translation: a kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the cold of three winters; On the contrary, bitter and vicious words hurt other people's feelings and self-esteem, even in the summer of June, people will feel cold.
2. If you are strong, you will win. Don't brag to others. -
Although you are a strong man, there must be someone stronger than you, so don't be conceited in front of others and boast about yourself.
3. Don't act on the small evil, and don't act on the small good. -
Translation of Liu Beiyu in the History of the Three Kingdoms: Don't do anything just because it is a small and inconspicuous bad thing; On the contrary, for some tiny. A good thing that is beneficial to others, don't stop doing it just because it doesn't mean much.
4. it's far from resentment to bow to others and blame others lightly. -the Analects of Confucius
translation: those who work hard and take the initiative to take the main responsibility for their mistakes are "bowing to be generous" and forgiving others more, which is "blaming others less". In this case, they will not resent each other.
5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. The villain is the opposite. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: A gentleman always starts from the good wishes or the wishes that are beneficial to others, wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, and does not look at the world with cold eyes. Or fear that the world will not be chaotic, and will not add fuel to the fire when others have failures, mistakes or pains. The villain, on the other hand, is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults."
6. See the sage Si Qi, and introspect if you don't. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: When you see someone who has more advantages than yourself in a certain respect, you should consult modestly, study hard, and try to catch up with him and reach the same level with him; When you see someone with some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should calmly reflect and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies.
7. don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: Don't impose what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster ...) on others.
8. Do your duty and don't yield to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: When you encounter something good that should be done, you should not hesitate. Even if the teacher is on the side, you should do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "Do one's duty".
9. A gentleman is slow in words but quick in deeds. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous in doing things.
1. if two people are United, their profits will be cut off; Words of one mind stink like blue. -"Book of Changes"
Translation: People who work together are strong enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express their unanimous opinions, which are persuasive, and people are like smelling fragrant orchids, which are easy to accept.
11. A gentleman hides his vessel in his body and waits for the time. -
Translation of Zhouyi: Even if a gentleman has outstanding talents and superb skills, he will not show off or show off everywhere. But to display one's talents or skills when necessary.
12. full of losses, modest benefits. -
Translation of Shangshu: Complacency with what has been achieved will bring losses and disasters; Being humble and always aware of your own shortcomings can benefit from it.
13. Isn't it a gentleman to be ignorant and not satisfied? -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: If I have achieved something that others don't understand, I will never feel angry or wronged. Isn't this also a kind of gentleman's demeanor?
14. keep your word, and do what you want. -the Analects of Confucius
Translation: If you say something, you must keep your word; Once you have determined what you want to do, you must go ahead resolutely and boldly.
15. I don't care, I don't want, I don't want, I don't want, I don't want. -translation of The Analects of Confucius
: Tell the truth, not guess out of thin air; Do not be arbitrary, willful, and feasible; Act flexibly and not rigidly; Everything is not centered on "me", not self-righteous, and people around you work together to complete the task.
16. In a threesome, we must learn from each other, choose the good one and follow it, and change the bad one. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: When three people are together, one of them must be worth learning in some way, then he can be my teacher. I choose his advantages to learn, and I will take warning from his shortcomings and deficiencies, and if there are, I will correct them.
17. A gentleman seeks himself, while a villain seeks others. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: A gentleman always blames himself and finds faults and problems from himself. Villains often look at others to find their shortcomings and deficiencies.
18. an upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: A gentleman is open-minded, frank and clean in thought, and his appearance and movements are very comfortable and stable. The villain has too many desires in his heart and a heavy psychological burden, so he is often worried and worried, and his appearance and movements are also uneasy. He is often restless and unstable.
19. don't complain, don't treat others. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: When encountering setbacks and failures, never make excuses objectively, and never shift the responsibility to others. Later, it developed into the idiom "complaining about others".
2. Don't be angry. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: If you make a mistake, don't take it out on others, and don't make it again. )
21. If you can't bear it, you will make great plans. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: Persevering in doing something you shouldn't do, even if you really want to do it, is called "forbearance". If you can't bear small things and have no patience, it will affect the overall situation and ruin big things.
22. Even a little man's mistakes must be written. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: A villain must cover up his mistakes.
23, it's too much to pass without changing. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: If you make a mistake and don't correct it, it is a real mistake.
24. A gentleman's business is based on his foundation. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: A gentleman devotes himself to the root, establishes the root, and "Tao" naturally comes into being.
25. A gentleman is ashamed of his words and goes beyond his deeds. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: A gentleman thinks it is shameful to talk more and do less.
26. Look before you leap. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: Everything must be done after repeated consideration.
27. Seeing the good is not as good as seeing the bad. -The Analects of Confucius
Translation: When you meet a good person, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. When you see a good thing, you are afraid that you will not be able to do it. Seeing wicked people and bad things is like touching hot water. You should leave immediately and stay away.
28. No one has made mistakes, but he can correct them if he has made mistakes, and it's no good at all. -"Zuo Zhuan"
Translation: Everyone may make mistakes and make hunting mistakes. As long as they are corrected, they are still the best people.
29. Don't hide your virtue with one brush. -"Zuo Zhuan"
Translation: When judging a person, you can't deny his credit because of a little mistake.
3. If a person can do it, he can do it. People can do it in ten ways, and they can do it in thousands. -
Translation of the Doctrine of the Mean: People can learn it at once. If I spend hundreds of times, I will certainly learn it. What others can master ten times, if I learn it a thousand times, I will certainly master it.