I wonder if you have noticed the map? A map of a city will put a city in the center of the map and other cities in a secondary position, so will the world map. If it is a map used by China, then China is drawn in the middle, the American continent is at the right end, and Europe is at the left end. On the map of the world used in France, the American continent is at the left and Asia is at the right. The center of the map is Europe, not France. Important targets will seize the C position on the map, as if the world were cut at will.

However, even the basic knowledge of kindergarten children now knows that the earth is round.

What happens when you look at the world on a globe? If it is a globe, you can take French as the center, China as the center and Brazil as the center. All places are centers, and all places are not centers. Depending on the position or angle of the viewer, many centers can be generated. This is a globe.

You think of yourself as the protagonist in the subjective world of your concept, and all the seats are taken at you. You are a well-deserved C. But like a globe, you must know that you are not the center of the world.

The hero in my life is "me". There is nothing wrong with this understanding. However, this does not mean that "I" is at the center of the world.

Each of us is subordinate to the human attribute itself and has all the characteristics of human social attribute without exception. In other words, as long as people are human beings, they have natural and social attributes, which is logically beyond doubt.

But those who think they are at the center of the world will soon lose friends.

People who only care about themselves often think that they are the center of the world. For such people, others are just "people who serve me"; They even think, "Everyone should serve me and give priority to my mood."

There is a saying in Shang Jun's book that "taking it from it is a political treasure!" I always remember it clearly and I like it very much.

A man should always be aware of this. I am an ordinary person. I am not the center of the human world. I look at interpersonal relationships and the world subjectively. Unexpected criticism and alienation will inevitably appear in interpersonal communication. Even if we encounter unexpected troubles, we will encounter the poor situation of white bird droppings splashing when we walk carefully, right? So, put away the idea of being treated unfairly and participate in interpersonal communication peacefully. But don't just want to accept the attention, praise and sense of belonging of others. Other people's attention is not important, and other people's praise is very cheap. A sense of belonging is a strong emotion that needs your active participation.

Studying, working, making friends, falling in love and getting married are all closely related to seeking a sense of belonging. Don't you think so?

We need to pay more, not more, in order to return more.

It is a shocking truth that you can only find your place by giving.