A kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the cold of three winters; On the contrary, bitter words hurt others' feelings and self-esteem, even in the summer of June, people will feel cold.
Extended reading
For five thousand years in China, there is an old saying 100 that benefits the world.
1. Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement. -Zhouyi
As a gentleman, we should have a strong will, never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen our self-cultivation, and complete and develop our studies or careers. Only in this way can we reflect God's will and live up to the responsibilities and talents entrusted to a gentleman by the universe.
2. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. -Liu Beiyu's "Three Kingdoms"
Don't do anything just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some tiny. Don't stop doing a good thing that benefits others just because it doesn't mean much.
It's better to see the bad than the good, just like exploring the soup. -The Analects of Confucius
When you meet an excellent person, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid I can't do it too late. Seeing evil people doing bad things is like touching hot water. You should leave at once and stay away.