Don't be too kind, too generous, and too capable.

After a long time, people will think that everything you do is right.

If you can't learn the skill of tearing, you will always be a soft persimmon that can be used at others' place and thrown away after use.

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In the workplace.

Rebecca works in a foreign trade company. She is good at everything, but she is a little too kind and loves to take care of things. She would complain in private, but when someone asked for help, she took it anyway.

Hey, that's not your job. Why do you always be a good person? Xiao Lin, who joined the company with her, has reminded her many times.

Well, Linda is a little busy. Anyway, I'm free. It doesn't matter. Rebecca smiled helplessly and began to get busy again.

in the workplace, you must learn to sayno, otherwise you will really suffer. Many times, some people simply don't deserve your kindness to them.

It's hard to make it to the year-end performance appraisal. Rebecca thought she could win an award or something because of her good popularity. That's great. I'm usually busy doing good deeds, but I even choose when my boss can't see it. As a result, you can imagine, who will take you seriously if you do good deeds and show great kindness?

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As for me, I'm just not very kind and a bit sharp-edged, as always.

for 14 years, I worked as a planner in a company. My boss was a woman, and she was nice, but she was a little girly. Her office is next door to mine, and I can often hear all kinds of scratching noises in the office. After a while, I will either throw books or knock on the table.

a group of friends and I all pretend to be invisible. Lose your temper, love it, as long as it's not on me. That's great. I'll hit the gun one day.

I once held an activity and sent the planning case in the morning, which was originally said, but later I went back on my word and said it was not passed. It's okay, you're the boss, sister. Keep changing. Everything is ready for the activity. She was in a bad mood and scolded her colleagues in the marketing department one by one. I don't know why, but I went to report my activities as usual, which just happened to catch up with her temper.

Look at the scene, it was a glaring book that was thrown over with a bang. Who do you like to lose your temper with? Send it home. Don't treat everyone as a soft persimmon. She just got angry, swore, and the veins stood out suddenly. She lifted her mobile phone and fell to the ground.

I sneered and walked out of the office. Don't reason with fools, don't argue with people with emotions.

in the workplace, you can be kind if you are forced gracefully, but you must be sharp-edged instead of being bullied by others.

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In love, there is a kind of person who is absolutely unforgivable, cheating on a man or a woman.

My friend Xiaoya and her boyfriend fell in love for two years, and they fell in love when they were in college. My boyfriend is from an aerospace university, and Xiaoya is a normal student in a university next door.

I thought they were very loving, and I didn't understand her difficulties until I asked Xiaoya out one day. Xiaoya secretly boarded her boyfriend's QQ, checked the chat record and found that her boyfriend and a girl were particularly ambiguous. That kind of ambiguity is completely beyond the normal boyfriend and girlfriend.

Xiaoya angrily asked her boyfriend for a theory, but her boyfriend blamed Xiaoya, how could she invade his privacy. Later, when they broke up, the man admitted that they belonged to emotional infidelity.

That's great. The man directly kneels down and asks Xiaoya for forgiveness. Xiaoya was too soft-hearted after all, and she didn't break up. I can't say anything about this relationship. I just hope that her boyfriend can really do his duty and not waste Xiaoya's heart.

before I am gone, it's none of my business what you like. But as long as I come, there is no room for any sand in my eyes. Your past has nothing to do with me, but from the moment you are with me, please forget everything.

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The affair of cheating in the entertainment circle has always been a heated discussion.

I still remember that when the article was derailed, Ma Yili made a line and cherished it. Many people said that Ma Yili, you are too generous and a good woman. Almost overnight, all kinds of marketing articles are popular and cherished, and Ma Yili has become a so-called good woman in the eyes of most people.

to tell you the truth, I am quite disdainful. I don't believe that a woman can tolerate this unless she has already stopped loving. Of course, I don't need to say much about other people's affairs, such as the spectators who eat melons. Nowadays, things have been silent for several years, and Yao Di began to make a busy comeback, and the article also became a director.

the entertainment circle has always been, the hot spots have passed, who can remember who, and all kinds of whitewashing ways have begun again. But in fact, something happened. It's like a mark imprinted on your mind. What happened is what happened, and you can't go back to the past after all.

As a woman, I don't appreciate Ma Yili's so-called kindness. Of course, this is someone else's business, not mine.

I still remember Alyssa Chia's ex-wife's infidelity. In the program, Alyssa Chia accused her ex-husband Sun Zhihao in tears, which also started an unprecedented tearing war. But fortunately, her attitude was tough, and she broke away from love rat decisively by proper means. At the same time, she made a smooth comeback, gained her love and got a beautiful little daughter.

Alyssa Chia is undoubtedly happy. It is conceivable that if she is kind and tolerant, her life will be bleak.

Wang Baoqiang's divorce cases continue to ferment. Tell the truth, I really feel bad for my baby. Some netizens commented that a big man, don't have a hard time with women. Some people are not worth letting go unless you ruin yourself. Wang Baoqiang, the mistake is that you are too kind, too indifferent to believe a woman who is a snake and a scorpion. This man, you can love others, but you must love yourself without reservation.

I sincerely hope that the baby's affairs can be solved as soon as possible. People who do too much evil will eventually get what they deserve. Believe a word, everything is reincarnation. If you have caused too many troubles, you will be punished as you deserve. To some extent, Ma's little hooves have ruined his life. People should not be too greedy, and money is really not a good thing sometimes.

people, I have to say that many times happiness is in your own hands, and being kind to yourself is responsible for yourself. Blindly forbearance, you don't deserve sympathy, why? You caused it yourself, and it has nothing to do with others.

people, living in this world is too kind, which is definitely not a good thing. You can be kind, but please bring some sharpness.

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Famous sayings about kindness

1. If beauty is a letter of recommendation, kindness is a credit card. -Bulwer Li Shun

2. Kindness is a rare pearl in history, and kind people are almost superior to great people. -Hugo

3. Seeing his sincerity, the stone is open. -"The Biography of Han Poetry"

4. Sincerity is the highest virtue in life. -Chaucer

5. Sincerity is an open mind. -laroche Foucault

6. Simplicity can touch my heart more than clever words. -Shakespeare

7. When a person's words and deeds are inconsistent, it is completely bad, which will lead to hypocrisy. -Lenin

8. People are good, but all the virtues is not enough. -yang Wanli

9. touching warm current of human kindness can heal the wounds of mind and body. -Rozov

1. Sincerity is the road to honor. -zola

11. Facts are often not as beautiful as words. -Lu Xun

12. When a person is in a happy mood, he appears kind. -Gorky

13. More deficiency is better than less reality. -Chen fu

14. Good behavior has one advantage, that is, it ennobles the human soul and enables it to do better behavior. -Rousseau

15. There are many beautiful things in the world, and there are many beautiful words, but it is rare to seek a true word. -Shen juyun

16. among all moral qualities, the kind nature is the most needed in the world. -Russell

17. A kind heart is gold. -Shakespeare

18. An honest man must be faithful to himself, and his last support is sincerity. -Emerson

19. An honest man never regrets his honesty. -entrust fuller

2. hoe one evil and grow ten good. -"The Biography of Bi Shian in the History of Song Dynasty"

21. People who are kind are also kind. -Guan Zhong

22. Honesty is the most touching thing. -Shakespeare

23. The kinder people are, the less aware they are of other people's ulterior motives. -Miley

24. The truth may be sad, but it is better than a promise. -tile Azhayev

25, I ask others to be honest, I have to be honest. -Dostoevsky

26. We all know that there is day at night, and we all know that there is land on the ship, but we just "know" it, not "feel". -feng Zikai

27. truly talented people are always kind, frank, straightforward and never reserved. -Balzac

28. Heart-to-heart conversation is the display of the soul. -Wen Kaverin

29. The source of goodness is within. If you dig it, it will gush out. -aurelius

3. Good behavior has one advantage, that is, it ennobles the human soul and enables it to do better behavior.

31. What is money compared with a pure conscience? -Hardy

32. If you are sincere, you will be upright, and if you manage things, you will be reasonable. -Yang Shi

33. Truth and simplicity are the precious qualities of genius. -stanislavski

34. Honesty and ignorance are weak and useless; However, knowledge without honesty is dangerous and terrible. -Johnson

inspirational quotes about kindness

inspirational quotes about kindness

1. In the past life, friendship, like a bright lamp, shone through my soul and made my existence a little bit glorious. Ba Jin

2. Don't take the medal out of your own pocket and lend it to your friend. It's insulting to him. Tagore

3. Those who can't conquer each other with warmth can't conquer each other with beatings. Chekhov

4. Friendship is that two hearts treat each other sincerely, not that one beats the other. Lu Xun

5. Honesty, like all our sentiments, should be divided into negative and positive categories. Negative honesty is honest when there is no chance of getting rich. Positive honesty is tempted and unmoved every day. Balzac's Uncle Bunce

6. If a person has no conscience, he can't live even with great intelligence! Gorky's My University

7. If everything is good, everything is beautiful. A study of Tolstoy's works

8. Don't act on the small evil, and don't act on the small good. China Jin Chen Shou

9. Friendship, like flowers, is better to be light. The lighter the fragrance, the more attached it is and the more lasting it will be. Xi Murong

1. Help your friends when they are in trouble, and don't gossip until things are hopeless. Aesop, Greece

11. If a person abandons his faithful friend, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life. Sophocles

12. It is unwise to be slandered and make a big publicity, unless you can get great benefits from publicity. Defamation can rarely stand the wear and tear of silence. Autobiography of Mark Twain

13. Sincere concern makes people feel as happy as a bird in the morning facing the rising sun in spring. Gorky of the Soviet Union

14. Books need nests, spiders need webs, and people need friendship. Blake, England

15. When you explain this question, you must never distort it or attach it to others. More can't rely on their own smart, knowingly, make your own soul guilty. Shakespeare's Henry V

16. The laws of conscience are often different from those in the classics. Tagore's Sacrifice

17. Love and goodness are happiness and truth, the only possible happiness and truth in the world. The biography of Tolstoy by Roman Roland

18. The voice of people pouring out their hearts is gentler, more real, and can be absolutely trusted, and it is quite certain that it gives people nothing but the most cordial advice. Dickens' Christmas Tales

19. Conscience, which condemns people, scares me enough, both for adults and children. Dickens' Great Expectations

2. Kindness is not a science, but an act. Faroman Roland

21. Eating is beneficial and harmless only when you are hungry. Similarly, dealing with people is beneficial and harmless only when you are caring. Leo Tolstoy

22. Since we are all mortals, it is better to keep our friendship at a moderate level and not get too involved in each other's spiritual life. Euripides friendship can never be a transaction; On the contrary, it needs the most thorough concept of disinterest. Mo Luoa

23. Love yourself. In the end, cherish those who hate you. Honesty will win you more benefits than corruption. Shakespeare's Henry VIII

24. People who are kind-hearted and imaginative are more likely to gather together than those who are cruel and cruel. Johnson

25. Everyone has a stain on his conscience, but most people don't care about this ornament in their hearts, just like wearing a starched shirt. Gorky's water and its significance in nature and human life

26. True friendship can only be based on the combination of similar temperament. Beethoven

27. Benevolent people are invincible in the world. China Mencius in the Warring States Period

28. If you want to live a happy life, pray to God and be an honest man, then you must keep your promise. Dickens' Bleak House

29. Friendship that grows inch by inch like an oak tree is more reliable than friendship that suddenly rises like a melon vine. Charlotte Bronte

3. Everything in a person should be beautiful: face, clothes, mind and thoughts. Russian Chekhov

31. Friendship is reliable in other things, but it can't be trusted in love. So lovers use their own lips and tongues. Who is born, let him convey his feelings by himself, and never ask others to do it for him; Because beauty is a witch, under her magic, loyalty will dissolve in passion. Shakespeare

32. Wine is a colorless liquid flame, which quickly and accurately burns all human things in people's hearts. Gorky's Chimney Sweeper

33. If you lack sincerity in doing things, or are reluctant to start work, you will not achieve anything even if you have great skills. Dickens's bleak house

34. True friendship needs to keep a certain interval. There is a gap, there will be respect; Only with respect can friendship last forever. Especially today

35. The more goodness in life, the more interest in life itself. The two are in harmony and complement each other. Tolstoy's The Death of Ivan ilic

36. It is insulting to show disdain for other people's happiness. Margaret Usana

37. The widest thing in the world is the ocean, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky. French Hugo

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