Jin Dong played He Han in the play with a lot of powder at first, but the more he looked back, the less he liked He Han.
Elite in the workplace, partner of a large well-known company, with high position, rich gold content, handsome appearance and high vision. Such a man may also be the envy of many people, and the best candidate he pursues is also the best man. However, no matter how good a man is, he can't be liked in life.
He Han's love with Tang Jing and Luo Zijun began as a teacher.
Yes, He Han's concept of mate selection may be those who appreciate themselves, have potential and are eager to learn and make progress.
He got along with Tang Jing, from Tang Jing's ignorant face after graduation to He Han's hands-on teaching, which helped her grow up bit by bit.
So she saw the growth of Tang Jing. In this process, he seems to enjoy this process more and become an elite step by step from his hands. He Han, on the other hand, likes this feeling and the feeling of being a teacher.
However, when Tang Jing's ability became stronger and stronger, when Tang Jing and he couldn't agree on some points of view, and when Tang Jing even began to compete with him in some fields, he felt out of control.
Therefore, he and Tang Jing are afraid of getting married and can't make a decision.
Until Tang Jing went to Hong Kong, and in this process, He Han got along with Luo Zijun, which made him feel a sense of accomplishment as a teacher.
Luo Zijun was moved by his selfless help, and he accepted all the workplace skills he gave him.
With the help of He Han, Luo Zijun also grew rapidly.
Very similar plot, Luo Zijun seems to grow into the next Tang Jing.
In this process, He Han felt different from Tang Jing.
Looking at all kinds of wisdom from this handsome guy's mouth, how many little girls can be prostrated.
Perhaps talented people are narcissistic, and it is this narcissism of being a good teacher that makes people feel that he is more unreal and unreliable.
And he finally broke up with Tang Jing and fell in love with Luo Zijun, and he will grow into the second Tang Jing. But what if he gets a third chance to be a teacher?
There is a saying about love in He Han's wisdom: "It is true to love you, and it is true to not love you. Since it is true, it is beyond reproach. "
In fact, there is only himself in his love, and what he believes most is his feelings. Even for the person he loves most, he thinks that there are some things that need not be said and some things that should be done. As long as I think it's right, I think I'm thinking of everyone, and I think what I do is impeccable.
This is how he feels.
From the conflict with Tang Jing at work, from his own resignation to his job in Chen Xing, from the house he secretly renovated for a year.
Many things happened without Tang Jing's knowledge.
As Lolo said, "Why do I always feel that He Han and Tang Jing don't love each other?"
Yeah, I don't think so either.
In love, they are independent and seemingly evenly matched, but they are still fighting each other. Except for things at work, they seem to think little about their feelings and seldom communicate their life and inner thoughts.
Just like Luo Zijun's evaluation of He Han: "A woman who can be easily controlled, you don't want to talk about marriage; If you can't control a woman, you dare not talk about marriage. "
Perhaps, all the women he met in his life were just to satisfy his selfish desires. He always hesitated between unwillingness and fear, unable to make his own decision.
He Han's emotional hesitation always makes me feel sorry for Tang Jing.
Tang Jing wants to go to Hong Kong, but he is afraid to see Hong Kong off. When Luo Zijun found him, he said that he was often very clear and rational about other people's affairs, but when it was his turn, the psychological barrier was really difficult.
Tang Jing is very sad.
But He Han may not want Tang Jing to leave, but he doesn't say, he never shows his scheming. He is unwilling to compromise himself or stop others.
However, if you are too calm or too numb in love, you will not have a good ending.
When Tang Jing came back from Hongkong to propose to him, he was obviously reluctant. He clearly found that he had fallen in love with Luo Zijun, but he was embarrassed and didn't want to ruin Tang Jing's good mood.
The more he hesitated, the more he didn't tell Tang Jing, the more he hurt Tang Jing. Finally, not a girlfriend, not a friend.
Hesitation, indecision, procrastination and vacillation in front of feelings are far from being firm and decisive at work.
At this point, I admire Tang Jing.
In short, I don't watch this TV series while watching it. In fact, after all, I like the role of Xue best. It is so real that I seem to see many characteristics of Chinese mothers.
He Han's narcissism, selfishness, hesitation and untruthfulness disgust me.