"A scholar can be killed but not humiliated" is a well-known wisdom, but I have another view on this statement. Some people say, "forbearance is cowardice, bullying and incompetence, and you can't be inferior to others." The classmate said, "If someone hits you, you have to pay back ten times, and you can't be ashamed." The friend said, "People should have dignity, and you can't swallow it." And I said, "forbearance means taking care of the overall situation and focusing on the future." Maybe you will say, "Don't you fight back when others hit you?" But I will say, "I won't fight back until I know why others hit me." I will put up with it. After a while, I will find the reason to make others friends with me, so that I have one less enemy and one more friend. " I think tolerance is the overall situation, focusing on the future. There are other reasons.

First, Han Xin was humiliated by his crotch and won the enemy team, thus becoming the general of Han Xin. When Han Xin was young, he was poor and looked down upon. One day, a butcher pointed to Han Xin's nose and said, "Dare you stab me twice? If you dare not, please climb under my crotch. " It's really cruel Hearing this, Han Xin couldn't help getting angry and wanted to teach him a lesson. But on second thought, I Han Xin why want to argue with the butcher, have a plenty of time, so a grind, a cruel, then laid hands on him from the butcher's leg. Later, Han Xin was released as a general by Liu Bang. Instead of killing the butcher, he gave him gold and appointed him as an official, which deeply moved him. He not only cleared up personal grudges, but finally became a warrior who gave his life to protect Han Xin. Han Xin's tolerance and measurement are great, and his patience is strong! This is unthinkable. It was his self-denial that influenced the butcher and won the enemy's team. The butcher became Han Xin's personal soldier. It can be seen that forbearance is not cowardice, on the contrary, it requires self-confidence and perseverance, and it is focused on the future.

Secondly, Lin Xiangru is a country, and Lian Po is a general of Zhao, who is very brave. Lin Xiangru made great contributions in One Piece's Return to Zhao and Mianchi Conference, ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po was unconvinced and tried to humiliate Lin Xiangru many times, but Lin Xiangru often avoided it. On one occasion, when Lin Xiangru went out by car, he saw Lian Po's carriage far away and made a detour. Wait until near the imperial court, in order not to compete with Lian Po before and after the ranking, Lin Xiangru often pushed the patient not to court. These forbearing behaviors humiliated Lin Xiangru in public and offered to resign. Lin Xiangru said, "The governors dare not attack Zhao for fear of me and Lian. Now that two tigers are fighting, there is bound to be a wound. I am not afraid of him, but I am revenge for my country! " Lian Po was greatly moved after hearing this, and went to confession with Vitex negundo on his back. That's why there was a "humble apology", and from then on, the princes of Zhao lived in harmony. It can be seen that tolerance is the overall situation.

This is why I think tolerance is not cowardice, but the overall situation and the future. In a complicated life, it is valuable to be patient. Forbearance does not mean retreat or cowardice, nor is it indifferent to misunderstanding, injustice or even slander and humiliation. Tolerance is the overall situation, focusing on the future. Forbearance always influences the superficial behavior of others with a quiet and peaceful attitude, and tolerates the unreasonable behavior of others with a generous attitude. In the end, it warned the world with undisputed career success. Therefore, we can say that tolerance is rational, forbearing and rigid, and retreat for progress; People who can endure will be firm, patient, have good psychological and moral qualities, and will get everyone's support and respect.

Tolerance is not only a realm, but also a life knowledge. Let's master and apply this knowledge in our life!