We are born as human beings, and the only thing we can do in this world is to be our own masters. We must be able to carry out our own orders. We said to ourselves that if we recite fifty English words every day, we must finish it; We say we can run, we must run; We said that if we want to work hard, we must work hard. In fact, all our failures are the result of self-deception. Before we lie to others, we lie to ourselves. We tell others that we love him or her, and we say that we have a sense of responsibility, but our promises are worthless, because we actually know that we are just fooling around. We don't need others' help, but we cheat others' help. We are proud that we can't even lie to ourselves, but others believe us. This is not success, this is depravity-we have actually become slaves to self-deception.

All this must be changed, and we must have a basic requirement for ourselves. First of all, we should achieve economic independence at the age of 22, and pay off our parents' economic investment completely within ten years; Before we get married and decide to have children, we must win the economic and educational ability to raise children and make this ability last until the child is 22 years old, otherwise, we regard marriage as legal pornography; When we retire, we must earn enough pension, so as not to cause trouble to others, otherwise we just regard work as a joke. Only by hard work can we do this, and only by doing this can we barely be called our own master within the secular scope.

If we work harder, then we will accumulate some of our own wealth to buy other people's services. We can also break through the limitations of time and space on individuals and give ourselves a little freedom-freedom of action and freedom of thought. And if we work hard, plus a little luck, then we have a chance to get happiness-we can enjoy the mountains, rivers and different cultures of this world with our own physical strength, and we can enjoy the spiritual world created for us by those geniuses in the world with our own intelligence-scientific, religious and artistic.

For our happiness, the biggest enemy is laziness and self-pity, and the most difficult difficulty is the lack of environment and teachers. We can only achieve self-development through constant self-education. The ability we must acquire is to jump out of ourselves and the environment and gain rationality. We must understand the truth bit by bit with frustration. Our real misfortune is that we can only succeed if we beat our competitors all the way. It is difficult for us to have a chance to sympathize with those who are defeated by us. Even if our moral ability is improved, it is difficult to benefit others, because we can only move forward.

Maybe the fate of China people of our generation is limited-I can't see it, and it's hard to believe that we may have higher goals, because our abilities don't support our selfish desires. Generally speaking, our life can only be like this. This is the real situation of China people born in 2 1 century. Our sighs force us to admit the limitations of time and space. Of course, there are different values and reasons in the world. I think that's what everyone says, looking for rationality for their actions. I believe that some people may be very happy even if they do nothing, and some people can get great happiness by asking for it all their lives, but I am sure that is not my happiness. For strangers, I try to treat them as equals and try not to take the slightest advantage; For my relatives, giving can bring me real happiness, when my relatives are happy because of my contribution.