2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open them at will, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget and life will be sunny and happy.
3. tolerance means not caring, even if things have passed. Everyone makes mistakes. If you cling to their past mistakes, you will form an ideological burden, distrust, resentment and reluctance, which will limit your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind. With majesty, he can give people confidence and motivation, so he can prevent or reduce betrayal.
4. Tolerance is chic. "Everywhere, Qingyang is like a horse, and every family has Chang 'an Road". Being generous and tolerant of criticism is the way to success in your career and happiness in your family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and live a tired life. It is rare to go there once in the world, and chic is the most important thing.
Tolerance is a strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat to advance and actively defend. The concession embodied in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and necessity are not tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings.
6. Tolerance means that when others disagree with your point of view, don't force it. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its origin. Any motive has certain incentives. Only by knowing the root of the other party's thoughts and finding the basis of their own opinions can we put ourselves in the other party's shoes and put forward a plan that is more in line with the other party's psychology and accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them, and do a good job of sublation.
7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough. Calm, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain that grows in thorns." If we can take a step back, the world will naturally be broad.
8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving opportunities is not connivance, nor is it exempting the other party from responsibilities. Everyone needs to be responsible for their actions; Everyone has to bear the consequences. Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly violate the prohibition (mistake) and show weakness.
9. Motto: Violet leaves its fragrance on its ankle. This is forgiveness. "-Mark Twain
The way of a gentleman is loyalty and forgiveness. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to me, and I want to do it without others. (Analects of Confucius)
Taishan does not let the soil, so it can become big; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese)
"Tolerance is like a drizzle in the sky, nourishing the earth. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. Shakespeare. This is a line from the famous play The Merchant of Venice.
Tolerance is the only test of civilization (asking for help)
The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james)
Generosity is the greatest thing (Irving)
There are many occasions in life: what you intend to achieve with resentment, what you can achieve through forgiveness, and what you can achieve through forgiveness (Sidney Smith)
Forgive sincerely, and then forget it (UK)
Forgiveness is human and forgetting is sacred (James Glenn)
Tolerant people are the most impatient, and tolerant people are the most intolerant (bernays)
The noblest revenge is forgiveness (Hugo)
People who have not tolerated others are not worthy of being tolerated by others. But who can say that there is no need for tolerance? (Turgenev)
God of justice, tolerance is our most perfect behavior (Wordsworth)
Only brave people know tolerance; Cowards will never tolerate it. It's not in his nature (Stern)
Tolerance is either good or bad for people (Burke)
Never approach a person who hurts others' teeth but opposes revenge and advocates tolerance-(Lu Xun)
Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself. If you want to let go, you have to let go and forgive others. People who are not as good as themselves can't be sick. People should tolerate each other: everyone has weaknesses, and in his weakest aspect, everyone can be chopped to pieces. In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow everyone to maintain their own personality. Wide to fierce, fierce to wide, wide to fierce. Combine leniency with severity, and pay equal attention to kindness and prestige. Mercy can accomplish things. Wide and chestnut, strict and warm. Sincere and generous. Kang Youwei's The First Book of Emperor Shangqing
The more desires a person has, the narrower his mind becomes; The less desire he has, the wider his mind becomes. Qing Jinying's "Motto on the Wall"
Do a lot of work, and the tree will enjoy the cool. China proverb: It is better to tolerate the slander of others than to argue. I'm insulted, too. It's better to prevent it than not to prevent it. Master Hongyi's "Apologism Not Recorded"
No one can be good unless he is Yao Shun. The Book of Jingzhou by Tang Li Bai and the Han Dynasty
Guan Yu released the Prime Minister Cao, and the husband should be tolerant. Chinese proverb
Kindness means being good at forgiving. Frost's New Hampshire
Be patient and remember that trouble has nothing to do with it. Chinese proverb
Endurance can make a real gentleman, and flexibility can make a person. Chinese proverb
Don't be embarrassed and sad, and don't hate old and new. Qing Jinying's motto hangs on the wall.
Sages are expensive, and the world is cheap. Jia Xin Yu Shu Shi
The East China Sea is vast and deep, from humble to hundred rivers; Although the five mountains are high, they are not as good as dirt. History of the three kingdoms When I Want to Travel to Nanshan by Cao Zhi
Endure one sentence, take a break, endure one thing, and miss one. Chinese proverb
If you don't think twice, you will regret it. People can bear it without worry. Feng Ming magnum's Awakening the World.
People should have a conscience, and even a cruel heart will have a short and beautiful memory of forgiving others. [Czech] seifert's City of Tears
Forgive others more and yourself less. Chinese proverb
It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend. Blake's Yale Salem
Have forbearance and help; Tolerance makes virtue great. Upper Chen Shujun
Tolerance is great, but no desire is just. Ancient and modern couplets were usurped.
Out of the hole, you have to forgive others, forgive others. Song. Good chess Taoist "quatrains"
The benevolent loves everything. Zhao Shi Ji
The peak of the mountain is not high, and the water is narrow and not deep. A new preface to Han Liuxiang. Jieshi
Discouraged self-painting, narrow and easy to profit. Zhu Zhiyu's Zhu Shunshui Collection of Gong Min.
All things benefit from generosity and compatibility. Factual gardens in song dynasty. Ancestor sermon
The wicked are bold, the villain is successful, and the gentleman is great. Chinese proverb
If you don't tolerate others, you don't deserve to be tolerated. Luo Ting in Turgenev's Works [Russia]
The world is wider than the chest, and there are often ferry boats. China proverb Taishan does not allow soil, so it can become big; Rivers and seas do not choose trickle, so they can be deep; The king is not only popular, so he can understand his virtue. Qin Lisi's admonition and expulsion.
If it is too rigid, it will be broken, and you can't find an apprentice. Biography of Jin Shu Liu Kun
A gentleman is a gentleman if he can tolerate a villain. Feng Ming Menglong's Supplement to the Enlarged Think Tank
Can be a servant and make him guilty; It is guilty, so it is widely taken; Widely used, so the higher the person. Li Mingzhi burned books. Gao Yanyan'
A patient can support a hundred brave people, and a quiet person can control a hundred movements. Xun's mind.
It's convenient when it's convenient. Forgive others. Wu Ming cheng en journey to the west
For example, the way to govern the country is to be lenient and moderate.
Forgiveness is fierce, fierceness is broad, and politics is harmonious.
The will is as strong as iron and the measure is as big as the sea.
Only by respecting others can people be respected.
People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. -(Russia) Turgenev
A great man has two hearts: a bleeding heart and a tolerant heart. -(Lebanese) Ji Bolun
Those who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. -"Mencius Li Lou"