Only by giving up can we concentrate, and only by giving up can we pursue.

Text/Wang

I have a friend with me. She has never skipped classes and actively participated in activities. She is the head of a community. One night in the middle of the night, she suddenly chatted with me and said that she would host a two-day welcome party. In addition to hosting and performing programs, she has to prepare a paper. She was so tired that she had to sacrifice her sleep time these two days. Later, the party turned out well, but she said she had a great sense of accomplishment before. Now that she is tired, she is reluctant to get out.

Another friend can only be described as busy. His computer is full of all kinds of open classes and e-books, and he goes to Shanghai to study TOEFL non-stop during the holidays. There must be a letter G on his desk. R.E.' s little red book also got good grades. One day, he said, in fact, he had no idea what he was studying, and he didn't know whether the major he was studying now would be useful in the future. No matter how busy he is, he cannot fill his heart.

I asked him if there was anything he wanted to do, and he said yes, but there were so many things he wanted to do that he didn't know where to start. He wants to take the postgraduate entrance examination, first get a few certificates in China, travel abroad, and stay at home and read the newly bought books.

Such people are not uncommon around us. A seemingly busy life doesn't necessarily love what they do. Too many things they like to do are not enough. Going out to travel can't decide the destination, and bookstores hesitate to buy books in the face of a wide range of books. The ubiquitous choices in life seem to crush a person. A busy life may not be full, but a focused life can be pursued.

Before my friend went to study in Japan, he said on the stage that he had struggled for several years. He likes photography and painting, but he doesn't want to give up his major. You can't have your cake and eat it. Sometimes you have to choose one. Later, he wondered why he could be A and B, but he couldn't be himself. If choosing a painting is so unreliable in the eyes of others, then I will try my best to do this unreliable thing.

If people can find what they really like to do, it is a kind of happiness in itself. I have seen this sentence in A Xin's "Romantic Escape", and I also heard it from a friend in the record written by Big C to my classmates.

But I want to do a lot of things, but I don't know how to measure the center of gravity between them. What should I do? Later, Mr. Lai Mingzhu said in a preface to A Xin: I'm afraid that versatile people want to do too many things, but they still do everything well, which is really annoying. However, whether it is giving up, giving up or betraying, it is not only necessary, but also a necessary choice. Only by giving up can we concentrate. Only by giving up can we pursue.

I admit that many times I am a casual person, but for some things, I am very persistent and stubborn, even stubborn and terrible. I am curious and interested in many things, but I only love some things. Once, I thought I could measure many things well, and I could do this thing and do another thing with ease, but later, I found that some things should be done wholeheartedly. Our life is limited, and people will do many things in this life. How many things can be perfect?

Choose to do one thing, do what you like best, and leave everything else behind. Do it to the extreme that you want to do, and maximize it in your dreams. Never be afraid to dream too big. Only a big dream can make you go up infinitely. You can only see far if you stand high, and even dream. On the other hand, always believe that you can go further than you are now, and never be complacent about what you have achieved.

Choice itself means giving up something else. Sometimes no choice is a better choice, no retreat is a better way out. The most common mistake we make is that we live elsewhere, so it is easy for us to give up a job and an interest. We always think that many things can be done well, but we can't do it in another way, so we fish for two days and dry the net for three days. But even if you can do a lot of things well, you can't do it to an irreplaceable extent. In the end, you're just running away. Wandering around in age, but never reaching the level you want.

So try to listen to your inner voice and ignore the applause outside. Choose one thing you like best, regard it as your most important thing, and do your best in this matter, instead of constantly trying what others think is good. Again, only by giving up can we concentrate. Only by giving up can we pursue.

Being able to withstand temptation and loneliness is always the only rule on the road to success.