1. I disapprove of blaming yourself without taking action.

2. Only facts can prove your intentions, and only actions can show your intentions. Don't be so careless with your friends. People who are not "shallow" by nature, but behave in the same way as "thin-hearted", are the most unjust and undeserved offenders. Just like a person who is not naughty plays naughty but ends up suffering a loss, the same truth.

3. Everything in the world has its advantages and disadvantages. What is good and what is bad must be short. People who feel it quickly often cannot be immersed deeply, otherwise the function will last for a long time.

4. Don’t let your new feelings float on the surface of your feelings; instead, carefully analyze how your new feelings are different from your original concepts, emotions, and expressions. This requires a calm and powerful intellect to analyze clearly.

5. Remember one sentence: young people are most likely to give people the impression of "ungratefulness". In fact, he is looking ahead, eagerly absorbing new things. This is not necessarily "ungrateful", but few people understand this psychology; you must not let others misunderstand him.

6. Don’t take the “game” too seriously. Try to ignore success or failure as much as possible, just try your best and feel no regrets.

7. People spend their whole lives rising and falling in high tides and low tides. Only mediocre people can live like stagnant water; or they must have extremely high cultivation to be free from fatigue and truly liberated. As long as the highs don't make you nervous and the lows don't make you decadent, that's fine. If the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grains; if the rain is too strong, it will drown the crops. We just want to have a good balance in our hearts so as not to get hurt.

8. Slowly, you will develop a different mood to deal with the past: that is, you can think about it without being shocked, and you can analyze the causes and consequences from objective reality, and draw lessons from the future to avoid repeating the same mistakes.

9. Only if a person dares to face reality and mistakes, use rational analysis, and thoroughly comprehend, he will not be eroded by memories.

10. If you think more about the problems of life and the universe, and look at the individual as small, you will naturally be less worried about gains and losses.

11. If you make it a habit not to go out with others during working hours, you won’t offend others.

12. Slowly learn to control. This is a big project in life cultivation.

13. The problem is that you don’t use enough effort, and you will never get good results without suffering enough!

14. Art is the goal, and skill is the means: Those who always only pay attention to the means will inevitably forget their goals.

15. The most important thing for learning is "communication". Only by "communication" can we not be rigid, pedantic, sour, and stereotyped; by "communication" can we cultivate integrity, mind, and vision. Only by being "common" can you become "big". If you are not big or broad, you will be in danger of looking at the sky from a well.

16. Conflict is proof of a prosperous livelihood.

17. Only when the physical body is still can the spiritual activities be most complete.

18. When encountering extreme events, you must feel "as if you are facing an abyss, as if you are repeatedly on thin ice", feeling extra solemn, fearful, and alert.

19. When a person wants to do something, he must think carefully beforehand. Especially when you want to change course, abandon the old path, and take a new path, you must make a balance of your own reason and weigh the old path and the new path very precisely on two plates.

20. Before making a decision, you must be extremely serious and calm, and think carefully from multiple aspects and from a distance.

21. It is not good for a person to be satisfied too easily, but it is also unhealthy to be too dissatisfied and cause many unrealistic fantasies!

22. A person often does not know how to cherish the things at hand (or opportunities, or environment, or anything valuable), and then regrets it until he is about to lose it! This is human nature, but we cannot forgive our own stupidity and try to correct it because of human nature.

23. It is inevitable for a passionate person, especially a young person, to go too far; as long as he is kind-hearted, upright, broad-minded, can correct his judgment in time, and is not stubborn, that is good.

24. As long as a person is sincere, he can always impress others; even if people don’t understand him at the moment, they will understand him in the future.

25. Going around in circles and dodging will only make people suspicious; if you are using tricks, it is better to be honest and tell the truth. As long as your attitude is sincere, humble and respectful, no one will say anything about you.

26. When dealing with a person who likes to use tricks, always deal with him as he is. He will not use tricks to deal with you, and he will value you.

27. When considering many details, you must be calm and mentally calm, and do not be anxious. Problems must be solved eventually, don’t be afraid to use your brain.

28. Only by being calm and objective can we eventually come up with the best solution.

29. Human psychology is: rare gifts are valued, but often received are not only not valued, but are regarded as entitlements. Not only are they not grateful, but they are prone to resentment. So I especially want to ask you to "be measured"!

30. Be patient and don’t rush things. The calmer you are, the better your results will be.

You have to admit that you are stupid at all times and don't be afraid of doing kung fu. Then you won't expect too much and get panicked if you don't make progress.

31. When a person hinders others, it is not necessarily because of a bad nature, but often because of a unclear mind and ignorance of the pros and cons. So when you don't recognize a person clearly in these aspects, don't reveal your confidence casually. One is too little consideration for the person you are talking to, and the other is too little consideration for the other person involved.

32. It is simply foolish to hope that enthusiasm can last forever; regardless of temperament, morality, character, thoughts, etc., but just clinging to a wonderful dream that year, hoping that this dream will become a reality in the future. Then I warn you, you may encounter tragedy!

33. Let the past romance become a beautiful memory for us and a lifelong dream. I think it is the wisest way.

34. Keeping yourself miserable only consumes your own energy and does no good to anyone.

35. Everything in the past was like dying yesterday, and everything now is like living today.

36. Since everything is changing, stability is pause, and pause is death, then why do we always miss the past, hurt ourselves, and poison the good time in front of us? When you realize that the world is constantly changing, you should realize that life is also constantly changing, and you should understand that life should be looking forward, not backward.

37. Most people who engage in art lack sincerity. Because you are not sincere enough, you just say everything casually in your mouth, using it as a cover to bluff people and put on your own facade. In fact, you are just picking off people's words and not really feeling anything. Therefore, they can never have a deep understanding of the writer, and they have never done an in-depth analysis of themselves first.

38. The most disgusting thing is self-righteousness and self-righteousness. With sincerity, you will have an open mind, and with an open mind, you will be willing to put aside yourself to understand others, and you will also be able to let go of your false self-esteem to understand yourself. Love based on understanding yourself and others is not blind love.

39. It doesn’t matter if a person endures hardships or encounters difficulties, as long as he learns lessons, this is what the so-called education in life or society is all about.

40. Don’t keep your mouth open, especially abroad! Don't talk to anyone about religious matters.

41. Even if you are very strict with yourself and are not complacent, because you know better, you will naturally be arrogant and misunderstood.

42. The higher a person climbs, the more conscientious he must be in all aspects of life.

43. If a person is too successful, it is easy to get carried away without even realizing it.

44. Without depression and contradiction, people will not make progress. Only when there is a conflict will you be forced to resolve it. Resolving a conflict means taking a step forward. The reduction of conflicts in old age is a sign that life is about to end. Tranquility without contradiction is just a lofty ideal, and it is not a good phenomenon if it is truly realized.

45. All works of art should be avoided. The most beautiful words and sentences must appear naturally, as if seamless, so that they can withstand the test of time and be handed down forever.

46. If you lack talent, you can only make up for it with hard work.

47. It is just as difficult for Easterners to understand Westerners and their culture as it is for Westerners to understand Eastern ninjas and their culture. Even if you understand it, you may not be able to accept it in real life.

48. Humans are really strange animals. When they are civilized, they are so civilized, and their discussions of mysteries are so meaningful. When they are barbaric, they are no different from wild beasts, and even more cruel. The strange thing is that these two extremes are manifested in the same group of people and the same generation.

49. Think quietly for a moment, have you ever listened to something a teacher, friend or critic said without paying attention to it over the past few years? Think before it’s too late: It’s better to make up for classes as early as possible!

50. Only fools turn around when they hit a nail; smart people learn to behave when they see others suffer.

51. From ancient times to the present, no one is so smart that he does not need to listen to anyone’s opinions. A wise man will surely make a mistake if he thinks a lot.

52. Don’t waste money on your hands.

53. How many artists go downhill after middle age, are they really willing to do so? Most of the time they are dragged down by the family, and the dragging process is completely unconscious.

54. Since we live in the world of money, we must control money well so as not to be enslaved by money.

55. There is no such thing as both worlds. Everything is entirely within your own control. The purpose is simply to suffer less from material worries and devote more time to learning and art. An ideal world is always an ideal; no matter how far apart it is, there are always more things that look down on than things that look good on. As long as it doesn't hinder your research, you can leave everything else alone.

56. Your attitude and mood should be as calm as possible. Otherwise the observations will not be accurate.

57. If you worry about gains and losses, you can only listen to others' exploitation; if you are afraid of embarrassment, the exploiters will play into their own hands.

58. Being able to endure loneliness is a great weapon in life, and being able to endure loneliness requires training from an early age!

59. It is important to love your children, but it is also important to develop discipline. If you don’t pay attention when they are a few months old, and then tighten them when they are two or three years old, it will be painful for both adults and children.

60. You have to remind yourself at all times that there is no reason to vent your frustration on a third party.

61. With work to support us, countless small conflicts at work often temporarily cover up the big conflicts in life, giving us a chance to breathe.