1。 Don't be late for the appointment for more than 10 minutes, and apologize for being late.
2。 Clothes and hairstyles always maintain a high "cleanliness", spotless, refreshing and pleasant.
3。 Behave gracefully when eating, and there is absolutely no chewing sound.
4。 When drinking coffee, gently put the spoon on the plate, and be sure to pick it up on the plate when drinking.
5。 Don't smoke and don't do as the Romans do in coffee shops and bars.
6。 Friends who meet frequently remember people's tastes: black coffee or milk and sugar, spicy food, alcohol and alcohol consumption.
7。 When giving gifts to others, remember to tear off the price tag carefully (do you want the other party to pay? Or do you want him to know the extent of your friendship? Friendship is priceless)
8。 Try to go shopping with your girlfriend, not your boyfriend, to avoid being nervous, and boys are tortured by time. (except during love, I am willing to fight and suffer)
9。 Remember every good friend's birthday and send a birthday gift or birthday card, which is more gratifying than the expression "the whole world is cold and hot here" at Christmas and New Year.
10。 Keep your wallet tidy and don't stuff money into it.
1 1。 Don't say "leave it to me" easily, it will easily make you break your word. As a girl, I am more afraid of talking nonsense and boasting.
12。 Don't borrow money from others casually, be sure to pay it off as soon as possible. Don't lend money to others unless you are willing to give it to them. I suggest reading the famous saying that the old minister said goodbye to his son in Hamlet.
13。 Know your parents' birthdays and wedding anniversaries-you didn't grow up jumping rocks and drinking northwest wind.
14。 Receive friends in your own home, don't talk big when a phone call comes in, or the prepared drinks and food will become tasteless.
15。 Don't open your mouth when you are looking.
16。 When you enter the glass turnstile, don't crowd with others.
17。 Go to other people's homes, and after finishing your hair in the bathroom, pick up the hair on the ground; Be careful not to leave water stains on the edge of the washbasin, which may make the picky hostess unhappy.
18。 Don't point your finger at strangers, it's very impolite.
19。 When you meet an acquaintance in public, don't talk loudly, let alone scream. That kind of "cuteness" often makes others look askance and embarrass each other.
20。 Don't whisper to a friend in a crowd. If you really have so much to say, I suggest a date for only two people.
2 1。 Look at the goods displayed in the window and counter, don't point to one of them with your feet.
22。 Enter the Spring Gate and wait for the people behind to come in before letting go; The man in front pulled the door for you. Smile and thank you.
23。 Don't let people think you are angry when you go out and close the door. Be gentle. The specific method is to screw in the lock tongue first, then gently release it after closing it.
24。 When traveling, take necessary first aid supplies (such as band-AIDS-people cut their hands every time they open cans and wine bottles).
25。 Please give up your seat when you see an old man, a pregnant woman or a woman with a baby in her arms.
26。 Don't throw away used tickets, paper towels and toothpicks.
27。 When I went to the trash can to throw soda cans, I saw the debris that fell to the ground pick it up and throw it in together.
28。 Don't grab a seat by bus or subway (no girl will look cute in the competition. Besides, standing often is good for your figure.
29。 Be careful when you get on the bus, don't hit your head on it, the skirt will tear under it.
30。 Don't throw yourself on the sofa like a heavy object, straighten your skirt when you sit down, and don't "collapse" on the seat. Don't cross your legs when you sit down.
3 1。 Don't wear stockings below the knee in summer. Wear pantyhose or no socks.
32。 I can iron clothes and know the maintenance requirements of various fabrics.
33。 If the conditions at home are superior, never show off that you never do housework.
34。 Take an attitude of "knowing is knowing, and not knowing is not knowing" about other people's privacy, and don't whine behind their backs.
35。 You don't have to participate in all topics, such as sex, violence and other people's privacy. Many occasions are not suitable for discussion. Say a few words less, others will not think you are dumb, but smart people can "hear" your upbringing.
36。 Don't let your perfume choke, even if it's a famous brand.
37。 Play dumb, not giggle, at funny jokes.
38。 Take money with you, at least you can have a meal and go home by car.
39。 Carry paper towels and handkerchiefs with you.
40。 Don't blindly buy yourself fashionable clothes and supplies this year. Generally, it is always expensive. If it is not appropriate, it will make you look superficial.
4 1。 Don't make up in public. If you can't go to the dressing room, so be it.
42。 Don't attack every beautiful gay you meet.
43。 Don't say, "Look how shabby that man is!" Or "after all, it's a countryman." A snobbish girl is very unlovable. If you must laugh at something, remember: laugh at prostitutes instead of poverty.
A lady's speech should be really elegant and moving. With eternal smile and magnetic voice, she must keep in mind ten taboos and taboos in conversation. Ten Taboos for Talking with People
1. Interrupt others' conversation or grab others' words.
2. Ignoring the use of generalizations will make it difficult for the other party to understand your intentions for a while.
3. Distraction makes others repeat what they have said.
4. Asking questions continuously makes people feel that you are too enthusiastic and demanding to deal with.
Being careless about other people's problems will make people feel that you ignore and despise each other.
6. Explain a phenomenon casually and assert it rashly to show that you are an expert.
7. It is confusing to avoid reality without revealing it.
8. Inappropriately emphasizing some details irrelevant to the theme makes people tired and embarrassed.
9. When others are interested in a topic and you feel impatient, immediately turn the topic to your own interest.
10. Pretend that the correct views and pertinent suggestions are wrong and inappropriate, so that the other party will suspect that there is something ridiculous in your words. Taboos in conversation
There are no perfect people in the world. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. People always have self-esteem, and often don't want others to touch some of their shortcomings, privacy, unpleasant things, etc. Therefore, in interpersonal relationships, the speaker must be taboo. When the interviewee involves some sensitive and special things, he should think more about the other person.
1. Physiological defects. To avoid people's physical defects when speaking, we have to use indirect expression. If you politely say to the lame, "Your legs are inconvenient, please sit down first."
2. Unfortunate family. Like the death of a loved one, divorce of husband and wife, etc. If it is not mentioned by the parties themselves, it is not appropriate to insist.
3. Lack of personnel. The shortcomings, disgraceful experiences and present situation in dealing with people are sensitive points that others don't want to touch.
4. Do as the Romans do. "Entry is forbidden, entry is vulgar, and entry is embarrassing." This is crucial to the success or failure of society.
As a lady, don't think that you are naturally liked. Talking with people and avoiding taboos are actually manifestations of understanding, respect, civilization and cultivation. If we can avoid unhappiness as much as possible, everyone will be happy.
Facts have proved that a lady's elegant and moving speech is helpful to socialize, embodies the beauty of a lady's personality and adds a little beauty to her beauty.
If a lady has no atmosphere, her charm will become tacky, and there is no way to be virtuous and knowledgeable. A lady in the atmosphere can put on a little makeup or face the sky; You can dress beautifully and eat well, or you can eat ladle pulp; You can live in a mansion or a cabin; You can lead a horde, or you can take Qi Mei as an example.
In life, the breath of nature will show extraordinary elegance to some women, blend with heaven and earth, and reveal infinite vitality. A generous person lies in knowing the big picture. You should know the general idea, not to comment on the world with your own likes and dislikes, but to treat all beings with an inclusive heart. A woman with this virtue is clever and smart, adding a graceful and leisurely charm, as cool as a breeze and as bright as a bright moon.
The atmosphere is manifested in wearing clothes and hats, and it is also revealed in gestures, brow and conversation.
If a lady can enjoy every fresh moment and forge her eternal atmospheric character, then it is not only a beautiful scenery between heaven and earth, but also a model of human relations. The more such models, the greater the possibility of a better world, and the nobler, purer and more amazing the taste of a lady.
The atmosphere must first learn to be tolerant and allow others to have different life concepts. Facts are stranger than novels. There is no absolute concept of right and wrong in the world. Maybe friends around you can eat and wear warm clothes through marriage, but you firmly believe that women should be self-reliant and can't be men's accessories. This should be a different concept of life, so you won't despise and spit on her, will you?
Smart ladies don't do that. Every time they do something and say a word, the first thing to consider is whether they hurt others and how to keep the true nature of a lady's bosom friend. Everyone has his own way of pursuing, maybe all roads lead to the same goal, and finally everyone will reach a goal together.
A lady is not out of place and pretentious, but can tolerate others, know how to respect others' choices and recognize different people's lifestyles. The atmosphere also shows enthusiasm. Emerson, an American writer, once wrote: "Without enthusiasm, people can't do great things." Great poet s? Ullman also said: "wrinkles will be left on your forehead every year, but if you lack enthusiasm for life, your heart will be covered with wrinkles."
With enthusiasm, ladies will turn strangers into friends, sincerely tolerate others, make full use of their spare time to complete their hobbies, and have the mood to hone their virtuous side.
A lady's enthusiasm will make you broad-minded and abandon resentment; It will make you relaxed and happy, even forget your illness, and of course it will also remove weeds from your mind.
The character of a modern lady should be soft inside and rigid outside, combining rigidity with softness, with a strong heart beating under the gentle appearance. They are no longer the weakness of traditional ladies, nor are they formidable women.
Modern ladies deeply understand that the deliberate pursuit of tenacity is too different from the real inner world of women, and it is very hard without tenacity.
Therefore, modern ladies exchange the most gentle way for the most generous treatment. And they never abandon life and love, but love rationally and fully enjoy the sweetness of love; They live sincerely and enjoy all the beauty in life.