1. A successful life is a perfect life

A successful life is a life of hard work, a life without any regrets, a life with clear goals and striving for it, and a life that will seize opportunities. Harvard University has made a scientific and systematic investigation and verification of success in life, and holds that success in life must have three major factors: first, macro-management ability, second, practical operation ability, and third, interpersonal skills. Among them, the first two only account for 15-2%, and the latter accounts for 8-85%. This is strikingly similar to the formula of the investigation and experiment once conducted in Tsinghua University, China: success =15% knowledge and skills +85% interpersonal relationship. The interpersonal relationship here does not refer to the usual vulgar human world, but refers to the ability to control life, adjust life and solve contradictions.

Everyone wants to succeed, but they often regard success as unattainable. In fact, a successful life starts from every bit, and success is very close to us. If we want to succeed step by step, we must start from now and achieve the "five skills", that is, we can laugh, listen, speak, do and think. As long as you want to succeed, as long as you work hard, as long as you succeed a little every day, a successful life will get closer and closer to you!

2. The fable of the iron ring

An iron ring accidentally lost a part of itself. So he desperately searched for the lost part. But because I am not round, I roll very slowly. But because of this, it saw flowers and plants that were seldom noticed on weekdays and made friends with them.

Everything comes to him who waits. One day, he found the missing part. With it, although it is perfect, it will run very fast and can no longer talk to flowers and plants ...

3. Churchill's weakness

Churchill's speech skills impressed the world, and his speech wording, tone and gestures showed extraordinary courage and strength. In the most difficult period of World War II, the spiritual pillar of British soldiers and civilians was almost Churchill's daily radio address. But who knows that Churchill was particularly shy when he was young, and he blushed when he spoke. When he determined his lofty goals and ambitions, he was determined to overcome this shortcoming. A few years later, he was personable and amazed.

4. Washington's Tooth

In 1784, five years before Washington became president of the United States, he was just 52 years old and almost lost all his teeth. He asked the dentist to implant nine teeth into his mouth, and all nine teeth were actually pulled out from the mouths of his slaves alive. This is what historians have just discovered in archaeology. Washington, the hero who once liberated slaves, suddenly slipped in our hearts, and we seemed to see the stain on the holy robe. But when you think about it carefully, it is not surprising to put yourself in the social background at that time. Yes, we regard someone as a saint because we don't know him well enough, so we can only look at him from a distance, paint him with various colors in our hearts, and then lower our heads to increase his height. In this sense, we should thank Washington for its imperfection.

5. hopeless

King Li of the Western Zhou Dynasty lived a luxurious life and cruelly oppressed the people. At that time, a loyal minister named Fan Bo often risked his life to remonstrate, hoping that King Li could turn over a new leaf, but instead of being taken seriously by King Li, he was laughed at by treacherous court officials.

Fan Bo was particularly anxious when he looked at the weakening national situation, so he wrote a poem to warn these villains. The main idea of the poem is: it's not that I'm old, but that you treat your worries as a joke. When the worry has not come, it can be prevented; However, once there are more and more worries, it is like a flame burning, and there is no way to remedy it.

Sure enough, the people soon drove Zhou Liwang to a far place and never let him come back.

6. Inspiration from Haier

In the eyes of many Chinese people, Haier, a successful enterprise, is already very powerful and remarkable. However, a reporter who followed Haier for many years said that Haier's "sense of hardship" was the strongest among the many enterprises he came into contact with. Zhang Ruimin, CEO of Haier Group, often says, "You are walking on thin ice with trepidation." An enterprise with an average annual growth rate of 81.6% in 16 years and an annual sales income of over 4 billion yuan, which is well-known not only at home but also abroad, can have such awareness, which is worthy of our deep thinking. According to Zhang Ruimin, their strategy of marching into China is very simple: winner takes all. Their goal is not to leave you any market or territory. Needless to say, many of our enterprises, not to mention weak enterprises, are outstanding people like Haier. Compared with the world's top 5 companies, there is still a gap, and they dare not relax and slack off. Face up to the seriousness of the challenge realistically, fully estimate the strength and difficulties of competitors, think about the worst and work hard for the best, which is more beneficial and less harmful.

7. A lady from a certain country came to a primary school in China, found five children and asked them to cooperate in one thing. The lady took out a bottle with five balls in it, and each ball was held by a string. The lady said to the five children, "each of you must pull a small ball out of the bottle within 7 seconds, or you will be drowned by the water in the bottle." Remember, there is only room for a small ball, and whoever throws the ball slowly is in danger of drowning. " The eldest of the five children thought for a moment, then whispered a few words to the other four children, and then motioned for the woman to swear that she had been given the following order. The lady said, "Go!" I saw that the youngest child pulled the ball out first, followed by the second, third and fourth balls, and finally the oldest child was pulled out. All five balls were pulled out in 7 seconds. The lady was stunned by the behavior of the children in China, and then shed tears of emotion. She said, "I have done this experiment several times in other countries, and all the children are struggling to pull it out. As a result, no one can get out and they are all drowned in it. The children in China are amazing! "

8. Hilton Group is well-known in the world hotel industry, with more than 2 towering and spectacular high-rise buildings all over the world. The reason why Hilton Group can be invincible in the fierce competition is that it is United from top to bottom. Donald Hilton once said, "I may be the luckiest person in Texas, and this blessing comes from friendship, like-minded partners.

9. Housewife

Chen Chong, a movie actress, described her life like this: "Things in life are trivial. In fact, I am a housewife in life. I have my husband and two children ... I may have cared a lot about my career when I was young, but I am really calm now. What I care about most now is these people around me. As long as they are alive and well and still love me, I will be happy. "

1. Zhao Benshan scored eight roles

In Zhao Benshan's very dramatic life, he also played many roles, such as chairman, deputy to the National People's Congress, husband, father and friend. At the recording scene of Art Life, Zhao Benshan scored eight roles in his life respectively. Film and television actors: 7 points; Sketch star: 8 points; Director and producer: 7 points; Deputies to the National People's Congress: 8 points; Chairman: 5 points; Father and husband: 1 points; Friend: 8 points

11. Descendants of Marx

Celka Xi, a reporter from Russian newspaper, took a taxi in the street of London and found that the driver had a distinctive appearance: a thick black beard. What surprised the reporter most was the small portrait of Karl Marx hanging on the car, set in a delicate copper frame. The reporter asked, "Are you a Marxist?" The driver didn't answer the reporter's question, but handed a business card. The reporter saw Anthony Marx's name and asked, "Do you have the same surname?" The driver smiled and said, "Don't you think we look alike?" When the reporter looked closely, he did have similarities with the appearance of the founder of proletarian theory. The driver said flatly, "He is my great-grandfather. His daughter is my great-grandmother ... "

The reporter asked," What did you inherit from him? "

Anthony smiled and touched his beard and said, "I inherited this." He took out a book Das Kapital with many bookmarks.

The reporter asked, "Do you remember a questionnaire about Marx? When answering the question' What is your favorite thing to do', he said it was' reading'. Perhaps you like reading, too? "

He replied, "Not really. I like cleaning the garden and the car. We have only one thing in common, that is, we like drinking beer. "

12. Chen Yi: Forever son

Marshal Chen Yi, who made great contributions to the liberation of the people of China, served as Deputy Prime Minister and Foreign Minister of the State Council shortly after liberation, and his work was very busy. In 1962, when he came back from a visit abroad, he passed by his hometown and took time to visit his seriously ill old mother. Chen Yi's mother is paralyzed in bed and can't take care of herself. When Chen Yi entered the house, the mother was very happy. She was just about to say hello to her son. Suddenly, she remembered that the changed diaper was still beside the bed, and she motioned the people around her to hide it under the bed. When Chen Yi saw this, he quickly said, "Mom, you have been ill in bed for a long time, and I am very sad that I can't wait on you. I should wash these pants, so why hide them?" Mother was very embarrassed, and the people next to her quickly took out their diapers and rushed to wash them. Chen Yi quickly stopped him and said emotionally, "Mom, when I was a child, you didn't know how many times you washed my diaper. Today, even if I washed 1 diapers, I can't repay your kindness!" Say that finish, Chen Yi take diapers and other dirty clothes to wash clean, mother smiled with relief.