Yes, parents love their children differently. I heard the old man say that the old man likes the old, and the young man is charming, which hurts half his waist.
Since I am invited, I will answer, although I am an only child.
Eccentricity is certain, a bowl of water is not flat at all, and people's hearts are still too long
After my father was 50, he had seven brothers and sisters. After my mother was 60, she had five brothers and sisters. My grandfather likes my uncle and my grandmother likes my father. My grandfather likes my mother, and my grandmother likes my older brother and younger brother.
Other relatives, classmates, friends and colleagues I know who have more than two children at home, and their parents are more or less biased.
Whether it is concern, concern, concern, care, economic support, property distribution, etc. , it will be biased towards the child you like best.
So I have made up my mind not to have a second child. Because no matter which side is biased, it will cause more or less psychological harm to the other side. I can't give equal attention and love to the two children. After all, people's time and energy are really limited.
The above is my humble opinion, hoping to help you solve your doubts.
A bowl of water must be uneven! Generally, parents are the most unbiased and eccentric sons, and some parents like to make them happy! I found that the more eccentric my parents are, the less filial they are. If there are more children, there will always be deviations, which is better.
Seeing that many families are really partial to one child, as far as my family is concerned, we also find that many families are equally treated, so it depends on what kind of life education this family has.
My three children all love each other equally, and they don't feel that they love this one more, love that one less and buy three things, but the children still feel that they love others more and love themselves less. I don't know why [covering my face] sometimes the naughty one makes a louder voice, so I think he doesn't love himself. Sometimes he really wants to give his heart to them and let them know that it is the same for them, but the children don't understand and there is nothing I can do [
More or less eccentric. Eccentric son, eccentric little son. Because different children have different expectations, their attitudes are different.
There is eccentricity, as the saying goes: five fingers are not the same length.
Small families with large populations are the same as society. Fighting every day, fighting every day. It's just that they are all relatives and won't hold grudges too much.
Parents will like to favor sweet-talking and clever children. This is normal.
If there are two children at home, parents will compare, there will be no big deviation, but it is impossible to be absolutely fair. Everyone has different needs and feelings.
Parents are partial, as long as they are not all children, how can there be absolute fairness?