When good friends and brothers are not looking for girlfriends, they often get together to eat, drink, drink tea, chat, plan and look forward to the future, and basically spend their free time together. Once they have a girlfriend, they will spend their limited time together. All the time and energy are spent on girlfriends. Men and women in love have no time to deal with good brothers and good buddies. This is normal. As good brothers and good buddies, you must understand and support him. After all, dating a girlfriend is a major event in life. As we grow older and find girlfriends, get married and start a family, good brothers will spend less and less time together. It would be good to get together a few times a year. After all, everyone has their own family. Real good brothers are good friends. Brothers will keep this brotherhood in their hearts. When good brothers need help, they will help and support without hesitation. I have a good buddy in Fujian. I don’t usually contact him much in Sichuan. We only get together during the Spring Festival. , when my family needs help with something, a good friend calls me and immediately goes to help, and never refuses. So you feel that the relationship between brothers who were good friends in the past gradually became alienated after they got a girlfriend. I personally don’t think this is the case. This is a phenomenon, unless the brothers you say are good friends are fair-weather friends, real good brothers and good buddies will always remember the brotherly love, not the love of brotherhood over brotherhood.