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"Fudan Goddess" Chen Guo, I believe many people have heard her famous sayings.

"Let it be noisy, I have all kinds of charms, and I have nothing to do with the world."

"There are only two meaningful things in life: the first is to make yourself happy, and the second is to make yourself happy. It’s about making more people happy.”

“Elegance is when you follow your heart and live your own happy life.”

She is one of the first batch of “Internet celebrities.” teacher".

As early as 2010, after a video of her lecture was posted online by students, her unique lecture style and wonderful remarks made her famous online.

In 2018, with the addition of self-media and short videos, she quickly became popular and became a popular Internet celebrity beauty teacher.

Some people fell in love with Chen Guo’s eloquence, while others fell in love with Chen Guo’s thoughts.

Some students even commented on her: "The teacher teaches the class so beautifully, I am very happy to be her student."

However, having traffic will definitely bring controversy.

Some people call her a "language artist" and think that what she talks about is too superficial and superficial.

Some people have questioned her "love quotes", thinking that she is single, so why should she talk about love?

During a speech program, she mispronounced a word, and netizens questioned her academic qualifications and true talent, and she was instantly pushed to the forefront.

In just a few years, Chen Guo "fell off the altar". What exactly did she go through?

Chen Guo, who was born in 1981, is a proper "new era woman".

She was born into a scholarly family in Shanghai. When she was very young, her grandmother taught her:

“Nothing can teach people to grow and mature more than life itself. "

Grandpa will also say to her: "Beautiful women are everywhere, but there are very few beautiful women. I hope you can grow into a beautiful woman with great wisdom. "

Under the influence of such an environment, Chen Guo began to study literature, history and philosophy very early.

Later, she got her wish and entered Fudan University, majoring in philosophy, and studied all the way to a Ph.D.

In 2008, after graduating, Chen Guo successfully stayed in school and became a teacher of "Ideological and Moral Cultivation and Basic Legal Courses".

Unlike other teachers, she stood on the podium as indulgent and carefree as usual.

She always likes to hold chalk in one hand and put the other hand in her trouser pocket, talking freely about all interesting things.

In the classroom, golden sentences appear frequently, which are simple and philosophical. After listening to them, they often leave people with endless aftertaste.

It is precisely because of her authenticity and cheerfulness that many students want to live like her and be imbued with her charm.

She talks about self-love: "It is important for others to like you and for yourself to like yourself, but if you cannot balance both, it is more important for you to like yourself."

She talks about loneliness : "Loneliness is not bitter, but a very high state."

She talks about the use of uselessness: "Useful things can make you make a living, and useless things can make you happy."

She talks about having a confidant in life: “It’s hard to find a confidant in life, but the best confidant is actually yourself.

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She talked about marriage: "Marriage is the beginning of another life, and you should choose it seriously. This is your responsibility to yourself and others. Then slowly learn to love yourself, love each other, love this relationship, and live from you and me to a complete us. ”

Her classes are harder to grab than Double Eleven, and the classroom of 150 people is always full of people.

Many people have gained inspiration and inspiration from her speech. Her teachings have also made her famous, and her courses have been viewed more than 10 million times.

On January 6, 2019, Chen Guo appeared on CCTV's "News Network" and her popularity reached its peak. .

From becoming famous at Fudan University, to becoming popular all over the Internet, and then appearing on "Xinwen Lianbo"

Many people like her courses, and what they like even more is her rich knowledge. A reserve of knowledge and an inner-outside approach to life.

There is a line in "Sherlock": Brainy is the new sex.

Intelligence is a kind of thing. New sexy.

Her thoughts are more attractive than her appearance. She lives like a beam of light and is steadily happy.

After Chen Guo became popular, there were voices of criticism among the applause.

When participating in the CCTV variety show "Let's Talk", a small mistake caused her to fall off the stage.

A relatively complicated incident appeared in the show. The Chinese character - 耀耋 (mào dié), but Chen Guo pronounced it as "Mao Zhi"

One stone stirred up a lot of waves. Many netizens believed that although this is a rare word, as a senior high school student. How could a university teacher not recognize her?

Abuse and doubts poured in.

Some netizens even began to doubt Chen Guo’s true level, attacking her as “a leader in Chinese academic circles.” "Shame".

In fact, is the pronunciation error really that important?

No one is a saint, and no one can make mistakes. The president of Peking University once pronounced "Honghu" as "Honghao" ", the president of Tsinghua University doesn't know the word "瓠" yet.

Chen Guo is just an ordinary person, and it is inevitable that there will be a word he doesn't recognize.

But almost overnight , Chen Guo's teaching content was criticized as "chicken soup article"

Netizens said that she had no professional writings and what she taught was just "fast food culture", which was useless.

Wang Yangming once said: "Knowing but not doing it is ignorance. "

There is a popular saying on the Internet, "We have listened to so many principles and read so many books, but we still cannot live a good life."

In fact, it is not because the principles are useless , books are useless, but because we "know but do not do" and "do but do not persist"

Too many of us are a bit "materialistic" and "pragmatic" and want to solve everything in one step. , causing our spiritual life to be very lacking.

And Chen Guo’s real value lies in returning to human subjectivity.

She shows the nourishment and spiritual world of human subjectivity to the public. Richness.

She recommends an elegant lifestyle to the public, showing the nourishment and richness of the spiritual world, which are all of positive significance.

As Sa Beining said of her:

"Teacher Chen Guo has overturned the inherent impression of university teachers in my mind. When young people face the world, the process of pursuing answers may be painful and confusing, but by listening to Teacher Chen Guo's classes, she can give people a happy and joyful state to move forward.

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For young scholars like this, I think we should encourage and support rather than criticize.

(Look carefully at the blackboard, is her class really just superficial chicken soup)

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Chen Guo herself did not pay much attention to the controversy.

She claimed that she was an ordinary person, but one day she suddenly became known to everyone. > Since then, Chen Guo has slowly "disappeared" from the Internet and returned to her own life.

There were rumors that she was suspended from classes at Fudan University, but it was actually a rumor. She has been teaching at Fudan University. p>

Because even if she becomes famous, she has always remained sober

She once mentioned a point during her lecture:

"No matter how you live. , there are always people who don’t like you.

So what’s the conclusion? The conclusion is that when you live your true self, there will still be people who like you and people who don't like you. But you will like yourself more. ”

It is not easy to be liked by others in your lifetime.

No matter how well you do, you will hear doubts and get all kinds of compliments. Such denial.

A person’s greatest charm is not obtained by pleasing others, but by living oneself.

It is better to live oneself than to please others. .

Chen Guo once said: "The altar is the altar." She has actually predicted her future.

Her "history of ups and downs" lies in her life. Her knowledge and knowledge were overwhelmed by her negligence and carelessness.

But no matter what the ups and downs of her life, she remained calm.

Before she became a teacher, she was the best. She is an active poster on bbs. She can write long words in the middle of the night, and her words are full of talent.

However, her current WB has been stopped for more than 2 years, and she cannot be found on any public platform. account.

Just like Luo Xiang some time ago, he was sniped at by bad critics, which led to him being shut up, quitting, and being hurt.

People are afraid of people. , is the truth of the current public opinion environment.

Fortunately, Chen Guo, like Luo Xiang, still knows what she wants to do.

She still prepares her lessons with all her heart. To help students understand boring knowledge points in a better way.

She will also have drinks, sing and dance with friends, and share interesting experiences with everyone.

Yes. Fudan students once said that they often see Teacher Chen Guo in the cafeteria:

“Wearing wired headphones, I don’t know whether I am listening to music, but I won’t be disturbed by others. She lives in her world and doesn't care about the gossip of this world. "

Chen Guo can still live such a free and easy life. The fundamental reason is, as she said:

"Let it be noisy, I have my own way, I have my own style. Seed and have no fight with the world. "

"If you bloom, butterflies will come" tells such a story:

There was a man who liked butterflies very much. In order to get beautiful butterflies, he bought a pair of running shoes. I put on my sports clothes and chased them for a long time, and finally caught a few while panting.

But the butterflies were struggling in fear in the net, and they were not beautiful at all. They would fly whenever they had the chance. Let's go.

Another person also liked butterflies. He bought some pots of flowers and placed them on the window sill. Then he sat quietly on the sofa and sipped the tea, leisurely watching the butterflies fluttering around the flowers. < /p>

But in fact, this is still a kind of seeking heart, but the seeking heart has become peaceful.

The true freedom and ease is when I bloom, no matter whether the butterfly love comes or not.

If you ask for something, you will be disappointed; if you don’t ask for anything, you can truly be yourself.

I am reminded of Mr. Yang Jiang’s translation of Rand’s poem:

“I don’t argue with anyone, and I disdain anyone to argue with; I love nature, followed by art; I My hands are burning with the fire of life to keep warm; when the fire dies, I am ready to leave."

Mr. Nan Huaijin also believes that the highest state of life is: Buddha as the heart, Tao as the bones, Confucianism as the appearance, and magnanimity. See the world.

Let your people live a clear and contented life, this is the most important thing.

Being charming means that you love life and dance lightly;

Being independent from the world means that you can face many situations in life calmly, calmly and peacefully. Self-adapted mind.

Soulful, rooted, interesting, the most elegant look of a woman is nothing more than living her life like a beam of light like Chen Guo.

*Author: Mr. Shiguang--Shuangmu, born in the 90s, the author of the Slow Time column, thinks carefully with reason and lives quietly with attitude. Half of it is shaded and half of it is bathed in sunshine.