Recently, I watched "to the sky kingdom" with my colleague silly girl, and I felt as if I had passed away. Everyone lamented that people at that time always loved each other for tens of thousands or even tens of millions of years.

Your face will never grow old, and your youth will always be bright. If you have a good life, if you leave, it will be too big to die unsatisfied.

During the lunch break in the office, I exchanged stories with silly girls.

She said: Sister, I wish I had a Qian Qian for 10,000 years, so I wouldn't dwell on my past feelings and fall.

I said: Yes, then there is enough time to love and enough time to forget.

I like Sion, and it took tens of thousands of years to forget her first love and leave this country, and I also like her between three lives in YeHua.

Silly girl said: if you love right, you can live forever. Love is wrong, and it will only take tens of thousands of years to do it again.

I said: but we live in this world, and we only have one life, and at most it will be a hundred years. Every minute is so precious that love should be loved in this way. Don't waste precious youth and beautiful years on someone who doesn't love you at all.

Actually, I was alluding to her unforgettable years.

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Until now, the silly girl is still immersed in the love of the past, unable to extricate herself and unable to love again.

Until now, she is still struggling with her ex and the third woman.

The silly girl said: I had a hard time, and I won't let that man feel better, so she spared no effort to be with someone who didn't love her.

She is always unwilling in her heart, as well as the years she has paid in the past.

In her past, she loved a man for six years, from campus to society, and spent the best time and the most precious thing she could pay as a woman in her life.

When we finally talked about marriage, her boyfriend broke up with her.

At that time, it was agreed to hold a wedding on a spring day, and she happily chose a wedding dress in Suzhou.

Later, when he didn't come back, he said, we will never meet again.

Despair to the end

The change made the silly girl fall into the abyss and see no light.

During that time, she went to beg the man and asked him why he was so heartless.

He said I never loved you.

What about the past six years?

He said: I thought habits could last a lifetime, but later I realized that it was not my life.

……

It's hard to let go for a long time, but I'm puzzled and unwilling.

Obviously, it was that man who told her that he loved her under the cherry tree on campus. It was obviously the man who held her face and said that he liked her bright smile. Obviously, it was that man who said it was inappropriate for us to have children now. In the future, we will have a lot of stability. ...

After six years of love, it turned out to be just a person who didn't love her.

Abnormal injury.

Silly girl once said: If she could forgive at that time, then she might choose to forgive, but later the truth was betrayal, but he had another lover.

I have been together for several months, and I am a colleague of his unit.

One rainy night, she waited downstairs in his house, accompanied by a beautiful girl. He held her hand, held an umbrella for her and sheltered her from the wind and rain.

This is something that the man she has loved for six years has never done for her, and her face has never been gentle.

From then on, the silly girl sank, and the heavy rain poured on her cold heart, igniting her determination to destroy his happiness.

And she has always forgotten that a person who doesn't love you will never love you again no matter how hard you try. A person who doesn't love you, even if you wait for the rest of your life, can't change the heart that has been cold to you for a long time.

Even if you don't want to stop his happiness, isn't the love in this world that you can end by not letting him feel better?

What can you get for yourself?

It's just a waste of time year after year.

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In fact, a person has to let go of the past in order to usher in a new life of his own. A love will be understood after the pain. What do we want in the future?

No one is young, no one's love is not worth cherishing, no one's road to love will not turn back, and no one's life has never been hurt.

Actually, that's how we all came over. A person holding back the long night, a person hiding in the cold bed to heal the wound, a person crying, I'm fine, a person said with a smile, ok, goodbye.

Even if I turn around and never see it again. ...

So what? We are all fragile, but in the end we will become invulnerable.

Finally, I will understand that many people can't love each other to the end, but our fate together is not enough. Many people can't two of a kind, but the prospects in our hearts are different.

The world is very big, and there are a sea of people. We will meet too many people along the way, and everyone who has been together is doomed. Some people teach us to grow up, some people teach us to love, some people teach us to forget, and some people teach us to be brave.

This is the charm of life.

And each of us has only one life, how can we give it to someone who doesn't love you? This is not a waste.

O. Teacher Yi Shu said in Fragments of the Star: No matter what, it is always unforgivable for a person to fall under an excuse. The more unloved you are, the more you should love yourself.

Zhang Xiaoxian also said in Dance on the River: What one thinks unforgettable may have been forgotten by others long ago.

And life is too short, how can you be willing to spend the rest of your time on those people? All people who have not reached the end of their lives are just too superficial.

So since it's far away, why bother?

I think of Zhang Ailing in Hu Lancheng, and I also think of that sentence: I am compassionate because I loved, tolerant because I know, and I can only forget.

Say these words to friends silly girl, but also to many people who are still sad about their feelings.

4 .

Yesterday was Valentine's Day, and my circle of friends was full of flowers and gifts. I also saw the update of silly girl, but this time she said goodbye to the past.

She said in a circle of friends: If I have so many tens of thousands of years, I will definitely not be stingy with the person who doesn't love me for a year or so, and I will definitely accompany him to the end.

Those lost nights and tears should be regarded as the experience value of spending 10 thousand years practicing how to know people and love.

But I only have one life, and I don't want to give generously to those who no longer love me.

From now on, I will leave my time to the right person.

Yes, only by saying goodbye can you meet the right person, and only by letting go of the past can you live a new life.

I just hope that I will spend a little longer in the future, only watching the scenery with the people I like and spending time with the people I love.

Time is soft, life is precious, what to do when making love, and love the person you should love.