Because this husband realizes that the person who cares about him the most is his wife, not the women around him. So, he returned to his family. But in fact, what if such a marriage is saved? If a man cheats once, he will cheat a second time. If you can save him once, can you save him a second time? If I were this wife, I would not send such a message, because in my opinion, you have betrayed the marriage and our love, and you do not deserve my care. 01. Men are rational animals and always choose the person who is good for them

Men cheat because the mistress is beautiful and considerate. The man returns to his family because he finds that his wife loves him more and treats him better. After weighing the pros and cons, he chooses a person who treats him better. However, this is not fair at all to the wife, because she has no choice but to use her thoughtfulness to influence her husband.

For a woman who takes away her man, she has to explain how to take care of her husband. Isn't this the ancient wives teaching the concubines how to serve their husbands? This kind of self-degradation cannot gain the true love of men.

Because, in the eyes of a man, what he likes is not you as a person, but your thoughtfulness and understanding. 02. A saved marriage will never go far

Today, your husband loves you more than your mistress because of you. He can abandon the mistress and choose you. Tomorrow, he can also abandon you and choose Xiaosi because Xiaosi is more considerate. This is an endless cycle, and once you get stuck in it, you can never break out.

Since you have been hurt in this marriage, then get out of it. Sometimes, only by giving up can you gain something. There is a saying that if you miss the flowers, you will reap the rain. Only by giving up a wrong marriage can you have a chance to have a happy marriage in the future. 03. A good marriage does not need to be restored

Restoration means that one party in the marriage has made a principled mistake. Basically, if one of the parties cheats, either the cheating party can save the marriage, or the cheated party can save the marriage. In any case, this marriage already has problems.

Because, cheating is 0 and countless times. Once you make this mistake, even if your marriage can barely survive, it will be difficult to be happy. No matter how much you love this man, it will be painful when you think about him sleeping with other women behind your back. The same is true for men. Although you have temporarily returned to your family, you will always think of wild flowers after you have tasted them. Just like if you eat fried beef at home after eating steak, you will always find it tastes bland.

Although this wife temporarily saved her husband, the husband will not always stay honest. After all, he has smelled the fragrance of wild flowers, and when he is lonely and lonely, he is still likely to secretly pick wild flowers. By that time, will the wife continue to win back her husband? I think my wife will only despair of love and marriage. So, don’t save a failed marriage.