pious in our words and deeds. We should welcome and listen to other people's suggestions and maintain a high degree of respect for them. ——Bill Gates (2009.3.9)

121. A gentleman will not flatter others when he is in charge of others, and he will not be dishonest in those when he is in charge of others. ——"Book of Changes" (2009.3.6)

120. Those who are happy for your sadness are enemies, and those who are happy for your happiness are friends. ——Yi Zhongtian (2009.3.5)

119. It is better to speak thoughtfully than eloquently, and to speak appropriately than to flatter. ——Bacon (2009.3.4)

118. The purpose of making friends is to increase your knowledge, not to brag about yourself. So if you talk less and listen more, your interpersonal relationships will be better. ——Zeng Shiqiang (2009.3.3)

117. People who gossip with you will also gossip about you. ——Korean Proverb (2009.3.2)

116. Good When getting along with friends, you should also have a certain degree of tolerance, and don't do everything. ——Yu Dan (2009.2.27)

115. The cheapest thing in the world and the one that can get the most benefits is etiquette. ——Hill (2009.2.26)

114. A phone call is like someone standing at the door knocking on the door. You must answer it sincerely; letters written to others must also be signed. ——Ban Ki-moon (2009.2.25)

113. Words given to others are more important than pearls and jade; words used to hurt others are more important than swords and halberds. ——Sun Tzu (2009.2.24)

112. People with small minds have big tongues. ——Italian Proverb (2009.2.23)

111. It is obviously very important to learn to communicate with others and convince them without shouting. ——Wu Jianmin (2009.2.20)

110. Before speaking, think about whether there is something inappropriate or a better way to say it. ——Liu Yong (2009.2.19)

109. A chattering person is like a leaky boat. Every passenger wants to escape from it. ——Simmons (2009.2.18)

108. The cause of "hurriedness" is not the lack of time to think, but the lack of thinking when there is time. ——Lu Xun (2009.2.17)

107. How a person speaks and what he says shows his taste without exception. ——Hilton (2009.2.16)

106. After reading the book, discuss it, which can improve your listening and expression skills. ——Hillary (2009.2.13)

105. Gentlemen and gentlemen are friends of the same way, and villains are friends of the same interests. ——Ouyang Xiu (2009.2.12)

104. When dealing with brave people, read from the point of no words. ——Zhou Enlai (2009.2.11)

103. If you know how to listen to the other party's conversation and respect the other party's interests, you will be half successful. ——Yuan Yiping (2009.2.10)

102. If the voice is soft, it can more easily penetrate into the vast space; if the face is soft, it can convey warm feelings more freely; if the body is soft, it can It can more accurately express the belief of equality with others. ——Bi Shumin (2009.1.16)

101. If you misuse your intelligence, why bother to stay humble all your life? It is better to study all day long if you make friends indiscriminately. ——Wang Yongbin (2009.1.15)

100. Communication between people is not entirely about language. Sometimes if you do something inappropriate or do not understand etiquette, it will be in the minds of others. Price drop. ——Wu Jianmin (2009.1.14)

99. When talking to others, even if you don’t understand them, you can still figure something out from the other person’s expression. This is respect for the other person.

——Qian Qichen (2009.1.13)

98. Don’t expect too much from a speech. It’s better to hammer in a nail firmly than to press dozens of nails loosely. Pull-out thumbtacks. ——Heinz Redman (2009.1.12)

97. Don’t blame others for what they can’t do, don’t force others for what they can’t do, and don’t suffer for others’ misfortunes. ——"Wen Zhongzi" (2009.1.9)

96. People who always blame others cannot grow, but people who always review themselves will continue to improve. ——Zeng Shiqiang (2009.1.8)

95. Real good friends do not have endless topics to talk about when they are together, but they do not feel embarrassed even if they do not talk together. ——Yi Zhongtian (2009.1.7)

94. Promote your career, don’t let your career push you. ——Franklin (2009.1.6)

93. The most important thing in interpersonal relationships is sincerity. Sincerity is an invincible sword and should be carried wherever you go. ——Sanmao (2009.1.5)

92. Whatever is true, there is one less right; if there is a shortcoming to protect one's shortcomings, one more shortcoming will be added. ——"Zengguang Xianwen" (2009.1.4)

91. Humility is a rare virtue and a beautiful state. It is always close to greatness and can help you achieve success. ——Ding Zhaozhong (2008.12.31)

90. Being knowledgeable but not moral is like a bad man; being moral but not knowledgeable is like a mean man. ——Roosevelt (2008.12.30)

89. When three people work together, loess turns into gold. ——Niu Gensheng (2008.12.29)

88. If a person does not have true feelings, he will not have good interpersonal relationships. ——Zhou Ruchang (2008.12.26)

87. Politeness is the easiest thing to do and the most precious thing. ——Gonchar (2008.12.25)

86. Where the path is narrow, leave one step with others; when the taste is strong, reduce it by three points for others to taste. ——"Cai Gen Tan" (2008.12.24)

85. Those who advise us in private and point out our mistakes are true friends. ——Jack Ma (2008.12.23)

84. To be an honest person, to speak the truth and to do honest things is to seek truth from facts. ——Deng Xiaoping (2008.12.22)

83. Don’t be surprised when something happens suddenly, and don’t get angry when something happens without reason. ——Su Shi (2008.12.19)

82. Three green leaves emerge from the soil of wisdom: good thoughts, good words, and good actions. ——Greek Proverb (2008.12.18)

81. Hearing only compliments is like having only one ear. ——Thai proverb (2008.12.17)

80. To learn alone without friends is to be lonely and ignorant. ——"Xue Ji" (2008.12.16)

79. Be honest with others, and others will not bully you; be honest with others, and everything will be accomplished. ——Feng Yuxiang (2008.12.15)

78. Complaining with resentment will only make the interpersonal relationship vicious and endless. What we will lose is not only our own happiness, but also the happiness of our children and grandchildren. ——Yu Dan (2008.12.12)

77. Every time there is slander, there are always three victims: one is the slanderer, the other is the person being slandered, and the third is the one who believes it to be true.

——Gitman (2008.12.11)

76. Nothing is more evil than falsehood in words; nothing more evil in deeds is greater than harshness. ——Lv Kun (2008.12.10)

75. A friend is someone who sees you through and still likes you. ——Yi Zhongtian (2008.12.9)

74. Being polite and thoughtful costs nothing, but is worth more than anything else. ——Spanish proverb (2008.12.8)

73. The most important thing for people to know each other is to know each other; the most important thing for people to know each other is to know their hearts.

——Mencius (2008.12.5)

72. When people help me, I will never forget it; when I help others, I won’t forget it. ——Hua Luogeng (2008.12.4)

71. Of course, we need to be on guard against bad people, but they are only a minority after all. We cannot stop eating because of choking. In order to guard against a very small number of bad people, we even shut out our friends. ——Li Ka-shing (2008.12.3)

70. When giving a speech, you should not rely on length to convince the audience, but should convince the audience with depth. ——Montesquieu (2008.12.2)

69. The most valuable thing for young people is their honest style, not deceiving themselves and others, and not being greedy for petty advantages. ——Xu Teli (2008.12.1)

68. Hatred cannot quell hatred, and fallacies cannot correct fallacies. They will only add hatred to hatred and mistakes to mistakes. ——Chaucer (2008.11.28)

67. Give an inch of courtesy and receive a foot of courtesy. ——Cao Cao (2008.11.27)

66. A gentleman’s speech should be like a lady’s skirt, the shorter the better. ——Lin Yutang (2008.11.26)

65. The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with upright minds and hearts. ——Einstein (2008.11.25)

64. When a good person welcomes someone, he or she will be as close as a brother; when a bad person welcomes someone, it will harm the enemy. ——Guan Zhong (2008.11.24)

63. A true gentleman is one who is not angry when others do not understand him. ——Wen Huaisha (2008.11.21)

62. If you want to learn to speak, you must stubbornly and persistently make a fool of yourself until you become proficient. ——Bernard Shaw (2008.11.20)

61. To make friends, you must know people truthfully, you must get rid of doubts, and you must ignore minor suspicions. ——Wei Xi (2008.11.19)

60. Blaming other people for covering their noses but not treating your own bad breath will only increase others’ dislike of you. ——Bo Yang (2008.11.18)

59. You should see the shortcomings of the people you like; you should see the strengths of the people you hate. ——Niu Gensheng (2008.11.17)

58. Speech is actually very simple. It means talking about ordinary things, things around you, and your true temperament! ——Yi Shubo (2008.11.14)

57. The most important thing to give a successful speech is to be fully prepared. Failure to prepare means preparing to fail. The best preparation is to always be prepared! ——Yi Shubo (2008.11.13)

56. Be braver and less afraid in life. What is fear? Literally, it means worrying in vain. So, whatever you are afraid of, you should face it! ——Yi Shubo (2008.11.12)

55. Everyone has a mouth, and the mouth has two functions, one is to eat, and the other is to speak. But if you want to have a good meal, you must first say something good! ——Yi Shubo (2008.11.11)

54. Chrysostom is always open, and the smile is always there; life is endless, and speeches are endless! ——Yi Shubo (2008.11.10)

53. What kind of mentality you have, what kind of interpersonal relationships you have, and what kind of quality of life you have. ——Jin Zhengkun (2008.11.7)

52. Good temper is a person’s best clothing in social situations. ——Dude (2008.11.6)

51. One cannot be judged as a gentleman by a moment of praise; one cannot be judged as a villain by a moment of slander. ——Feng Menglong (2008.11.5)

50. The ugly truth is better than the pleasant lie. ——Yuri Bondarev (2008.11.4)

49. Humor is like a blunt knife used in sword practice. It cannot hurt anyone. ——Shakespeare (2008.11.3)

48. Guotou rice is delicious, but excessive words are unpleasant. ——Qian Daxin (2008.10.31)

47. Don’t please people with flattery, don’t make fun of people with big words, and don’t make jokes to anger people.

——Putin (2008.10.30)

46. People who dominate the topic are both rude and ruthless. ——Yu Guangzhong (2008.10.29)

45. The world is never as simple as black and white. No matter what happens, remember to smile. ——Nelson Mandela (2008.10.28)

44. When a man acts, he will judge right and wrong, regardless of profit or loss; he will judge success or failure regardless of success; he will judge eternity regardless of the moment. ——Wang Fuzhi (2008.10.27)

43. One word can create infinite blessings, and one word can remove infinite harm. ——Hu Dayuan (2008.10.24)

42. The shortcut to capture people's hearts is to use the issues that the other party is most concerned about as the topic. ——Carnegie (2008.10.23)

41. A happy person is one who never says bad words in his mouth and never sees anger in his eyes. ——Pestaloch (2008.10.22)

40. A debater seeks to convince people's hearts, not to subjugate them. ——Wang Chong (2008.10.21)

39. To enlighten people's knowledge and move people's thoughts, speeches are indispensable. ——Qiu Jin (2008.10.20)

38. If you want to achieve your goal, it is best to speak to others in a gentle manner. ——Shakespeare (2008.10.17)

37. The speaker's posture, style, behavior, and expression should give the audience a feeling of coordination, balance, and even beauty. ——Qu Xiao (2008.10.16)

36. If used properly, props can make the speaker's words clearer, more interesting, and easier to remember. ——Lucas (2008.10.15)

35. When getting along with others, we must remember: the people we interact with are not people who live purely according to reason or logic, but people who are full of emotions. People who are prejudiced, arrogant and vain. ——Carnegie (2008.10.14)

34. The essence of jealousy is jealousy of fame and wealth. No one will be jealous of the unlucky guy who has never seen his talent in his life. ——Zhou Guoping (2008.10.13)

33. When there are only two choices: lying and silence, silence is also good. ——He Qifang (2008.10.10)

32. A person whose thoughts are full of solemnity will have words full of sublimity. ——Langarnus (2008.10.9)

31. Speech is not only a profession, but also a career, a great career. Speech is not only a science, but also an art, an excellent art. ——Li Yanjie (2008.10.8)

30. Having the ability to speak eloquently will give you the upper hand. ——Egyptian Proverb (2008.10.7)

29. If your tongue turns into a knife, it will cut your lips. ——Western Proverb (2008.10.6)

28. The beauty of language does not mean talking nonsense. ——Lao She (2008.9.28)

27. Those who don’t know when to shut up don’t know when to speak. ——British Proverb (2008.9.27)

26. Shallow thinking makes our language vulgar and inaccurate; and random and messy language makes us more likely to have shallow thoughts. ——George Orwell (2008.9.26)

25. The smile of love is like a magical key that can open the maze of the soul. Its light illuminates everything around it, adding to the surrounding atmosphere warm sympathy, eager expectations and magical apparitions. ——Vasilev (2008.9.25)

24. Even if no one acknowledges what you do for your own conscience, talent, and life, there will be no damage at all. ——Zhou Guoping (2008.9.24)

23. Honesty is a symbol of strength. It shows a person's high self-respect and inner sense of security and dignity. ——Irene Kaser (2008.9.23)

22. If the mountains are steep, they are not high, and if the water is narrow, they are not deep.

——Liu Xiang (2008.9.22)

21. Smile is a noble expression of human beings. ——Hu Shizong (2008.9.21)

20. People who monopolize the topic are both rude and ruthless. ——Yu Guangzhong (2008.9.20)

19. An amiable attitude is a permanent letter of introduction. ——Bacon (2008.9.19)

18. If you don’t think twice about things, you will eventually regret them. People can be patient and worry-free. ——Feng Menglong (2008.9.18)

17. The audience is the mirror of the speaker, and it is a multi-prism, reflecting the image of the speaker from all angles. ——Qu Xiao

16. When you stand on the podium, your demeanor and posture must make the whole audience feel solemn and respectful; when you speak, your behavior must make the listeners calm and respectful. When you are angry, you should avoid being frivolous and pretentious. ——Sun Yat-sen (2008.9.16)

15. When you complain, you are destroying your present moment and losing the moment of creating and enjoying life. ——Zhu Suli (2008.9.15)

14. Small success depends on friends, and big success depends on opponents. ——Yu Shiwei (2008.9.14)

13. In order to emphasize an important point, body movement can shorten the distance between you and the audience. As the distance between you and your audience decreases, greater intimacy develops. ——John Haas (2008.9.13)

12. Don’t get angry at rude words, and don’t surrender to gentle words. ——Russian proverb (2008.9.12)

11. Lin Zhang gave me a gift, which is really valuable. ——Bai Juyi (2008.9.11)

10. If everyone is meddling, nothing is difficult in the world; if everyone is helping others, there are infinite people in the world. ——Lin Xiuzhen (2008.9.10)

9. A person should indeed dare to live regardless of the public's praise or criticism of him. He only cares about whether his life is full of truth and whether he can tell the truth at all. ——Hu Shi (2008.9.9)

8. Frank communication with friends will keep us sensitive to the true feelings, wipe away the clouds from our eyes, and make our mood cheerful again. ——Bi Shumin (2008.9.8)

7. At least half of the miracles that happen to successful people are created by eloquence. ——Thomas (2008.9.7)

6. Think before you go and choose before you speak. ——Wang Anshi (2008.9.6)

5. Speech can faithfully reflect a person’s heart. ——Voltaire (2008.9.5)

4. Do not speak evil words out of your mouth, and do not reflect back on yourself. ——"Book of Rites" (2008.9.4)

3. Be an ordinary person and do serious things. You can love small change, but you must have a big heart. ——Jia Pingwa (2008.9.3)

2. It is better to explain the truth in concise words than to explain the truth in complicated words. ——Zhao Qizheng (2008.9.2)

1. The tongue is the root of benefit and harm, and the mouth is the door of blessing and disaster. ——Proverb (2008.9.1