Be careful when making friends. No matter who you make friends with, you should be careful. A well-known proverb, "He who is near the ink is black", vividly illustrates the importance of "making friends carefully", which is the experience of the ancients. The fact is true, how a person's friends often play a great role in their own development, which is an invisible and subtle influence.
What's the best friend to make? The ancients said, "The winner has three friends, and the loser has three friends. Friends are straightforward, friends are considerate, and many friends are heard, which is beneficial; Friends are withdrawn, friendly and soft, and friends are hurt. " In other words, making friends with honest, trustworthy and knowledgeable people will benefit a lot; It is harmful to make friends with flattering, insincere and flashy people.
Treat friends. Don't refuse if you can help, don't promise if you can't, and don't lie if you don't want to help. True friends are used to trusting in critical moments and asking for help in difficult times. It's my duty to help my friends. It's harmful to the other party to make blind promises to friends or even lie, because people will delay their work because they expect you. What is wrong is trivial and harmless; What is wrong is a matter of life and death, then you are guilty.