What is happiness in the eyes of college girls? In the survey, nearly half of the girls listed "realizing self-worth" as the first choice for happiness, while 23% girls regarded happiness as "having a healthy and happy family". A few girls thought it was also a kind of happiness to make others and themselves happy, have more children or pursue the truth.
When it comes to the biggest factor affecting happiness, 47% of college girls put "health" first. It is generally believed that happiness is impossible without health. Family, love, career and friends rank second to fifth respectively. 56% people put money last. "Although I hate to admit it, the objective fact is that money can really affect my happiness." A girl surnamed Song said frankly, "But I think this should not be the most important factor."
In today's fierce competition and increasingly scarce emotional life, 66% of girls firmly believe that love is eternal and exclusive, so they still believe in the love oath of "holding your hand and growing old with your son", but some 12% of girls said that they no longer believe in such pure love.
So, what kind of man do female college students prefer when choosing a spouse? The survey found that "good personality" has become an important indicator for girls to choose their other half as emotional sustenance. 92% of girls think that true love is the most important thing if they want to get married, and 66% and 47% of girls choose "promising" and "successful career" respectively. Correspondingly, only 16% like "handsome guys".
Further analysis shows that there is a clear correlation between the criteria for choosing a spouse of college girls and their growing environment: girls from rural areas pay more attention to whether the other party has a successful career when choosing a spouse, while girls from big cities don't care much about this.
78% of female students choose to get married between the ages of 25 and 30, only 8% expect to get married after the age of 30, 10% say it depends, while only 1% will get married immediately after graduation. When it comes to the relationship between themselves and their husbands in the future, 62% of girls think that "husbands are not as good as themselves" is acceptable, while 17% finds it intolerable.
For some popular ideas, college girls have their own views: 37% people explicitly oppose the statement that "it is better to marry a woman than to marry a woman". "This is an escapist idea." A girl from Beijing University of Technology commented: "It's very realistic and pitiful." On the contrary, 25% of girls agree with this statement, and 38% of girls "can't say it well".
Professor Zhou Xiaozheng from the Department of Sociology of Renmin University of China has his own views on this issue. "A woman who really has first-class quality should marry well if she does well. This is inseparable. " Professor Zhou said, "Some strong women have successful careers but unhappy families, which in itself proves that her comprehensive quality is not first-class." A capable girl should be happier when she hears Professor Zhou's words.