1. As a human being, you must rely on two rituals to rule the world, and three laws to rule the country. The so-called second etiquette is: being polite and speaking reasonably; the so-called three methods are: thoughts, opinions, and practices.

2. Forgive others’ mistakes, improve your own shortcomings, retain sincere love, and pursue a better life. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself, to condemn others is to treat yourself badly!

3. Pay equal attention to knowledge and moral character, pay equal attention to theory and practice, pay equal attention to static and dynamic situations, pay equal attention to intelligence and ability, pay equal attention to humanities and science and technology, pay equal attention to love and majesty, and pay equal attention to doing things and being a person!

4. Be respectful to your parents, be kind to your children, be generous to your relatives and friends, and be polite to the public. We should treat family ties with a considerate heart; we should treat friendships with a bonded heart!

5. If a person makes a mistake, he may stand up right away; if a person breaks his promise, it will never be recovered. Reputation is more important than property. No matter how much property a person has, he can never wash away the stain on his conscience caused by a broken promise!

6. It is best not to do business with acquaintances. Some people may wonder, it is said that it is easier to do things if you have more acquaintances, so why are you afraid of acquaintances? This is the result of practical experience.

7. It’s hard to be a good person and hard to do things. In the face of thousands of difficulties and obstacles, we must improve ourselves. If something is forced, you should dare to say no; if it is a legitimate interest, you should be merciful; sometimes you even have to be a bit aggressive, and you have to be thick-skinned sometimes, and you have to be tough-headed sometimes.

8. The most important thing in life is personality. The connotation of personality includes knowledge, emotion and intention. Zhi is perception, knowledge, and wisdom; Qing is emotion, emotion, and sentiment; Yi is idea, consciousness, and will.

9. As a human being, you must know how to repay four kinds of kindness: one, the kindness of raising all things; the second, the kindness of parents who support and care for them; the third, the kindness of repaying the teacher for improving their intelligence; the fourth, the kindness of husband and wife taking care of each other!

10. Birds roost when there are trees, and fly when trees fall; fish live when there is water, and die when the water dries up; flowers bloom when there is spring, and wither when spring goes; people stand when they have faith, and they lose faith. Then lose. Integrity is the foundation of life!

11. Understand that self-esteem reflects self-cultivation, respect for others reflects tolerance and generosity, and maintaining dignity reflects noble personality. Respecting yourself, respecting others, and maintaining dignity are the three important pivots in the balance of life!

12. Be dedicated in doing things and be broad-minded in life. You can work part-time, but you can only work full-time. Live a clean life, do things with heart, don’t seek perfect people, just seek perfect things!

13. Don’t blush when things don’t go your way. Let's talk about it now, it's better to deal with it after sleeping. In other words, there is no fixed number of points. I just advise you not to speak too harshly, lest you slap yourself in the face.

14. Life is long but short, and the key is just a few steps. In the jungle of human nature, there are many benefits and temptations in the workplace. When you are mature, you should not be afraid of too much. You should think twice about everything. Don't be afraid of ten thousand, just be afraid of the unexpected. Once you reach out to the wrong person, get into the wrong line, or do the wrong thing, your reputation, career, and image will all be in danger. Therefore, one must be careful.

15. Full of energy, corners of the mouth turned up. Hide pain, sorrow and disappointment behind a smile. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.

16. Be gentle but not cowardly, quiet but not pretentious, beautiful but not coquettish, seeking differences but not weirdness, virtuous but not timid, passionate but not frivolous, self-loving but not narcissistic, smart but not suspicious!

17. Be cautious but not obedient, kind but not cowardly, sophisticated but not hasty, steady but not indecisive, honest but not hypocritical, loyal but not stupid, self-effacing but not inferior, confident but not arrogant, resolute but not stubborn, decisive but not rash !

18. Do things openly and aboveboard, don’t just please others, don’t be emotional, say what you have to face, don’t whisper behind your back.

19. You must be tolerant towards villains, take a step back and enjoy the vast world. If you really can’t give them your own space. Adults need to be tolerant and not take worldly things to heart. If you offend a villain, you will get into trouble. Most villains in the world cannot afford to offend you.

20. In a sea of ??people, if we don’t want to be isolated, we must learn how to get along with others. The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. You are not required to like everyone, but at the same time, there is no best person in the world. Harmony is the most valuable thing, so we need to leave steps for each other and give each other face.

21. The honest person wins, the hard-working person wins, the humble person wins, the benevolent person wins, the impartial person wins, the honest person wins, the loyal person wins, the trustworthy person wins, and the harmonious person wins.

22. Be firm but not stubborn, lively but not frivolous, brave but not reckless, calm but not indecisive, alert but not suspicious, bold but not rude, honest but not ignorant, tolerant but not weak, Be cautious but not timid, confident but not arrogant, self-effacing but not inferior, self-loving but not arrogant.

23. Treat your parents with filial piety, treat your teachers with respect, treat yourself with self-discipline, and treat others with care. Be down-to-earth in your work and be honest and trustworthy!

24. A person must have five things: a strong body; a legitimate occupation; exquisite skills; rich knowledge; and a passion for loving others fairly!

25. It is absolutely impossible to pull out teeth from a tiger’s mouth if Tai Sui disturbs his head. But if Tai Sui and the tiger want your life, will you still do it? To pull it out or not?

26. Only by finding ways to get to know more people and making these people your friends is the real social policy in life.

Have an attitude of reporting losses when encountering problems, and be united with those who have different opinions or oppose you, have prejudices, and have said bad things about you.

27. The waves of the sea are blown by the wind, and the waves of life are blown by people. As a person, you should be proactive, challenge life, perfect your personality, and make your true love eternal!

28. As a person, you must be consistent both inside and outside, and when you do things, you must know what you do; when you speak, your words and deeds must be consistent, and your behavior must be consistent inside and outside; when you are a person, you must be consistent, and when you do things, you must be honest with both young and old.

29. If you lack kindness in life, there will be Hongmen Banquet and there will be unwarranted ones. Lack of kindness in life means lack of trust, lack of harmony, and lack of living in harmony. If the land is not thick, it cannot bear the mountains and rivers; if the people's hearts are not thick, it cannot hold moral friendship.

30. Three things to be a good person: First, be clear about grudges and grudges, dare to act, dare to fight, and dare to fight. Second, we must have a broad vision, an open mind, and a peaceful mind. Third, we must give people joy, hope, confidence, and convenience!

31. You need tolerance when you get along, sincerity when you fall in love, communication when you quarrel, company when you are lonely, comfort when you are sad, calmness when you are angry, and sharing when you are happy.

32. When dealing with people, you must be able to bend and stretch, be square or round, be generous and harmonious on the outside, and sharp-edged on the inside. The two complement each other and are indispensable.

33. Things must be able to be used to be valuable; people must be able to be used to be useful. You must do your best when doing things, and you must do your duty as a human being!

34. Persist in saying good things about others behind their backs, and don’t worry that the good things won’t reach the ears of the person involved. Do not listen, spread or believe gossip. Make it a rule not to talk behind someone's back unless you say something nice.

35. Tolerating and helping others are good ways to get along with others; knowing kindness and repaying kindness are the virtues pursued by personality; generosity and integrity are the foundation of life and doing things.

36. Discussing matters as they arise is the principle of employing people; being reasonable and sensible is the principle of conducting oneself in society; honor, disgrace and dignity are the principle of making friends; being fearless of life and death is the principle of being a human being.

37. To do things, do good deeds, do good things, and do useful things; to be a good person, be a good person, be a good person, and be an excellent person. When doing things, we should be diligent in our work and strive for excellence in results; in life, we should be noble in our beliefs and self-disciplined in our actions.

38. It is better to be a valuable person than a valuable person; it is better to be an efficient person than a busy person. People can't just live in the past, but also live happily in the future.

39. The appearance is not annoying. If the appearance is not good, make yourself talented; if you have no talent, then always smile.

40. There are confusions in life and difficulties in doing things. When faced with difficult obstacles, strong willpower alone is not enough, nor is it possible to push through. Solving problems relies on the brain. The brain generates thinking, allows thinking to be powerful, and solves problems easily in unexpected places.

41. Don’t be confused about big things, don’t let small things leak out, pick up when you have to pick up, and put down when you have to put down. As a person, you must understand that being able to take up is a kind of courage, and being able to let go is a kind of wisdom!

42. Give more to others and ask less from others; believe more in others and less in yourself; don’t think so well of yourself and think so bad of others, as if the truth lies within you. in hand. When you see the shortcomings of others, you should also see the strengths of others, and when you see your own strengths, you should also see the weaknesses.

43. A true hero, why should he be short of breath? Only by starting well and finishing well can he be invincible. Forbearance can protect one's life, and it can accomplish things. Forbearance is great wisdom, great courage, and even greater blessing. Tolerance is thick, tolerant is dark, to endure villains, to endure powerful people, to endure things that are unbearable in the world, to not be a person of your temperament, to achieve things that are difficult for ordinary people.

44. When people give me comfort, I return their enthusiasm; when people give me kindness, I return their respect; when people give me tolerance, I return their sincerity; when people give me self-esteem, I return their happiness!

45. Your speech should be reserved and avoid being too explicit; your attitude should be tactful and avoid being too direct; your approach should be smooth and avoid being too sincere; your life should be profound and avoid being too harsh.

46. It is better to be slow in doing things than to be too hasty and make mistakes; it is better to be stupid in life than to be too clever and ruin things. You can fail in doing things, but you can't fail in life; you can fail in the past, but you can't fail in the future!

47. If you don’t seek fame in vain, the sarcasm will disappear; if you do more practical things, honor will come unexpectedly. A person must be free, independent, and self-reliant, and a person should not be egotistical, arrogant, or conceited!

48. Introverted but not inferior, polite but not vulgar, stubborn but not overbearing, strong but not overbearing, persistent but not stubborn, easy-going but not following the crowd, humble but not excessive, tolerant and measured, tolerant but not accommodating, cautious but not shrinking, active Not frivolous, steady and not arrogant.

49. Don’t let others see your naivety. If you don’t understand, run away; don’t comment on other people’s appearance, because they don’t rely on you for their livelihood; don’t comment on other people’s virtues, because you are not as good as others. He is noble; don't evaluate other people's families, because it has nothing to do with you; don't evaluate other people's knowledge, because the most indispensable thing in the world is knowledge.

50. Ten taboos in life: avoid vanity, avoid laziness, avoid arrogance, avoid violence, avoid greed, avoid selfishness, avoid being unfaithful, avoid being stubborn, avoid being unfaithful, and avoid lying.

51. In poverty, you must have loyalty and ambition; in crisis, you must have confidence and courage; in wealth, you must have the loyalty to sacrifice your wealth; in being a human being, you must have awe-inspiring righteousness.

52. Being a human being: First, be strict with yourself and be lenient to others. Second, modesty is the best, give in more and fight less. Third, be kind to others and avoid being arrogant. Fourth, we must use justice to spread wealth and help those in need. Fifth, treat others with integrity and stay away from right and wrong.

53. Good words can arouse good intentions in others; bad words can arouse evil thoughts in others. Say one more kind word and be more kind. To be a human being, you should have good intentions, say good words, do good deeds, and make good friends.

54. The human heart is unfathomable, but my heart is crystal clear. The human heart is ever-changing, but my heart remains constant. When someone gives me a cross eyebrow, I give him a smiling face; when someone gives me a bad word, I give him a hymn of praise; exchange heart for heart, exchange affection for affection; repay evil with kindness, repay evil with good!

55. When dealing with people, making friends, and dealing with snobbery and snobbishness, it seems that you don’t need to be too demanding, and you should take it lightly. If you take a lighter view and a more open mind, life will suddenly become brighter and more enjoyable. Just like plainness is true.

56. Interpersonal interactions should focus on the future and not dwell on the past. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself. When you are angry at your enemies, you only burn yourself. When doing things, don't be too narrow-minded. The sea is open to all rivers, relying on a tolerant heart.

57. Don’t be discouraged when you are frustrated, don’t get carried away when you are proud; don’t be discouraged by setbacks, don’t be discouraged by failure; be brave but not reckless, be self-reliant and don’t deceive yourself; criticize without slandering, praise without flattery; be confident but not proud, and make corrections. !

58. Be calmer when encountering conflicts, be stronger when encountering difficulties, understand the situation more comprehensively, deal with problems more prudently, be patient when being ridiculed, be restrained when being humiliated, be busy and meticulous at work, and treat people with enthusiasm .

59. Don’t rush to conclusions when you encounter problems. Even if you have the answer, you have to wait. There may be a better solution. There are different answers from different angles. You must learn to think from others’ perspective, especially When you encounter trouble, you must learn to wait and rely on it. In many cases, not only will the trouble be resolved, but good luck may also come.

60. In your behavior, you must respect yourself in every move you make; in your speech, you must respect yourself in every word and deed; in life, you must respect yourself in everything you do; in life, you must respect yourself every moment!

61. When people treat others as right and wrong, I treat others as right and wrong; when people treat others as benefits, I treat others as grudges; when people treat benefits as gains and losses, I treat good and evil as good and evil; People regard the rise and fall of status as closeness and distance, and I regard the true and false feelings as distance.

62. Only with compassion can you benefit others; with understanding can you be tolerant; with tolerance can you love others; with patience can you be a good person!

63. If the mind is loose, nothing can be done; if the mind is negligent, nothing can be concentrated; if the mind is stubborn, nothing can be true. Everything must be taken into consideration. Having a sense of responsibility is the most noble sentiment in life!

64. Be gentle and principled in dealing with others, be clear and decisive in dealing with matters, and be upright, concise and understandable in dealing with matters. If you have no prejudice in your heart, you will be fair in dealing with things; if you have no ego in your heart, you will be aboveboard.

65. You don’t have to do things the same way as the customs, nor should you do things differently. You don’t have to do things to please people, and you don’t have to do things to make people hate you. Be ruthless towards things, not people, but be affectionate towards people; being a person comes first, doing things second.

66. Don’t panic when things are complicated, don’t waste time when you are free, believe what you say, be strong without desire, be gentle like the spring breeze, solemn like autumn frost, take the image of money, round on the outside and square on the inside.

67. A person should be self-reliant and not be shaken by the words and deeds of others; a person should be independent and self-respecting, and not be discouraged by difficulties. Be confident when facing setbacks, and be proud when facing failure!

68. The most important thing in being a person is innocence, the most important thing in doing things is seriousness, and the most important thing in being knowledgeable is being ambitious. A person must be ambitious, knowledgeable, persistent and confident. Don’t do things for fame, but do more practical things!

69. In competitions, there are wins and losses; in status, there are ups and downs; in encounters, there are good and bad; in life, there are gains and losses. You should do your best as a person, and you should take things as they come!

70. Sweet words of comfort are warm in the winter, but harsh words are hurtful in the cold of June. Talking too much when you are happy will break your promise, and talking too much when you are angry will be disrespectful.

Those who know are not knowledgeable, and those who are knowledgeable do not speak. Wise words and fine words are valuable if they are not many!