If you don’t accumulate steps, you can’t reach a thousand miles; if you don’t accumulate small streams, you can’t reach a river or sea. Everyone wants to "reach thousands of miles and become rivers and seas", but when the steps and small streams are scattered to 365 days a year, they become boring repetitions every day, but thousands of miles and rivers and seas cannot be seen. At that time, there is no hope, no light, and all ambitions become ridiculous.
You can only rely on perseverance and persist every day. Will success be guaranteed if you persist?
Not necessarily, but if you don’t persist, you will definitely not succeed.
2. People often say that youth has no regrets. In fact, how can youth have no regrets?
The hearts of young people are nakedly tender and cruel. We are easily hurt by others, and we are also easy to hurt others. As time goes by, we will forget many people, but those who have hurt us and those we have hurt will always be clearly engraved in our regretful youth.
If you are young when reading this story, please remember to treat the person you meet gently, not because of his gratitude to you, but just so that many years later, when you look back, you will have less regret in your youth. a little.
3. Everything that is too specific represents longing. If all of this is eliminated, longing will have no attachment point and may fade and disappear.
4. Because I am young, I always feel that the time ahead is very long and that it is possible to do everything over again, but I don’t know that the river of time can only flow forward and never start over again.
Growth always seems to be accompanied by pain. Is it because only after being injured can scars form? When layer after layer of scars wrap around our hearts, we become no longer easily hurt or moved, and we grow up.
Looking at the bustling traffic and people on the street, thinking that the last time I stood here was ten years ago, I suddenly feel sad. Is it because of the people who have passed away, or because of the time that has passed away?
Maybe this is human nature. No matter how big the pain is, we can heal. No matter how painful the loss is, we can get used to it.
You can call it - strong, you can also call it - forgetting.
The reason why humans are called intelligent advanced creatures is because we have wisdom and can use reason to restrain incorrect behaviors.
First love is the moment when a flower called love blooms, not a step too early or too late, he is right there.
Qingdou is the whitest and purest flower in the world. It blooms only once in a lifetime. It is fragrant when it blooms and bitter when it withers. It never bears fruit.
Time is fleeting and short-lived, so the love and warmth are always in a hurry, not cherished, and gone in the blink of an eye.
Time is eternal and long, so those love and warmth are always engraved in my heart and will never be forgotten throughout my life.
Sadness is sadness, decadence is decadence. Sadness is because of the past, but decadence destroys the future. Never take decadence as sadness, and bury the past with the future.
Within time, you and I may have gone through many changes in our appearance, and we are at the end of the world and at the corner of the sea. Outside of time, you and I are still sitting side by side on the steps of the classroom covered with peach petals, with sparkling eyebrows. Our fate has been reversed. Chen Jin and I were originally two parallel lines that would never intersect, but because he chose me to be his deskmate, our destinies intersected.
Those who once cried and rejoiced with us are indeed gone, and may never see each other again in this life. However, the love and care they left behind will never fade away.
At that time, although I was in them, I didn’t pay any attention to them. Now, I realize that they all left traces in my life.
Growth always seems to be accompanied by pain. Is it because only when there is an injury can scars form? When layer after layer of scars wrap around our hearts, we become no longer easily hurt or moved, and we grow up.
Please believe that the time that sneaks away makes us look older, but it enriches our lives.
Please believe that our vicissitudes of life have not only taught us indifferent self-protection, but also taught us to be kind and considerate of others.
Please believe that the value of youth is not because of those young years, but because of a heart full of courage and enthusiasm, not afraid of getting hurt, not afraid of giving, not afraid of loving, and not afraid of dreaming.
Please believe that the loss of youth is not terrible. What is terrible is the loss of the heart to love life bravely.
The world is so big, but I happened to meet you. The world is so small, but I just lost you.
The world is so big, but I can never forget you. The world is so small, but I can never meet you again.
At this intersection, young you and I waved goodbye. We thought parting was just a love, but we didn’t know that parting was our youth. We thought that what we forgot was just a period of laughter and sorrow, but we didn’t know that what we forgot was our dreams and passion.
This is our story, but we did not expect the beginning of the story, nor did we expect the end of the story. We blame it on fate. In fact, all the joys and sorrows are determined by us one by one. Write it out graphically.
Only when we look back can we clearly see the reasons for all the difficulties, and only when it is too late can we figure out the mistakes we made at that time.
Because I am young, I always feel that the time ahead is very long, and I am willing to do everything over again, but I don’t know that the river of time can only flow forward and never start over again.
Over the years, I have been learning one thing, that is, never look back. I only regret the things I have not done, not the things I have done. Every step in life requires paying a price. I get some things I want and lose some things I don’t want to lose. But among all the living beings in this world, who is not like this?
Youth is so short, but I met the one I love in the blooming season; life is so limited, but I was deeply loved by the one I love in the most beautiful years.
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In the guest book, the handwriting is confusing
In the old photo album, the smile is still clear
2.
Open it In this book, the past time travels across mountains and rivers to return to the heart
The yesterday that I thought I had long forgotten is clearly in front of my eyes
4.
Where is youth?
Every young man’s eyes are clear in black and white, like a curtain.
Brave, impulsive, cowardly, curious, eager, confused, sad, disappointed, thinking?
All the brilliant colors of youth are staged in that black and white curtain.
When it is performing colorfully, we are ignorant of it, until it is close to our eyes.
It is precisely because it is too close, so close to our eyes, that we cannot see it.
Only when it moves away can we see it clearly. We can clearly see the cause and effect behind all the stories that may or may not be wonderful. However, after everything has been frozen on the film, whether we are smiling or crying, we can only stand far away at the end of time and watch the passage of time quietly. Gathering and separation, gains and losses on the head screen.
This is youth. Only after it leaves can we see clearly.
5.
Because of the awareness of the importance of teachers in children’s lives, Chinese traditional culture has always emphasized respecting teachers. Respecting teachers has long been elevated to a moral standard in China, but I have forgotten that because of the importance of teachers in children's lives, teachers should actually respect children more.
Only with respect for individual life can we have the correct guidance for individual life.
6.
I hate that teacher, so I don’t take his classes and my grades are poor. Who is this revenge on?
Children's resistance may be ridiculous and childish in the eyes of adults, but that is the only way we know, so tragic and heroic that there is no turning back.
8.
Within time, you and I may have changed our appearance. Each at the end of the sky and the corner of the sea.
Outside of time, you and I are still sitting side by side on the teacher’s steps covered with peach petals with our eyes shining brightly.
10.
I can lock the diary, but I cannot lock my heart.
I can lock my heart, but I cannot lock love and sadness.
I can lock in love and sadness, but I can’t lock in the eyes that follow you.
Many years later, I can shake hands with you with a smile and say goodbye gently.
And that, that unspoken word, you will never know, it is locked deep in the river bottom of the passing time.
11.
There were many proverbs when I was a child, but when I grew up, I realized they were just beautiful lies, such as, "No pain, no gain."
This proverb only takes into account the variables of the farmer's uncle's hard work, but forgets to consider related variables such as good or bad weather, rising and falling prices. In fact, harvest is a multi-variable function, not a single-variable function.
I prefer to use rigorous mathematics to define it: hard work is a necessary condition for harvest, but it is not a sufficient condition. That is, to deduce harvest, there must be hard work, but hard work may not necessarily deduce harvest.
12.
Women’s friendships have been complicated since they were little girls.
Men's friendship is probably like playing football. The bottom line and rules are clear in the heart. Cooperation and competition are clear. In the battle and shouting, each other's sweat is integrated; women's friendship is probably like cooking. , there is no set pattern, no rules, anything can be eaten, sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, etc., and the taste can be so complex that no one except the cook knows what she put in it.
13.
The young heart is tender and soft. Therefore, the hurt and warmth will be deeply remembered. In the end, what we remember blends with time and becomes our character.
14.
We raise our chins and look at the world with provocative eyes. We seem to be strong and strong, but in our hearts there is fear and confusion.
Adults, we understand your desire to shape us into excellence, but please understand; it is not the cold and sharp carving knife that carves beautiful statues, but a pair of eyes that know how to appreciate beauty. A heart full of love and a pair of warm hands carved out a beautiful statue.
Growing up is like participating in a running race. When you see others running faster than you, you don't necessarily feel anxious and sad. You only become anxious and sad when you are surpassed by people on the same starting line. Maybe you won't remember those who are far behind, but you will always remember the person who ran in front of you.
When growth is finally tempered by the fire of time into maturity.
At the crossroads, maybe you waved, or maybe you didn’t even wave, and just went in different directions. You breathed a sigh of relief, thinking that the game was finally over, but you didn’t know that you were standing again Another starting line has been reached and a new race has begun.
You ask, why is it endless? When can I rest?
Never! This is life!
16.
The most stubborn wound in the world is a wound that does not bleed. There is no good medicine and there is no way to cure it. Even if it heals, it is like the shadow of the moon on the water. It seems to be complete and calm, but every time When the wind blows, fine cracks will wrinkle and secretly ache.
17.
Some people admire the beauty of the stars, reach out to reach for them, and work hard for a long time, but they cannot get them.
People laugh at you: You don’t know what you can do.
He replied: Reach out for the stars. Although you don’t get the stars, your heart is filled with beautiful scenery and your hands are not stained.
18.
A girl’s heart is like a flower, it will bloom for the person she likes, and it will also wither for the person she likes.
Some people's bloom and wither are like red roses in the sun. No matter they bloom or fall, they are vigorous and become legends in the memories of others; some people's bloom and wither are like wild lilies in the valley, no matter they bloom or fall. It fell silently, becoming a secret buried by time.
19.
According to legend, a carp must jump over a dragon gate, shed its scales, and cut off its fins before it can transform into a dragon;
According to legend, a bird must After setting oneself on fire, one can transform into a phoenix after suffering the pain of being bathed in fire.
Does youth have to go through the pain of ignorance to gain mature wisdom?
20.
When we were young, because we had never been hurt, we didn’t know how to be kind; because we didn’t have fear, we didn’t know how to give in. We were willful and wanton, and didn’t care about hurting others.
When one day we experience being hurt and understand pain and fear, we will understand kindness and concession.
But at this time, the exuberance and wantonness of youth are gradually leaving us.
We have grown up, and there is a mottled heart in our chest.
21.
When I was young, I liked to talk about ideals and make plans. I thought that as long as I was smart enough and worked hard enough, I could achieve it, but I didn’t know that we were just managers of this space. , a small chess piece on the chessboard of destiny where time is the latitude. If the chessboard trembles slightly, we will deviate from the planned track.
22.
In ancient times, when a girl was fourteen years old, her father would hold a hairpin ceremony for her, which meant that she had grown up; in the West, at her daughter’s wedding, her father would hold a haircut ceremony for her. Hold your daughter's hand and accompany her through the last journey of girlhood.
Father is the first important man in a woman’s life.
23.
Envy is a very subtle thing. Taking a step forward can turn into admiration and treating it as a role model; taking a step back can turn into jealousy. Treat them as enemies, but no one is a complete angel, and no one is a complete devil, so envy turns into jealousy and becomes an inner demon, making people struggle back and forth.
24.
When I was young, I lacked reverence for time and life. I acted willfully and unscrupulously. I did not consider the consequences and did not know how to fear the consequences. Therefore, I made mistakes when I was young. These are often mistakes that can be avoided with a little more sense and restraint. However, when we understand this truth, the mistake has often been made; when we have not yet made the mistake, we cannot listen to anyone's sincere words.
25.
Beautiful women are liked, and strong women are respected. When a woman is both beautiful and strong, she will be invincible.
26.
No matter how big a mistake an adult makes, it is the result of his own mistakes.
But for teenagers, their mistakes often stem half from their parents and half from their ignorance of life.
There are many different paths in life, and a wrong thought may lead to a bumpy path. Of course, divergent roads are also roads, and some people have walked out of a different vast sky. However, if time could be turned back, their vicissitudes of face and tired smiles would rather choose not to miss that step.
27.
The hard work is nothing, and the long wait is nothing. As long as the storm settles down, everything can come as expected.
However, life is a tragedy and comedy, and giving and receiving do not correspond.
There is always some time, and only after it has passed will you find that it has been deeply engraved in your memory.
Many years later, one night under the lamp, I suddenly think of it and smile quietly.
Those people have sailed away in the river of time and disappeared. In my heart, there is a warmth that spans the river of time and will never fade away.
29.
Einstein said that success equals 1% talent plus 99% perspiration, but I think success equals 10% talent plus 30% luck plus 60% of sweat.
On the road we have traveled, there are many people who are talented and willing to sacrifice, but fate does not favor them. What is admirable is that such people often never complain or complain about their fate. , they remained silent, worked hard, and continued.
As small as an opportunity, as big as good health, or even life, fate will often take it away without mercy.
We cannot stop what fate takes from us, but we can choose to value what we have received from life.
"The End of Those Young Times That Can't Be Returned"
1.
When I was a child, I stood on tiptoe and looked at myself when I grew up
Growing up When I grow up, I look back at my pure youth alone
2.
The face that is not sad is my youth, the eyes that are not hasty have been changed by the years
Those young days that cannot be returned should be remembered with the truest heart
3.
When we are young, we are always impatient and do not understand the page in life that we are most reluctant to part with. , always hidden the deepest.
You have to look back years later to understand what you missed.
At that moment, there were only tears in my eyes, commemorating the youth that was long gone and would never return.
4.
How to love your imperfect self calmly and confidently is a more profound knowledge than how to love others.
5.
Not all memories are good, and not all people are worth remembering. The river of time is too long, and most people and things will be ruthlessly washed away. However, everything related to youth will always settle to the bottom of the river and become indelible memories.
What we can never forget may not be those things and people, but our lost dreams and passions.
6.
If you don’t accumulate steps, you can’t reach a thousand miles; if you don’t accumulate small streams, you can’t become a river.
Everyone wants to "reach a thousand miles and become a river and sea". However, when the small steps and small streams are dispersed to 365 days a year, it becomes a boring repetition every day, and thousands of miles, When Jiang Hai couldn't see it, there was no hope, no light, and all ambitions became ridiculous.
You can only rely on perseverance and persist every day. Will success be guaranteed if you persist?
Not necessarily, but if you don’t persist, you will definitely not succeed. Many years later
I can
The clouds are clear and the breeze is clear
Smiling, shaking hands with you and saying goodbye gently
But that one has not arrived yet The words you exported
You will never know
It is locked deep in the river of passing time
Before you fall in love, you have already fallen out of love
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Tonight
The drizzle is falling outside the window
Gently turning on my classmates under the lamp
The face I thought I would never forget
Has been blurred
The note I thought I had thrown away long ago
is actually stuck in the page of the book
Tonight
It is drizzling outside the window When we waved goodbye
It was exactly the same
The rain in the sky sang a song
We didn't understand it back then
Hurry, too hasty
The formation of each person’s character can be traced back to the family in which he was born and grew up. In this world, there are only bad families, not bad children.
8.
When our eyes are no longer as clear-cut as babies, the world in front of us also begins to no longer be clear-cut.
Sincere indifference, hypocritical kindness, ambiguity of praise and criticism, black and white mixed, the relationship between classmates begins to become complicated, it is no longer a simple you and I are good, you are not good with me .
One of our feet is still in the Lin Daiyu-style randomness of likes and dislikes, but the other foot has already stepped into the Xue Baochai-style sleek sophistication.
We have realized that getting along with others is also a knowledge, but we have not yet understood that this is actually a knowledge that is far more difficult and far-reaching than getting into college.
9.
Why is the love of youth simple but clumsy, sincere but sharp? Why do we love most unreservedly when we don’t know how to love, but when we know how to love, we are no longer willing to give easily?
10.
Youth is so short, but I met the one I love in the blooming season; life is so limited, but I was loved in the most beautiful years. deeply loved.
We once fell in love on the mountain tops and promontories; even if we parted ways on the mountain tops and promontories, I will not regret it. The only thing I regret is that I didn't love him more.
11.
How I wish I could be less inferior at that time; I wish I could be less proud at that time. Even then, we may still not be able to be together, but at least We were a little happier then, and now you're a little more willing to reminisce about the past.
12.
Because you are a big boy, you are proud and careless.
Because I am a little girl, I have low self-esteem and sensitivity.
We work hard to love, thinking that as long as we push hard enough, hard enough, everything will change, but we don’t know that our ending is already doomed.
Many years later, the years have passed and youth has grown old. You are no longer proud and careless, and I am no longer inferior and sensitive. However, we will never love so hard or so hard again.
I can only sing that old song, in tears, recalling that you once loved me seriously and awkwardly, smiling alone.
13.
Love is not controlled by wisdom, but by fate. We will never be smarter than fate. Every time we think we have the true meaning of love, fate sneers.
14.
Time has forged my heart into strong iron, enabling me to weather the ups and downs of this world calmly. However, only you can easily break it.
Just because you are all my youthful years, all my unforgettable laughter and sorrow. Under the hard shell, there is always a deep corner beating gently for you.
15.
Thank you for meeting me heart-to-heart; thank you for promising me that beautiful vow.
Time passes, years grow old, heart-to-heart encounters will be separated, beautiful vows will change, there are too many imperfections and regrets in this world, but I remember, I will always remember, you once loved me deeply. Pass me.
16.
This is our story, but we neither expected the beginning nor the end of the story. We blame it on fate, but in fact everything The joys and sorrows of life are all written by us one stroke at a time.
Only when we look back can we see clearly the reasons for everything, and only when it is too late can we figure out the mistakes we made at that time.
17.
If I could turn back time, I would not proudly pretend not to care. I would tell you loudly that I love you, and I would hug you tightly when you are sad. Stay with you, I will never only care about my own feelings and ignore your thoughts.
But—but—
Liang Jingru sang "If One Day", but she later sang "No If".
18.
What is destiny? There are two famous English sayings that make this very clear:
Men heap together the mistakes of their lives, and create a monster they calldestiny.
——Men heap together the mistakes of their lives, and create a monster they calldestiny.
Together, they create a demon called Destiny.
It is a mistake to try to look too far ahead. The chain of destiny can only begrasped one link at a time.
——It is a mistake to worry too much about the future, destiny On the chain, the only thing we can hold on to is now.
19.
The world is so big, but I happened to meet you; the world is so small, but I just lost you.
The world is so big, but I can never forget you; the world is so small, but I can never meet you.
20.
At this intersection, young you and I wave goodbye. We thought parting was just a love, but we didn't know that parting was our youth; we thought that what we forgot was just a period of laughter and sorrow, but we didn't know that what we forgot was our dreams and passion.
21.
The new flows in and the old flows away, no matter how hard you try, you can’t catch it.
Time flies, this is what it means.
22.
Please believe that the time that sneaks away makes us look older, but it enriches our lives.
Please believe that our vicissitudes of life have not only taught us indifferent self-protection, but also taught us kindness and consideration for others.
Please believe that there is something in this world that will be more eternal than time, and that is our love for others and our love for ourselves.
Please believe that the value of youth is not because of those young years, but because of a heart full of courage and enthusiasm, not afraid of getting hurt, not afraid of giving, not afraid of loving, and not afraid of dreaming.
Please believe that the loss of youth is not terrible. What is terrible is the loss of the heart to love life bravely.
23.
In this bustling world and busy life, we are all being polished harder and harder, but there must be one deepest in our hearts. The soft corners treasure the tenderness we once had.
Always in the gap between the vicissitudes of life, a ray of sadness suddenly passes through the eyes, thinking of those young tenderness, that young man with crystal-browed eyebrows, the dirt of the years seems to never stain the grace of his eyebrows; In front of the familiar scenery, a nameless melancholy suddenly arises in my heart, melancholy for those feelings that have become memories, that young man who no longer knows where he is.
But is it really the boy who makes us miss him?
Perhaps, what we are melancholy about is not that person, but our lost youth. What we cannot forget is not that person, but our own bright and flying days.
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Those beautiful or unbeautiful moments are moment after moment, including wanton laughter and suppressed painful crying.
But the long time will eventually condense all the pain and laughter into the most beautiful stars in our memories, gently shining on our lives.
Because of their pause and look back, our flower season did not become a lonely hum of one person. Because of their tears and smiles, our flower season played the most gorgeous music.
Those who have cried and laughed with us have indeed gone far away, and may never see each other again in this life.
However, the love and care they left behind will never fade away.
The moment we suddenly look back, they are there, their still young features are engraved with our youth, and our still young features are also engraved in their youth forever.
The distance between them is not only a bridge, but also the Pacific Ocean, as well as ten years of human life and vicissitudes of life. Zhang Jun is no longer the same person he was when he was nineteen, and Luo Qiqi is no longer the same person she was when she was seventeen. They are no longer the person they loved deeply in each other's memories, and they can't even tell whether they are attached to that person or the innocent and sincere youth. So what if we meet again? The you we meet again are no longer you, and the familiar face will only highlight the vicissitudes of memories and years.
The promises made by others cannot be fulfilled, so should I break the promises I have made to myself?
For me, her only shortcoming is that she does not love me.
Qiqi’s wish: I hope Zhang Jun will love Qiqi forever. But I forgot that loving forever does not mean being together forever.
Qiqi's eyes slowly became moist, and she began to understand why after so many years, she still couldn't forget Zhang Jun - the man who no longer loved her. She couldn't forget that maybe it wasn't Zhang Jun, but that there was someone who loved her so much. What she was worried about might not be that Zhang Jun didn't love her anymore, but that no man loved her as much as Zhang Jun.
“Don’t give up! If you give up for the first time, your life will become accustomed to retreating when faced with difficulties. But if you overcome the past, your life will become accustomed to moving forward against the wind and waves. See It's just a simple choice, but it actually has a very different impact and will lead you to a completely different life." Chen Jin also said.
When we went to Qingdao, Zhang Jun said: When we get married, we will come to Qingdao for our honeymoon!
I couldn't help but hold the pen on a piece of stationery and write "Longbow" over and over again. When one piece of paper was full, I changed it to another. This is a habit I have developed unknowingly over the years. Whenever I feel sad, I like to write "Long Bow", as if this can release the sadness in my heart.
33. Do you know, for so many years, the person I most wanted to share all of this with is not here, and all the wonderful things are tinged with a trace of regret.
I moved to this city when I was seven, and I met you when I was nine. Now six years have passed, and Xiaobo took me to almost all places in this city on his bicycle. Almost all the memories of this city It all has something to do with you. Now tell me, you and I are not on the same path!
I am recalling some past things and waiting for a friend.
At this moment, I truly understood that I had lost him forever! The person I thought would accompany me to see clearly no matter how dark the world was.
When I was young, I liked to talk about ideals and make plans. I thought that as long as I was smart enough and worked hard enough, I could achieve it. But I didn’t know that we are just players on this chessboard of destiny with space as the longitude and time as the latitude. A small chess piece, a slight tremor on the chessboard, and we will deviate from the planned track.
In ancient times, when a girl was fourteen years old, her father would hold a haircut ceremony for her, which meant that she had grown up. In the West, at her daughter’s wedding, her father would hold her hand and accompany her through the wedding. The last journey of girlhood, father, is the first important man in a woman’s life.
When I was a child, I stood on tiptoe and looked at myself when I grew up
When I grew up, I looked back at my pure youth alone
Because you are a big boy, you are proud and careless.
Because I am a little girl, I have low self-esteem and sensitivity.
We work hard to love, thinking that as long as we push hard enough, hard enough, everything will change, but we don’t know that our ending has already been decided. Many years later, the years have passed and youth has grown old. You are no longer proud and careless, and I am no longer inferior and sensitive. However, we will never love so hard or so hard again.
I can only sing that old song, in tears, recalling that you once loved me seriously and awkwardly, smiling alone.
40. When I read Liu Yong and Sanmao, and was fascinated by the foreign countries they wrote about, and naturally thought about going to visit the world, I knew that I was no longer the person who was willing to A girl who lives her whole life in this city.