Learn to understand the composition 1 Everyone has everyone's experience; Everyone has his own life; Everyone has everyone's wounds. We never know how other people's hearts have been hurt, so we can't read other people's lives with our own eyes.
I remember that day, on the way back from school, I saw two friends I knew had an argument, so I went over to make peace. After learning that it was only a trivial matter, I said, "This trivial matter is nothing. Don't quarrel any more because of it." But they said, "Maybe it's nothing to you, but it's important to us."
I was confused and told my mother about it when I got back. My mother told me such a story: once upon a time, a pig and a sheep were locked together. One day, someone wanted to carry the pig out, and the pig struggled desperately. When the sheep saw it, he sarcastically said, "As for it, I didn't do it when I was taken out." The pig replied, "I'm not like you." They took you out for your wool, and they took me out for my life. "
This story shows that people with different positions and different environments can hardly understand each other's feelings. If we are good at putting ourselves in others' shoes, we can understand others from the heart, which is closer to the fact and more in line with the fact. It is also easy to make people more sympathetic and easy for others to accept. In this way, misunderstandings and contradictions between people will be much less.
We are often angry and sad because others say that it is not worth unnecessary trivial things, because we know our wounds that others don't know.
In fact, we all look at others with our own eyes, often forgetting that everyone is different.
In fact, from another angle, you will find that you are not the only protagonist in this world. There are thousands of people in Qian Qian, everyone has his own story, and everyone is the protagonist in his own story. No matter whether the story is dull or tortuous, everyone has experienced different stories, either sad or happy. Everyone will have tears and sadness. We should learn to be kind to others and understand them.
Learn to understand composition II. On the road of growth, we encounter all kinds of difficulties and setbacks, so we should learn to be strong. Learn to be tolerant; Learn to care ...
And the first thing I have to learn is to understand, understand a person or a thing, and say whether it's big or not. Just like cleaning workers who walk through dangerous traffic every day, they just want to make our living environment clean and tidy. However, some uncivilized people choose to throw parabolic windows, putting cleaning workers in danger. If those drivers put themselves in their shoes, they understand the hard work of the cleaners. In summer, under the scorching sun at noon, cleaners risk heatstroke and serve the society and people. As a driver, you can enjoy air conditioning in the car. Think about the cold winter, you enjoy heating in the car, and those cleaners need to get up early in the morning to clean up, so as to keep the environment clean. These cleaners have made great contributions to this society. Do you have a choice? Throw things outside the car? I believe your choice is negative.
I sometimes blame others wrongly and choose not to understand the hardships behind. Once I went to a restaurant outside with my family and ordered some dishes. At that time, almost all the guests in the store were full. I didn't pay too much attention to that, just called the waiter and asked them to urge the chef to cook quickly and serve us quickly. After waiting for almost 15 minutes, I called the waiter again and asked him to hurry up. After a while, the food was finally served. Later, I watched a variety show called Chinese restaurant. I see, it's so difficult. I understand their efforts behind cooking delicious food for their guests. So I went to urge the chef from now on. More is understanding, preferring to wait rather than complain about them.
This is how I learned to understand others. Only by putting yourself in the other's shoes will you be suddenly enlightened. So I said, "It's not a big thing, and it's not small."
Learn to understand composition 3 We often make people who love us sad because of a little misunderstanding, and our relationship has become strange.
Once, my mother took my brother and me to the park. There are flocks of birds. I saw several girls playing roller skates. I also wanted my mother to buy it for me, but my mother ignored me and continued to play with my brother. I sat there in a daze. Mom came over and said, "What's the matter?" I said, "Mom, I want to play roller skates." Suddenly my brother fell to the ground, and my mother rushed over, and my brother was crying. Mother took her brother home, bandaged his wound and went to cook. I am angry in my room alone. My mother cooked a meal and asked me to go out for dinner. But I was angry in my room and didn't want to eat, so I refused. I heard my mother and my brother eat with relish, but ignored me. My anger is getting bigger and bigger. I want to cry. I opened the door angrily to go to the toilet and slammed the door. When I came out, my mother called me over and said, "What's wrong with you?" I said, "You are so kind to your brother, but you ignore me." Mother said, "My brother is still young and needs to be taken care of, but you have grown up and should learn to take care of yourself." I said, "I see." My mother added, "My mother can do anything for you. I work hard because I want to give you a good life! " "Mom's tears fell, and my anger suddenly disappeared.
Mom has been with us since childhood, so we shouldn't make her angry. I see, so mom doesn't have to worry about us. Mom has tried hard enough.
Learn to understand a seemingly simple word, but some people will never learn it. Fortunately, I learned it that time.
It rained heavily, and the world seemed to be occupied by darkness. The wind is whistling and the trees on the basketball court are swaying, like monsters bitten by teeth. "What are you playing? See what your grades have degenerated into! " My mother grabbed my basketball and stared at it as if it were on fire. I can't help yelling at my mother: "grades, only grades every day!" " ",and walk away.
When I got home, I slammed the door, leaving my mother to sigh outside. Ding, Ding, Ding. The alarm clock rang, and it was already ten o'clock. I looked out of the window, and the tall buildings in the distance lit up, warm and bright. At this point, I have received a protest from my stomach, got up and walked into the kitchen, but found nothing, so I had to go back to the house. After a while, my mother came into the room, put a plate of hot fried rice with eggs on the table and turned away. I ignored everything and wolfed it down. Suddenly, I stopped to think: hasn't mom eaten yet? I yelled at my mother, was it too much ... I quietly pushed open my mother's door, only to find that thin figure was still busy in front of the glowing computer. I regret my impulse, regret being angry with her, and walk gently to her side. My mother turned her head as soon as she heard it, and her eyes seemed a little red and swollen. I don't know when, the black hair in my memory has been stained with silver by the years, and the wrinkles around my eyes have gradually surfaced ... Looking at it, my eyes are blurred. , "it's okay, mom is also wrong, only pay attention to your grades, and forget your growth. Well, it's getting late, go to sleep! " I nodded and turned around, tears streaming down my face.
Moonlight squeezed out of the clouds and shot into the room, gentle and beautiful. At that moment, I really understood my mother!
Learn to understand composition 5 The largest area in the world is the ocean, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky. I also want to tolerate others with a broad mind, but it is not easy to do so.
I remember one time, I was walking slowly on the school playground when someone hit me on the back. As soon as I turned around, a little classmate was running forward with small steps, and I caught up with him easily. The words "I don't know" immediately came to my mind. I want to push him to the ground and fight back, but I don't know why. I only said one thing to him when I saw his frightened eyes. " After thinking about it, I found that I was right, because I understood him: he thought I was a classmate in their class and wanted to play a joke on me.
Think about the teacher Tu who hit me and criticized me before, and was very dissatisfied and disgusted with her. She took it out on her study and didn't want to go to class or do her homework. Now that I have carefully analyzed the inclusion, I understand that she did it for me to correct my learning attitude and also to help me.
Writing here, I meditated for a while. Yes, I make mistakes occasionally, and others can tolerate myself everywhere, so I feel much better. So, why not be kind and tolerant of others? Forgive me, understand me, and harmonize the relationship around you, okay? I figured it out, and my mood was like falling a big stone, which was very relaxed.
If everyone around us can be so tolerant and understanding, then there will be no war, and this is the truly harmonious world and society.
Learn to understand composition 6 Good things are staged every day, and bad things follow.
Once, I went to the store to buy snacks, but forgot to wait for my friend. Back in the classroom, my friends were very angry when they saw me eating snacks with relish. She came up to me and said loudly (loud enough to tear off the roof), "Why didn't you wait for me? ! "I was stunned and said in an apologetic tone," Sorry, I forgot. " She didn't accept my apology at all and continued, "I'm sorry? Just say you're sorry How many times have you not waited for me? You say! " I finally couldn't hold back my anger and said angrily, "What about you? Don't you always forget to help me clean? Yours, I haven't missed it once. " He was in a hurry and even said, "Let's break up!" I disdained to say, "Let's break up when we break up. It's not the first time anyway! " She snorted and left.
For several days, neither of us said a word. I don't know why, I feel more and more lonely, and I have no spirit to do anything. Gradually, I found that I couldn't lose this friend. But what should we do? Apologize Will she accept it? I have never been able to apologize to her, so we have been frozen.
Unexpectedly, the next day, he actually took the initiative to come and chat with me. I was moved to tears and said excitedly, "I'm sorry!" " He said casually, "Never mind, I forgot. Make up! " "hmm!" I nodded and held her hand tightly. I believe it will last forever, because our friendship lasts forever.
After this incident, I understand: understand others with your heart. Put yourself in another's shoes and look at people from different angles, and you will find the hidden bright spots in others. In life, we often encounter some unpleasant things. If we can take care of each other, we can turn our enemies into friends.
Learn to understand composition 7 What is understanding? Understanding is the bridge between heart and heart; Understanding is a bridge to enhance friendship. And understanding often evolves from misunderstanding to understanding.
I remember that time, my neighbor Wang Ping asked me to go to her home to do my homework. I went home after finishing my homework. "Ding Dong", is mom back? I look through the cat's eye. Oh, it's Wang Ping.
As soon as I opened the door, she changed her friendly tone and rushed in angrily. She stared at me without even saying hello. I was upset by her. She said to me angrily, "give me back my new pen!" " "The nameless fire in my heart was ignited by these puzzling words. : "What pen? I didn't take it! " "I bought a pen today. It disappeared after you left. You dare say you didn't take it? "To tell you the truth, I like this pen very much, but I haven't touched it yet. How should I bear it? I am overwhelmed by endless words. " I can't tell, you must have stolen it! ""no, it's not! "I am so wronged that I am about to cry.
Later, I calmed down and changed my mind: if I were her, my beloved pen would be anxious, and I would understand her. So, I smiled and said to her, "Don't worry, let's go to your house to look for it!" " "When she saw my sincere attitude, she lost half of her anger and went back to her house with me. Later, a new pen was found in China's books. As soon as she saw her beloved pen, she gave me another look. She blushed and apologized to me. I smiled at her. It is because of understanding that Wang Ping and I have become good friends again.
It is through this experience that I feel that the meaning of understanding is profound and profound, and I have a deeper understanding of the meaning of understanding …
Learn to understand composition 8 in a dark corner, there is a person crying secretly, and that person is me.
When the exam results came out, I looked at the pools of blood-red marks on the test paper, and my heart felt like someone had hit me hard, and I suddenly felt that my eyes were dark. The teacher called me to the office. She said: "You are not in a good state these days, and your grades have been declining. Do you have something on your mind? " "Teacher, I didn't ..." "I hope I didn't, but your grades are your own and relate to your future." "Teacher, I have nothing on my mind, and I have worked hard. I wish I had worked hard. Why do you pay so much attention to grades? "
When I got home, my father said, "Why are you doing so badly in school? Don't ask me to have a parent-teacher conference! " "Mom said," you don't have to do anything at home. You just play all day. Now you know this is wrong. "
Mom and dad, I haven't played all day. I didn't. I cried in the dark. ...
Why? I spend as much time on my studies as others. I work so hard, but my grades are so poor? Why? Teachers and parents only pay attention to grades. Why don't they understand me? Why is God so unfair?
The darkness said to me, "Cry heartily! Stand up after crying. " The wind said to me, "dry your tears!" " You must learn to know yourself. "The flowers said to me," Smile! You must learn to understand others. "
Thank you, I will smile, I will learn to face life with a smile, even if I am not understood by others, I will stick to it, and I will prove it to them with practical actions, so that they can understand my current mood.
Learn to understand the composition 9 The communication between people is more about accepting each other than changing each other. If you just want to change each other, it is not life, it is war. Fate is not a matter of opportunity, but a matter of choice. This is not something we have to wait for, but something we have to achieve. The man who walks straight is smart because he finds a shortcut; People who bend the straight road are open-minded because they can see more scenery. The road is not under your feet, but in your heart, you can live a happy life with an indifferent attitude.
-"Promotion in Du Lala"
What should come will come sooner or later, and those who want to love will love. None of us can win the race against time. Face everything calmly and indifferently. When you meet someone you like, you should cherish the fate. Whether it is a passer-by in life or a long-term confidant, it is a beautiful memory of life. It's rare to have a few real friends in the crowd. Please don't care about this feeling and cherish the people in front of you.
True love will make people touch eternity. That man, ten or twenty years later, still stays in our hearts. Looking back on the past, we are surprised as before, and we are surprised that time flies. Perhaps today, old friends have been scattered in the sea of people, and the past has long been in blowing in the wind. This is the same, but it is so difficult that it is still in our hearts. -Sun Wei's "Looking for Flowers and Asking for Willow" When two people are together, they are always thrilling at first, and they are swayed by considerations of gain and loss. With in-depth understanding, the mystery fades, the freshness will gradually lose, and the passion will be dull. At this time, communication is the most important thing, and you may no longer worry about each other, but there is a tacit understanding that is produced after full communication and trust. Being with a well-adapted partner is relaxed and practical, which is a beautiful embodiment of love. Although time kills passion, at the same time, time will accumulate affection.
Pain is inevitable, and the flowers on those wounds are dotted with the scenery in our memory. Every injury makes us think and explore the meaning of life; Let's grow up, and always give up something to bid farewell to our original self; Let us be strong, and the healed wounds can make us bear more; Let's cherish it, no one will care if we get it easily. Only after experiencing pain can we understand how precious what we have lost.
Learning to understand the composition 10 learning to understand will make people more tolerant; Learn to understand, it will show an atmospheric mood; Learn to understand, and you will be recognized and respected by everyone; Learn to understand, and you will ...
In mid-April, the teacher publicized Mount Tai, Taiyuan, the scenic spot that the May Day reporter was going to visit. Looking at these 16 interesting scenic spots, I immediately got excited and was happy from ear to ear. I looked forward to it again and again, and finally I waited for this day. I got up at 4 this morning and arrived at the meeting place at 5. Bus after bus stopped neatly on the side of the road like soldiers. On the bus, I talked with my classmates and laughed all the way. I was shocked when I arrived at my destination. It turns out that Taishan is so big! In the morning, I visited the ice sculpture world, took the time train, and watched the real CS and the prairie bouncing ball. However, at noon, something sad seems to have happened to God. It rained cats and dogs, making fun outdoor projects such as grass skiing, skiing and zip line ruined. My mood suddenly changed from overjoyed to depressed, so I had to choose indoor projects such as the Heavenly Palace and the bear infestation.
Just when all the exciting projects are far away from us, everyone in the small reporter team is sighing, and my heart can't help but rise for a while. I haven't seen her for nearly a day. I was just about to complain loudly when I saw Miss Wang's tired figure. She limped this way, holding several classmates' schoolbags and clothes in her arms, and I was speechless at once. What was the teacher doing when I was playing? She is helping us carry big bags and small bags; What was the teacher doing while I was eating? She is helping us cook; What was she doing when I stood in line for registration? She is maintaining the discipline and safety of the team; When I ... think about it, my resentment disappears immediately. After getting on the bus, the teacher explained to us why some projects were cancelled. Listening to her hoarse and apologetic voice, I was completely moved.
Learn to understand and you will learn to respect; Learn to understand and you will learn to be tolerant; Learn to understand, and you will be happier.
Learn to understand the composition 1 1 Like the silent winter snow, like the intermittent spring rain, and like the rustling of the wind in the summer shade, the days are quietly turning from page to page. Suddenly, I came to an age of wandering between innocence and maturity, a flower season crisscrossed between cunning and rebellion.
Like most of my peers, I freely vented my inner irritability in this damn adolescence, stabbing my mother's tired and soft heart again and again.
Every morning, I always rush out of the house with a piece of bread in my mouth, dragging my shoes with undone shoelaces and milk in my mouth. I will never change my mother's words day after day behind that thick door.
It was a winter morning, and I was as anxious as usual. I was scolded by my father for failing the exam. My father's trembling lips and angry face of hating iron and not turning into steel are still fresh in my mind. But my inner irritability and rebellion spread like tentacles ... I heard my mother's words when I went out, but this time it sounded particularly harsh for some reason. Suddenly, a stream of blood welled up in my heart and I slammed the door and left.
When I came downstairs, a biting cold wind came to my face and got into my collar and cuffs, and I couldn't help shivering. I was just about to turn around and go home to add clothes. I just turned around and realized that my mother was waiting for me downstairs with a sweater. At that moment, my eyes were moist and my heart was warm. ...
I can't forget that moment. My mother and I are calm and close.
My mother gave me a blue sky. I can't give my mother any special precious gifts. I can only learn to calm my impetuous heart, learn to understand the warm maternal love, and lead my mother with pale temples to a life path, just as she led me when I was a child. This is my greatest wish.
Learning composition 12 interpersonal communication always leads to unhappiness and minor contradictions. Faced with these situations, people should learn tolerance and understanding. Because understanding is the key to eliminating contradictions.
I still remember when I was in the fifth grade of primary school. Because I learned to understand, the teacher's insight made this summer different and impressive. Once I had a little conflict with my little friend, which disturbed his rest during lunch break. He couldn't bear it, and finally told the teacher. The teacher didn't say anything at the moment, so he confessed me during his lunch break. Subsequent induction led me to tell the reason. I was not sensible at that time. I said loudly that I was too bored to sleep, so I played tricks on my classmates. The loving teacher didn't scold me, and even left me a sigh of relief, leaving me standing alone in the corridor for a class.
For a long time, silence makes me more uneasy than criticism. When the bell rang, the teacher appeared in my sight again. He asked, "Do you know what it means to respect your classmates and understand others?" I shook my head and looked puzzled. The teacher replied, "Understanding is a way to promote communication between people and make them feel warm." I suddenly realized, "I see. I will try my best to stand in other people's perspective and understand their situation in the future." Everyone says the teacher is harsh and unreasonable, but I think he is actually mean to students who make big mistakes. This is the first time I know that there are so many reasons to master in life.
Since that education, I have been much more friendly to my classmates and friends. The teacher in our class often loses his temper, because many boys in our class are not sensible and often play tricks on female classmates, or don't obey the class rules. The head teacher is haggard day by day, like a bird in a cage. I can see that the teacher has paid a lot for us and sacrificed a lot. I understand the teacher, I am grateful to the teacher, I understand the teacher, he broke his heart for us. He is like a candle that is about to burn out, and he is still willing to give himself at the last minute to shine on our lives.
I learned how to understand others, I am very happy, and I am one step closer to "benevolence"!
Learn to understand the composition 13 Understanding is a noble language and a sublimation of spiritual silence. Maybe we can't be generous, but we can face the people and things around us with a frank and sincere heart. More understanding and warmth; More understanding, more moving; More understanding, more beauty.
Understand family ties. Do you understand mom's hard work? Did you slam the door because of mom's harsh criticism? The thread in the loving mother's hand makes clothes for the wayward son's body. What mother in the world doesn't love her children? Mother's words and actions are full of love. However, we are often ungrateful and don't understand them.
Understand friendship. We all have many friends, but how many sincere friends do we have? "We are both unhappy-we didn't meet until eternity passed. We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? " Understanding is the first condition of friendship. With understanding, friends can make progress together and friendship can last forever. When a friend's unintentional words or actions hurt you, will you turn against him? Do you understand that misunderstanding between friends and you leads to discord?
Understand life. Although life is rough. We will face failure, success and death. But only by understanding the true meaning of life can we live easily. As long as you have dreams, love, understanding and faith in your heart. You can succeed. So, please don't use money and reputation to measure success or failure.
Su Shi's life was rough and gloomy, but he chose Chibi, which helped him. He understood the true meaning of life, resolutely walked out of the dark officialdom, and understood his other life, so he got the famous saying "The river of no return, the waves are exhausted, and the eternal romantic figures".
Let's open the flower of understanding and show more care; Clouds that expand understanding have more warmth; Taste the source of understanding and be grateful. In your heart, let yourself understand others and let others understand yourself.
Learn to understand the composition 14 Everyone is eager to be understood, but also learn to understand others. Understanding is like a bridge to communicate each other's hearts; Understanding is like a bright light, driving away the shadows in our hearts. If we lack understanding, we will lack sunshine, because the "catalysis" of understanding is indispensable for family, friendship and love. A philosopher once said: people who are good at understanding others will find a door everywhere in the world; People who are not good at understanding others find that the world is full of walls.
We will always encounter some bumps and setbacks on the road of life, and at this time, what we need most is the understanding and help of others, and we just think that we need to understand, whether to think more about others needs to understand.
We will always encounter some bumps and setbacks on the road of life, and at this time, what we need most is the understanding and help of others, and we just think that we need to understand, whether to think more about others needs to understand.
When you understand others, you will be understood by others; Only by understanding others will you get more understanding from others. When we can all understand each other, the world will become a better place.
As long as we put ourselves in others' shoes, we can understand many behaviors that we think are wrong, and we can soothe many broken hearts ... Learning to understand does not mean losing our own taste and burying our self-esteem; Failure to learn to understand means losing morality and selling your soul!
Love is everywhere in life. Love needs our hearts to understand.
Learn to understand the composition 15 understanding a person has a wide range. Understanding includes tolerance, and understanding includes a person's temperament. Only by learning to understand can you know that the beauty of this world will deepen your friendship.
Understanding is great; Understanding will make people happy; Understanding will also make others treat you well.
While learning to understand, we should also learn to tolerate others. Only by learning tolerance can we tolerate and understand others with the spirit of a gentleman.
Understanding is a quality; Understanding is a kind of grace; Understanding will make you learn, think, learn to think, and distinguish right from wrong.
Only when a person manages himself well can he be qualified to understand others, treat him and put forward corresponding solutions.
Don't be like many people who can't control themselves, but pretend to be arrogant and arrogant to discipline others. Such people are nosy people.
If you want to learn to understand, you have to keep, be happy, accept everything and understand a person with a happy mood.
Only by setting an example can we really understand each other and understand each other.
A person's habits are not formed in a day, so you must understand and tolerate him with a happy mood.
Understand others, you will be happy, you will gain something, and you will make others happy.
But how many people understand others? Many times, they don't trust each other, and only a few people will trust each other.
To understand others is to understand yourself. Only by trusting others first will others be willing to accept you. Isn't it, understanding others makes you happy?
Learn to understand, give others happiness, and also give yourself happiness.