Introduction: Novice parents must pay attention to their words and deeds. Do not always scold and scold their children. The children will hate their parents very much and feel that their parents do not consider their own feelings at all. The children will be very painful. . New parents who don’t know how to raise their children must first follow their children’s opinions and see what they want to do, and don’t always say insulting words to their children. The editor will tell you today what new parents must avoid saying if they want to be good parents. 1. Why are you always so stupid?

Parents should not give their children too much extra homework. They should find a learning method suitable for their children so that they can learn effectively. Don't always regard learning as the only thing. Parents must not keep telling their children, "Why are you always so stupid?" The child's self-confidence will be hit, and the child will feel that no matter what he does, his parents will not believe him. When children are young, they especially want to be valued by their parents. If parents cannot encourage their children, the children will be very painful. The children will feel that their parents do not take them seriously at all and only regard themselves as learning machines. Over time, the children will also be very painful. . What parents need to understand is that children are their parents' treasures, and they should be given appropriate relaxation time. If they always say insulting words to their children, their mental health will not develop. 2. I regret giving birth to you the most

If parents always say such things to their children, the child's self-confidence will be greatly damaged. If the child's heart was hurt when he was young, the child will not be able to face it. Others feel that they are not capable of doing something well. One thing that parents need to understand is that children are their treasures. Parents should find a learning method that suits their children and should not beat or scold them blindly. It is inevitable that when children make mistakes when they are young, parents should communicate with their children carefully and understand the reasons why their children make mistakes. The children will tell their parents why they made mistakes. Finding a method suitable for the child is beneficial to the child's mental health.