How to overcome target tremorHow to overcome target tremor\x0d\First of all, a quote, what is "target tremor"? \x0d\In psychology, there is a theory called target trembling. For example, you ask an employee to take a piece of wire, hang a steel ring with a diameter of 2 meters at a distance of 10 meters, and say to the employee: "This is your goal." , you put this thread through." The employee would not hesitate, strode over, and put the thread through in one fell swoop. He showed no signs of trembling or fear. \x0d\\x0d\ Let's change the target . Take a very thin embroidery needle and say to the employee: "This is your goal. Take the thread in one hand and the needle in the other, and pass the thread through the eye of the needle within five tenths of a second." At this time, you will find that he is afraid and his hands begin to shake. Why? Because the goal has changed - he feels that he cannot achieve the goal, has a sense of psychological frustration, and begins to "tremble". So, urgently Then, his resistance came - I can't achieve it at all, it's all in vain, I won't do it. \x0d\\x0d\Target trembling means that when you really want something, , or when you particularly want to do something well, you often fail to achieve it or do it poorly because you are too focused on the goal. In other words, when you are particularly focused on your goals, failure is not far away. \x0d\\x0d\When you aim at the bullseye, the hand holding the gun may tremble; when you stare at the eye of the needle to thread the needle, the hand holding the thread may tremble. His level is usually very high, but his performance is abnormal at critical times. This is also the reason. Only by relaxing can you do better! Some things will be lost if you take them too seriously. Keep a calm and calm mind. (Target tremor - an unconditioned reflex of the body caused by excessive focus on the fingers)\x0d\\x0d\1. When threading the needle, I tried my best to steady my hands but it was counterproductive. \x0d\\x0d\2． When I focus on a Chinese character for a long time, the more I look at it, the less it looks like, and the more I look at it, the less sure I am, so I have to check it in a dictionary. \x0d\\x0d\3． In difficult years, you have no choice but to eat one kind of food for a long time until it hurts your stomach. Now I vomit when I see, hear or think about this food. \x0d\\x0d\4． When you love someone, the sky is dark and the earth is dark, and time and space are chaotic. When you love deeply, you will doubt your lover's love and doubt your love for your lover. \x0d\\x0d\5． If you stare hard at a painting for a certain period of time, the focus of your eyes will not control you, and the painting will become unrecognizable and a mess. \x0d\\x0d\6． Write poetry. Not left, not right, not deep, not shallow, not up, not down. The result of being too involved in drama is that one cannot figure out what poetry is and cannot write; one becomes a poetry slave and is tortured day and night. \x0d\\x0d\7． If you live in an orchid house for a long time, you will not smell its fragrance; if you live in an orchid house for a long time, you will not smell its smell. \x0d\\x0d\8. blog. When writing a diary, privacy should not be involved; when writing commentary, one should not criticize sensitive words; talking about other people's affairs may appear to be gossip; posting pictures of people may infringe on the right of portrait; making random remarks will be a disgrace to the readers; in the end, the blog will become a charcoal. \x0d\\x0d\9. There is a popular jingle about the standard of "happiness" nowadays: sleep until you wake up naturally, count money until your hands cramp. The pursuit of money will inevitably lead to psychological and behavioral disorders. \x0d\\x0d\10． After getting used to being sick and feeling uneasy, suddenly I feel refreshed one day, but I feel as uneasy as if I am about to die. \x0d\The above is an introduction to target trembling. \x0d\When I deal with key matters and there are some deviations from the goal, I always remind myself not to have this phenomenon in psychology. However, for many years, I have always been unable to solve it. But today, today I put this The problem is basically solved. \x0d\Today, when we were conducting large-scale screening for customers in the warehouse, there was a customer who always said he would contact us in a few days. However, it was nearly two weeks late and still failed to come to the door. It always felt like Just like when I deliberately avoid it, when he avoids it, I also wait in the same way. As a result, the time drags on longer and longer. Whenever I want to call him, I always think about it a lot. I am afraid that if the wording of a phone call is inappropriate, something will happen. An ending I don’t want to see. \x0d\Yesterday Brother Zhong said to me: One Yes and one No, either Yes or No! \x0d\Think about it, what are you afraid of? The so-called fear is a kind of fear of No. How to overcome it? My method today is: It’s not that, just treat it as that! \x0d\So when I called Ren Wei, I said something like this: "Hi, Mr. Ren, it's already Tuesday!?" When I said this, he didn't refuse the reply very politely. He also felt a little embarrassed, and he said: "Oh, I'm sorry, I'm very busy these days - where are you now?" "I'm in the High-tech Development Zone" "Then you can come tomorrow?"?\x0d\That's it , very relaxed, are you still shaking? ! \x0d\ Likewise, calling Loofah is easy, as are several others! \x0d\To overcome target tremors, start by facing it calmly.