1. The famous saying "It is very important to maintain the first impression"
The famous saying "It is very important to maintain the first impression": Friendship is two hearts treating each other sincerely, not one One heart beats another.
A person never gets a second chance to make a first impression. People have the habit of judging good or bad based on their first impression. When they think a person is good, they will love him or her; when they think a person is bad, they will completely deny it.
You don’t know the depth of water without testing it, and you don’t know what is good or bad without making friends with people. One song and one sigh, life is for one person.
He spent his life, his country, his city, his whole life. When you choose to forget, you are done with the past.
In this drizzly early spring, walking in the cool spring breeze, many people and many things have become empty memories. Because it takes time to reveal a person's qualities, in short-term interpersonal interactions, your personality determines to a large extent other people's first impression of you.
When meeting people, the first impression may be their appearance, but over time, a person's quality is often what we pay most attention to. The real charm of people is not that you leave a good first impression on the other person, but that the other person still likes to be with you after knowing you for many years.
After going through many vicissitudes of life, I can sincerely say that it is great to know you. A person's appearance and demeanor directly determines the first impression, which is the first door to success.
You only have one chance in life to make a first impression, and this first impression may be the key to your success. A good first impression plays a key role in a person's life.
The quality of the first impression you make on others determines the success of subsequent interactions. The importance of the first impression is reflected in all aspects of life, whether in daily interactions or in interviews.
First impression refers to the initial impression about a stranger you get in the process of interacting with a stranger. The first impression is not always correct, but it is always the most vivid and strongest, and determines the course of future interactions between the two parties.
The impression left by people in their first interaction forms and occupies a dominant position in the other person's mind. This effect is the first impression effect. Psychologists believe that because the first impression is mainly "external characteristics" such as gender, age, clothing, posture, facial expressions, etc.
Under normal circumstances, a person's body shape, posture, conversation, clothing, etc. all reflect the person's inner qualities and other personality characteristics to a certain extent. It is impossible to have the elegance of a child of aristocratic family in this world, and will always be "showed" inadvertently, because the influence of culture cannot be faked. However, "horsepower can be seen over a long journey, and people's hearts can be seen over time." Making rash judgments based on first impressions alone and "judging people by their appearance" often lead to irreparable mistakes! In "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Pang Tong was originally preparing to serve Soochow, so he went to meet Sun Quan.
When Sun Quan saw Pang Tong's ugly appearance, he was a little unhappy at first. Then he saw that he was arrogant and unruly, and he felt even more unhappy. In the end, Sun Zhongmou, who recruited talents extensively, actually turned away Pang Tong, a prodigy who was as famous as Zhuge Liang. Even though Lu Su tried hard to persuade him, it was of no avail.
As we all know, etiquette, appearance and talent are not necessarily related, but Sun Quan, a courtesy corporal, cannot avoid this prejudice, which shows the great influence of first impression! Lu Xun (1881.9.25 ~ 1936.10.19) was a native of Shaoxing, Zhejiang. His original name was Zhou Zhangshou, and he later changed his name to Zhou Shuren, with the courtesy names of Hencai and Yuting. He was a native of Shaoxing, Zhejiang, and was born in a feudal bureaucratic family. The pen name Lu Xun (Lution) comes from the revolution.
Great proletarian writer, thinker, and revolutionary. In early 1904, he entered Sendai Medical College to study medicine, and later engaged in literary and artistic creation, hoping to change the numb spirit of the people.
After the Revolution of 1911, he served as a minister and minister of education in the Nanjing Provisional Government and the Beijing Government, and also taught at Peking University, Women's Normal University and other schools. In May 1918, he used the pen name "Lu Xun" for the first time to publish the first vernacular novel "A Madman's Diary" in the history of modern Chinese literature, laying the foundation for new literature. Later, he published "The True Story of Ah Q", "Medicine" and "Hometown" " and other famous novels were included in the novel collection "The Scream".
Chairman Mao Zedong evaluated Lu Xun as a great proletarian writer, thinker, revolutionist, critic, and writer. He was the leader of China's cultural revolution and the promoter of the Chinese national spirit. He once said, "Friendship is two hearts treating each other sincerely, rather than one heart beating another heart."
Famous quotes and sentences about first impressions: People have the habit of judging good or bad based on the first impression. When they think a person is good, they will love them. When they think a person is bad, they will deny it completely. . But sometimes I think maybe this is true, just like the butterfly effect, as the ancients said, strong winds arise at the end of green grass.
I deeply agree with the Buddhist theory of origin. Words about first impressions: like old friends at first sight, unforgettable, endless aftertaste.
2. What words can best describe the "first impression" of others?
The "first impression" of others can be described with the following words: love at first sight; photographic memory; hit it off immediately; unforgettable; feeling like old friends at first sight.
1. Feel like old friends at first sight yī jiàn rú gù
1. Definition
When you meet for the first time, you are like an old friend. It describes that you fall in love with each other when you first meet.
2. Source
Pre-Qin Dynasty Zuo Qiuming's "Zuo Zhuan·Xianggong 29th Year": Engaged in Zheng, met Zichan, and became an old acquaintance. ”
2. Fall in love at first sight yī jiàn qīng xīn
1. Definition
Fall in love: Admiration. Admiration at first sight.
2. Source
"Zizhi Tongjian·Jin Xiaowu Emperor Taiyuan Ninth Year": "The Lord and the general have different personalities, and they fell in love at first sight and became as close as relatives. ”
3. It’s a beat and it’s a beat yī pāi jí hé
1. Explanation
Beat: a section of music, also called a beat. It’s a beat and it’s a beat. The rhythm of the song. It is a metaphor for the two parties being able to agree easily, or for them to talk or come together at once due to similar sentiments or interests.
2. Origin of the idiom
Qing. ·Chapter 18 of Li Luyuan's "Qilu Deng": "The ancients said: 'The friendship between gentlemen is settled and then they seek; the friendship between villains is easy to hit it off. '"
4. Unforgettable kè gǔ míng xīn
1. Explanation
Engraved deep in the soul. Describes a profound memory that will never be forgotten.
2. Source
Tang Dynasty Li Bai's "History of Li Chang in Shang'an Prefecture": "The virtues of the Dutch princes are deeply engraved in the heart. ”
5. Photographic memory guò mù bù wàng
1. Definition
Never forget after seeing it. Describes a very strong memory.
< p> 2. Source"Book of Jin·Fu Rong Zai Ji": "If you combine intelligence and wisdom, you can write a chapter. As for talking about metaphysics and Taoism, although Taoism is safe, there is no way out." If you hear it, you will recite it, and if you look at it, you will never forget it. At that time, people likened it to Wang Can.
” 3. Modern poems that convey the first impression of others
Abyss
It is for you that I lowered my heavy head and looked into the abyss of life
The night falls heavily on my feet
Above me, there is no longer night, day or stars
On the surface of the abyss, the ghost of lightless water Same fluctuation
I lower this leopard-like head for you
It is healthy and painful, full of black and red blood
Under your intimidation , I walked into the abyss step by step
How I lived, facing the water of the river
I looked at the tragic images in the abyss
Hear the boulder-like wail from the source of all evil
Those unfortunate gods before me have changed beyond recognition
Haunting and waving their heads like hats
This abyss of all time, it belongs to me
The falcon of sin slurps up my liver
How did you include me in this sinful group< /p>
Walking on the phosphorescent waves all my life, I don’t know
My life will be spent quietly in this boundless darkness
I can’t imagine my past Faith and the dawn of the end of the world
I have lost my future and can no longer dream about anything
Everything is fate, a wheel with a certain destiny in your hand
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