This society is very complicated, and many times, we have to face the helplessness of reality. All kinds of beautiful phenomena in a person's mind often fall into a big one-off in reality. Especially when a person is in trouble, don't think that relying on many relatives and friends can turn over, which will often disappoint us. Because, in the face of reality, we will always be defeated, so the old people often warn us: people are awesome, why not push? . The four words of our ancestors are even more affectionate, realistic and helpless.

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The first sentence: people are poor and can't enter the public, and words can't persuade people.

The ancestors said: people who are poor can't enter the public, and words can't persuade people. This sentence is warning us that when people speak softly, a person should not go to some crowded places to participate in the discussion at will, because he is not a successful person and can only be laughed at. At the same time, don't interfere with other people's housework at will, even? Household chores that are difficult for honest officials to manage? How to mediate clearly when the voice is weak? People talk lightly, so we should not push and shove, let alone contradict and argue at will, so as not to be laughed at, disgusted and attacked. This is reality, this is human feelings, and we can only accept it silently. The best way is for us to bow our heads silently and stick to our teeth with hard work. When we survive the coldest winter in our lives, we can be proud.

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The second sentence: a thin horse never leaves the army, and a poor man never leaves his relatives.

The ancestors said: the horse is thin and never leaves the army, and people are poor and never leave their relatives. What does this sentence mean? The meaning of this sentence is actually very simple. It tells us that if a horse is thin, we will give it to the army as a military horse, and the final result will be killed as food; And if a person falls into poverty, we should try not to go around visiting relatives and friends, so as not to be laughed at or even humiliated by these relatives and friends and hurt our feelings. In fact, this sentence also tells the dilemma that a person may encounter when he speaks lightly. Yes, when people are chatting lightly, if they still want to visit relatives and friends, or push them around among friends, they are likely to encounter embarrassing reality. Because when we speak softly, everyone is afraid of us, and everyone will try to stay away from us, so naturally there will be resistance to our appearance. And this is the reality, this is the human sentiment is cold and warm, and the world is cold. What we can do is try not to disturb them, but through ourselves? Less at home and more outside? Only by looking for opportunities and realizing the goal of making a comeback in life will these relatives and friends sit up and take notice.

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The third sentence: the poor don't ask in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

The ancestors said: the poor don't ask in downtown, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains; If you don't believe me, look at the wine in the cup. The cup first respects the rich. This sentence is more realistic. It tells us that when a person falls into poverty, no one around him cares about him. Even if he attends a gathering of some relatives and friends, everyone will only look at those so-called successful people. I believe many people have personally experienced this reality. Yes, life is so helpless sometimes. The winner is king, and the loser is the enemy? In real life, this concept is still deeply rooted in people's hearts. Faced with this reality, it seems difficult for us to change other people's minds. What we can do is to change our living conditions. Therefore, when chatting lightly, we should get together as little as possible, but we should know how to hide our strength, strive to improve our ability and look for opportunities. Once the opportunity comes, we must rely on our own strength to fly high and realize the turning point of life. At that time, we really had our own right to speak.

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The fourth sentence: human feelings are as thin as paper, and things are as new as chess.

The ancestors said: human feelings are as thin as paper, and things are as new as chess. The meaning of this sentence is that the feelings between people are as thin as paper, the world is like a chess game, and the situation of chess is ever-changing. Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi? Changes are often phased. Perhaps, when a person is in the scenery, we are surrounded by each other, and there are all kinds of scenery, but when a person talks too little, we find that we just want to get together and chat, and people don't want us to join their circle. This is cruel human feelings, and the world is cold. Yes, when we fell down and looked around, we found no one around to comfort us. At this time, we will really understand that relying on the mountain will fall, anyone can run, and only relying on themselves is the most reliable. So, we learned to work hard, go it alone, and wait for the opportunity to make a comeback. We believe that as long as we don't give up on ourselves and just wait for the opportunity, we will certainly achieve it? Things are like chess. Is it new? That day.