I urge you to have another glass of wine, leaving Yangguan in the west without any old friends

If we are close to each other at the end of the world, we will know Mao Zedong in the sea

After all the calamity, we will meet again. Lu Xun wipes away all grudges with a smile

Only with friends can life show its full value. "John Christophe" by Romain Rolland. Those who love others will always love them; those who respect others will always respect them. Mencius

Don’t trust people when you employ them, don’t trust people when you doubt them

Unity is strength

If people don’t have faith, they don’t know what they can do. "The Analects of Confucius"

With a cold eyebrow and a thousand fingers, he bows his head and is willing to be the bully Lu Xun

The two of them are of the same mind, and their sharpness can break the gold "Book of Changes"

Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others

Turn hostility into friendship

The sea is open to all rivers, and tolerance is great

The largest in the world is the ocean, bigger than the ocean is the sky, bigger than the sky is Hugo (French writer)

The beauty of adulthood is that benevolent people love others, and generosity will win people

For the purpose of etiquette, harmony is the most valuable

The weather is not as good as the right place, and the right place is not as good as the right people

Take a step back, the sea and the sky are brighter, and endure the calm for a while

Integrity is more important than Mount Tai

No one is perfect, and gold is not pure

I examine myself three times a day, Zeng Zi

No one is a sage, no one can make mistakes

If you make mistakes, you will not be afraid of changing Confucius

To untie the bell, you need the person who tied it

Move it with emotion , learn by reason

A single thread cannot make a thread, a single tree cannot make a forest

Gathering the minds of many people can spread loyalty and benefit; if people are united, Mount Tai can move

With unity It is a honor to help each other, but it is a shame to benefit others at the expense of others. Hu Yaobang

Unite to strengthen the country and help each other to prosper the country

Confucius: When three people walk together, there must be my teacher

The gentleman Friendship between villains is as sweet as water, and friendship between villains is as sweet as wine. "Zhuangzi" Liquor: sweet wine

When a gentleman enters, he behaves diligently, and when he comes out, he makes friends with virtuous people. "Xunzi"

(A gentleman behaves at home. Be kind and make friends with wise people outside)

Don’t give to others what you don’t want others to do

Repay a peach for a peach, give me a papaya, and repay him with a jade

Where there is sincerity, gold and stone will open

Different paths do not lead to the same goal. Liu Zongyuan

Resend yourself with the same heart that blames others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself

A wise man knows others, a benevolent man loves others (Xunzi, Zhi: understand, understand)

The peach blossoms are thousands of feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun's gift to me Li Bai

In the face of different opinions, be calm and seek common ground while reserving differences; in the face of difficulties, work together to overcome difficulties; in the face of honor, be humble to each other and put others first; when mistakes and setbacks occur, have the courage to introspect and dare to bear. Worry about what others are worried about, and help others when it is difficult to help them

Although the lotus is good, it still needs the support of green leaves. A fence has three stakes, and a hero has three helpers

Human relations motto

1. To appreciate others is to dignify oneself.

2. There is no ownership of life, only the right to use life.

3. A gentleman always sets his mind, and a villain always sets his mind.

4. Do more and gain more, do less and lose more.

5. Being angry is punishing yourself for the mistakes of others.

6. Those who do not respect themselves will be humiliated. Those who do not take care of themselves will bring disaster. Those who are not complacent will benefit. He who is not self-sufficient is knowledgeable.

7. Don’t let others know everything about the past.

8. Only those who respect themselves are more courageous to shrink themselves.

9. The gentleman is the goal, and the villain is the goal. Know the fate, cherish it and create good fate again.

10. Be willing to do it and enjoy it.

11. People who can make good use of their time will be able to control the direction of their efforts.

12. A person is not afraid of making mistakes, but is afraid of not correcting them. It is not difficult to correct them.

13. Success is the play of strengths, failure is the accumulation of shortcomings.

14. You can’t do good deeds without me, and you can’t do bad things without me.

15. People’s eyes are in front and they only see the shortcomings of others and cannot see their own shortcomings at all.

16. Only with wisdom can you be good and evil; only with humility can you build a happy life.

17. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, so don’t worry about them.

18. When the sun shines brightly, parents are kind; when a gentleman is big, a humble person is popular.

19. There are two things in the world that cannot wait: 1. Filial piety. 2. Do good deeds.

20. Visit friends who are in crisis more often than those who are popular.

21. Possession is a burden, but not caring about it is freedom.

22. It is a good thing to help people in times of crisis and emergencies. If you can refrain from boasting, you will be very virtuous!

23. Education should be given to right and wrong, and praise should be used as a warning.

24. Self-desire is a sign of poverty. Things are always enough, the mind is always happy, and people have no expectations and high standards.

25. Only when you can do something difficult, do it, give up something difficult, and do something difficult can you sublimate your personality.

26. Evil, fearing that others will know it is a great evil.

Goodness, if you want others to know it, is not true goodness.

27. Being able to give love is blessing, and being able to eliminate worries is wisdom.

28. People may not be beautiful, but they must be healthy; people may not be great, but they must be happy; people may not be perfect, but they must pursue.

29. Be attentive and don’t worry or worry.

30. The power cannot be exhausted, the blessings cannot be enjoyed, the advantages cannot be exploited, and the wisdom cannot be exhausted.

31. With confidence, perseverance, and courage, nothing is impossible.

32. The structure of people is to support each other, and everyone’s career requires everyone’s participation.

33. Experience is often what people call mistakes.

34. The more you perform your duty, the more you have the ability.

35. True love is to take good care of yourself.

36. Do it willingly and receive it happily.

37. If you receive a favor from someone, you should repay it with a spring.

38. Xinmei likes everything. Be tolerant to others and be careful when speaking.

39. Always having good intentions means always having good days.

40. The happiest people are not rich people, but caring people.

41. Don’t be jealous of others. If you are jealous of others, you will end up short. Don't protect yourself from shortcomings. If you protect yourself from shortcomings, you will not grow up in the end.

42. People who always like to admire their own footsteps will only go around in circles.

43. Conquering the world is not great. A person who can conquer himself is the greatest person in the world.

44. Doing nothing every day is the consumer of life. Being active and useful is the creator of life.

45. Always be understanding, tolerant, grateful, content, and cherish blessings in your heart.

46. When you are used to living one kind of life, then you will only live one day in your life; if you live a new life, then you will live a wonderful life every day.

47. To contribute to the family and to society is to cultivate blessings. To purify oneself is to cultivate wisdom. To have both is to cultivate blessings and wisdom.

48. Learning can change everything. Action can solve all problems.

49. To pursue the goodness and beauty of nature, we must get rid of the right and wrong of others and ourselves. If we can be harmonious with others, we can achieve perfect nature.

50. Changing yourself saves yourself, influencing others saves others.

51. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself.

52. Traveling is not only about speed, but also whether it can be sustained; progress is not only about speed, but also whether it can maintain the right direction.

53. Without a clear mind, no matter how fast you step, you will go astray; without careful steps, no matter how smooth the road is, you will fall.

54. The meaning of life lies in giving, not in receiving, nor in fighting for.

55. You can enjoy the greenery in spring, play in the water in summer, appreciate chrysanthemums in autumn, and ski in winter. Love life, life is always full of sunshine in all seasons!

56. Never forget your faults, never forget your faults, and never forget your gratitude.

57. With confidence, perseverance and courage, nothing is impossible in the world.

58. The most beautiful things in the sky are the stars, and the most beautiful things in life are the warmth.

59. A big belly can accommodate you, and it can eliminate many troubles and obstacles. You can smile broadly and form a bond of boundless joy.

60. A person with a bad temper and a bad mouth cannot be considered a good person no matter how good his heart is.

If you do these 10 things, there is no interpersonal relationship that cannot be improved

If you do these 10 things, there is no interpersonal relationship that cannot be improved

Text/Xu Tiansheng

1. Determine your own value and affirm your own existence

Anyone's opinion of you should always be used as a reference and suggestion because it is more representative of himself. If you affirm yourself through the eyes of others, you are giving up the sovereignty of your life; this is the most common mistake in all relationships.

Only you can decide what kind of person you are. Therefore, don't let others see you instead of yourself in your eyes. A truly great person is one who can see the greatness in other people's lives; the reason why a person is great is that he can see the greatness in everyone's heart.

2. Let the people around you feel great because they are with you

This does not mean that we are arrogant, but that we feel capable and confident. Handle things well.

Only when you can wipe away the dust of other people’s appearance, see clearly the inner uniqueness of others, and make people around you feel great because of being with you, can you be the one who discovers the beauty of pearls people.

People naturally hate being around people who only project negative energy. Seeing people who radiate the light and positive power of life will re-inspire the message of youthful vitality within us.

3. No matter how much deception we encounter, we still believe in the goodness of human nature

In the process of learning and creation, we sometimes do ignorant and destructive things. If we only judge by human behavior Determine its value and essence, then people will never have a chance to turn around. What we need is a kind of tolerance and acceptance that is truly in line with the spirit of the new era.

4. Ask yourself what you can give and share in interpersonal relationships

Many people hope to have beautiful interpersonal relationships, but in fact they are as poor as a beggar inside. Begging for love, care and devotion from others. This is sometimes true in marriages and relationships. As a result, interpersonal relationships become a transaction, and many people only expect things from others without reflecting on what they can give.

In relationships, if you just wait for others to give you something, you will get nothing, but if you give love and blessings, you will get love and blessings.

5. Those who attack others are basically just attacking themselves

There is a very important motto of the new era: According to the law of the universe, everything you give will eventually come back to you. On oneself.

From this sentence, the fifth law of interpersonal relationships can be derived: Those who attack others are basically attacking themselves; those who slap others on the right cheek are slapping themselves on the left. If you adopt the method of fighting evil with evil, then whatever you give out will eventually come back to you. In relationships, people often don't see this clearly.

People must learn to take responsibility for themselves, otherwise not only will their interpersonal relationships be in chaos, but they will always feel lost. You take action to be kind to others for your own sake and to understand who you are. We need to return to our own hearts instead of worrying about others all day long.

6. Let the inner emotions be intimately identified with the external weather

Whenever anger or sadness surges in your heart, you must learn to transform their energy into meditation, especially wind. When the rain is howling, try to throw away the negative emotions instead of venting them on your family or children. Learn to let the external weather and internal feelings gain intimate recognition.

People often accumulate negative emotions and conflict with others when angry, often hurting others and themselves. At this time, we might as well do a meditation practice and regard ourselves as a grounding wire to connect with the earth, so that our emotions can be soothed and resolved. In fact, the airflow flowing in our trachea is the same as the airflow whistling through the valley. The soul and energy flowing in our body are also consistent with the energy of the earth. Therefore, if we feel that pressure is accumulating in our hearts or that conflict is about to break out, then Meditation is a great practice.

7. Give the other person what the other person needs, not what you want to give subjectively.

This problem often causes love-hate entanglement in interpersonal relationships. Especially in parent-child or friend relationships, we often end up feeling very depressed when we feel hot and cold.

Therefore, instead of using suspicion in interpersonal communication, you should ask the other party directly: How do you want me to treat you? This is a panacea that touches people's hearts. It's probably the first time someone has asked him something like this in a long time!

Everyone wants to understand and accept each other, and to be treated the way they like. So don’t be shy about letting others know that I want to know more about you. Especially when managing a parent-child relationship, you have to hold your child. How do you want your parents to treat you? My child, parents want to know more about your attitude and manage parent-child and interpersonal relationships in a non-critical way.

8. Let go of your own positions and opinions and see things from the other person’s perspective

The biggest killer of interpersonal relationships is criticism. Keeping distance between people is often out of defensiveness, because we don’t know how others will view us or whether they will hurt us. Therefore, if you don’t want to be the target of others’ criticism or be restricted by the framework of other people’s values, then you should try Face the people around you with a more flexible and accepting attitude. Any criticism you project will eventually bounce back on you; those who are unwilling to make others have an easy time will inevitably have a difficult life themselves.

Only by first jumping into the other person's position and then jumping back to look at the whole thing will you consider others in the decisions you make and the actions you take. People are strange animals. When they find that others are thinking about themselves, they will give up their individualism and start thinking about the other person. Only after such interpersonal relationships slowly expand, will the great love of the entire human race emerge.

9. Give others recognition and like others

Don’t belittle yourself because of your lower seniority or position, thinking that you are insignificant and have limited influence.

There is a difference between empathy and sympathy:

Empathy is looking at the other person’s life from the perspective of others. For example, when we see a beggar, we will squat down and chat with him to understand his life;

Sympathy means looking at the other person from our own rank and standpoint, so we will sympathize with the other person's situation, but not talk to him. The position and the state of mind are separate.

The two are completely different levels of feeling. Empathy is a deep understanding.

No one likes to feel sympathy, but everyone likes to feel empathy!

10. Express your feelings truly and do not blame or blame the other person for their mistakes

Finally, I would like to mention a situation: sometimes there will be obstacles in interpersonal relationships, maybe The other party does not want to hear your explanation, or you think it is not the right time to communicate with the other party. At this moment, you must master an extremely important principle: when communicating with others, you must truly express your feelings without blaming or blaming the other party. mistake.

When people face accusations from others, their first reaction is to defend and fight back.

We must learn to open our hearts and express our true inner feelings.

For example, an employee who works hard but is not favored by his boss can actually tell his boss honestly: I need your approval.

Therefore, in interpersonal communication, it is very important to tell the other person your true feelings directly and open your heart. Let the people around you feel great just because they are with you.

Classic quotes and aphorisms about emotional relationships

1. You should be reserved in your life, live life in peace, and don’t care about everything. There are no fish in the water, and there are no disciples in the people. No one will be with whom for the rest of his life. Some things Just keep it in mind.

2. If someone throws banknotes at you, kneel down and pick them up one by one. It doesn’t matter. When your food and clothing are related, a little self-esteem is nothing.

3. In the dark, I took out the cup and drank the wine. I had so many thoughts and hates that I didn’t know which one to gnash my teeth at. I simply forgot about them all and went to sleep quietly. .

4. I carry a bag and pick it up while walking. Picked up tons of stuff I didn’t want along the way. By the time I came across what I really wanted, the bag was already full.

5. A person can't leave because he doesn't want to leave; a person breaks an appointment because he doesn't want to keep it. All excuses are nonsense and are used to cover up unwillingness to sacrifice.

6. All women who are capable of doing their best have the sign of being a lady.

7. The main reason why people don’t explain is that they don’t care about what the other person thinks at all. People who don’t care have misunderstandings about things that don’t matter. It doesn’t matter. Whether you believe it or not, it doesn’t matter. It has no impact on the lives of the parties involved, so why bother to explain?

8. But women are women after all. As time goes by, they allow emotions to overflow and sprout, leading to the sad situation today. Women are all delusional and always want to get rich. No matter it starts with a night of fun, living together, or just having fun, in the end they always hope to grow old together. There are very few truly chic women. They always try to take advantage of men. Scrape something off.

9. Loving someone is never unrestrained. It is not love to leave a step for yourself.

10. I like to learn from people who have no knowledge but are smart. One set is unreasonable, primitive, and embarrassing, but it often works. Educated women are polite in everything, and even lose their only weapon, allowing themselves to be slaughtered by society.

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