If children have many hobbies, they can not go to school because they usually go to school. Holidays should encourage children to spend more time on their hobbies. If parents can respect their children's hobbies except studying during holidays, their initiative and curiosity will be well taken care of, and this momentum will generally extend to their own study. It seems to be a waste of children's time, but it stimulates their self-motivation.

If children don't have too many hobbies since childhood, they will easily be attracted by cartoons and video games during the long holidays, and even become his only hobby. Parents should be careful if their children's leisure time is occupied by TV or computer every day. We should make children realize that there are many more interesting things than these, and at the same time, we should create more opportunities for children to contact the real world outside the virtual world.

Why are children easily addicted to TV or video games? Many times, children are bored and feel that there is nothing more interesting. The root cause is that there is no one (parents or peers) to accompany. Parents should spend more time with their children and help them form various hobbies. If children have regarded watching cartoons as their only hobby, it will be much more difficult to solve the problem. More importantly, we need to divert children's interest and attention, guide them out of the house and find more interesting things.

2. Encourage children to read.

Teacher Zhu Yongxin, a famous education expert, has a famous saying: "A person's spiritual development history is his reading history." He also pointed out that before 14 years old, it is a critical period for a person to study. Therefore, children's spiritual growth is inseparable from good books, and they are too busy to read extracurricular books at ordinary times, so holidays are just a good time.

For children who are about to enter primary school, I suggest that parents should not have too much utilitarian color in this kind of reading, nor should they force their children to write their thoughts after reading and take reading notes. A lot of good books, as long as children really study hard, will have a subtle influence on him, there is no need to mechanically memorize. Of course, it depends on everyone's reading habits.

3. Encourage children to travel.

Summer vacation is the prime time for tourism, but tourism is not only a function of leisure and entertainment, children can grow up in tourism. In fact, traveling is an experience, even an unforgettable experience. Of course, it is also an excellent growth opportunity.

Education of beauty, education of responsibility, edification of culture, improvement of self-care ability, cultivation of independent consciousness, improvement of adaptability, tempering of willpower and so on. , can all be integrated into it, imperceptibly. More importantly, compared with simple preaching and forced indoctrination, children feel education in a happy state of mind, and its effect will be more lasting.

4. Encourage children to participate in sports.

Nowadays, in many families, more and more older children stay at home all day. Personally, after observing the community where I live, I found that most of the children who move frequently in the community are preschool children. I seldom see primary school children exercising outside every day. Yiyi is very active in the community. Roller skating, scooter, cycling and running are all her hobbies. Before going to kindergarten, she basically spent more than 6 hours outdoors every day. After entering the park, she spent almost 2 to 3 hours every day except for extreme weather.

When she was very young, many children played with her, and sometimes the team was huge. However, she often complains to us after attending a large kindergarten class. Now there are fewer and fewer playmates, and many children who used to play together don't come out. What I hear most from parents is that children are going to primary school soon, and they should focus on their studies. Therefore, children's daily learning tasks are also very heavy, and parents have a lot of homework. Most parents don't want their children to go out and "run wild" at will.

It is quite meaningful to take advantage of the summer vacation to go out to do outdoor sports and exercise. At the same time, it can also prevent children from gaining too much weight. Some schools have done statistics, and 90% of children will gain weight after holidays. Eating well during holidays, eating more snacks and not exercising are the chief culprits of obesity. When the weather is fine, let the children go out for a walk, run and sweat.

5. Encourage children to prepare for study in advance.

Of course, during the holidays, children also need to make proper preparations for entering primary school in advance. Parents can arrange certain homework or exercises, so that children can have a basic knowledge reserve and lay the necessary foundation for a smooth transition to primary school.

6. Don't let children get hurt on electronic products.

For today's children, it is easy to get in touch with electronic products such as animation and video games. This means that even if parents take measures to stop it, it will not help. It is difficult to completely isolate children from them when the children around them are watching some popular cartoons or playing some popular video games.

As parents, what can we do for our children in the face of some rampant cartoons or video games?

1) check the audit.

If parents think that some cartoons or video games don't conform to their educational ideas or are not suitable for children to watch, they must find ways to make their children like cartoons or video games that they think are better. For older children, because they have begun to have their own judgment and understanding, as long as we communicate smoothly with children at ordinary times, we can also guide children to learn to appreciate better cartoons or electronic products.

2) Make rules in advance

Because children's self-control and binding force are not enough, they need appropriate guidance and control from adults. But we can't watch or follow our children anytime and anywhere, so it is very important to agree to the rules of watching cartoons or playing video games with our children. If the rules are well formulated and children follow them well, we don't have to worry that children will be addicted to electronic products.