Cold eyes, cold muzzle, blood spattering and flesh erosion. His tone is deep, his tone never changes, and his eyes are full of stories. Don't try to see through his heart, his heart is under nine places and bottomless. Life is ups and downs, and the godfather tells you three essential characteristics of a successful man with his rich life experience and wisdom.

1

Be rational, and don't let emotions affect decision-making

Sonny, the godfather's eldest son, and his sister were abused by her husband. On the way to my sister's house, dozens of people rushed out of the toll booth, and the gunfire was everywhere. Sunny was killed in the disorderly gun. Knowing that family traitors are everywhere and crises are everywhere, Sunny is irrational and driven by emotions, and finally he faces death.

After the godfather was shot, the godfather family discussed the revenge plan. The lights are dim, the room is noisy, everyone is making noise, and no one has put forward any practical suggestions.

Only the godfather's third son, Mike, was silent.

"Stop, I want to negotiate with the godfather. I need a crowded restaurant to hide the pistol in a hidden place." Mike said.

"are you kidding?" Others grinned.

"I can. Go down and get ready." Mike put his hands across his chest.

after the restaurant talks, go to the bathroom to get the gun. Walking slowly to the dining table, his forehead was soaked with sweat and his face was expressionless. He took out his gun and "bang" and "bang" twice. Immediately turn around and run away, get in the car and escape from the restaurant.

Sunny loved her sister very much, and after hearing about the domestic violence, she was burned with anger and eventually died. Mike finished the murder rationally, calmly and perfectly.

There is a classic line in the godfather: I have studied all my life and learned to be careful. Children and women can be careless, but men can't.

one wrong move will lose the game. Not every failure has a chance to start over. A decision-making mistake may make you lose all the cards in your hand.

A rational person needs:

1. Never let emotions affect decision-making. Anger, sadness, and pain are not the reasons for making mistakes in decision-making. A wrong sentence in emotion may have an enemy, and an impulsive behavior caused by emotion may be regretted for life.

2. Have a thinking system to deal with things:

1. Collection, screening and judgment of information. Information is the premise of solving all problems. The more comprehensive and accurate the information, the more accurate the decision.

2.? Thinking comprehensively: what- information why- purpose when- time where- place who- object how- method step how much- cost.

3. Think on the premise of failure and learn to wait. Rule out all the possibilities of failure, not necessarily winning, but not failing, and look for opportunities to succeed in waiting.

2

A man who doesn't take time to spend time with his family is not a real man

Struggle, betrayal and killing have not changed the godfather's gentleness towards his family!

Godfather's face was covered with wrinkles. He sat in a chair in the garden, panting and waving his hand, and said to his grandson, "Come here, come here." There is no smile, there is only tenderness in the eyes.

Sun Tzu chased the godfather with a sprinkler and sprayed water on him. The godfather bent over, gasped faintly, and coughed from time to time, shuttling through the cucumber rack. Sun

s immature words: "Fall down, fall down!"

the godfather fell, and fell forever.

I wonder what my godfather was thinking when he fell.

"I was not shot by the enemy, framed by a traitor, or killed in a hail of bullets. I died playing with my grandson, which is my best destination! "

3

Pain and struggle are compulsory courses

After the eldest son Sunny was shot and killed indiscriminately, the godfather's eyes drooped and his muscles twisted. The godfather is in great pain, but for the benefit of the five gangs, he can't take revenge. He wants to negotiate with the man who killed his son. He wants to help his enemy and give him benefits!

successful people can suffer what ordinary people can't. White-haired people can't cry, can't be controlled by emotions, and can't take revenge. The only thing I can do is to digest the pain in my heart and wake up and continue to face the storms of life. Learn to deal with inner pain, whether it is numbness and indifference to suffering or letting go of rational face, we must do it. Get new skills and thinking from suffering, and grow up in suffering.

Mike became the godfather in the church through the hand of God, promising to be a kind and kind person, and at the same time sent people to eliminate the five gang leaders and traitors. There is a sharp contrast between the crying of the baby and the banging of the gun. Guarding and killing, holiness and sin, are intertwined at the same time.

justice and interests, faith and reality. In the struggle and contradiction, Mike raised his evil hand. Is it really evil?

The only certainty is that Mike has become a real godfather.

Three characteristics of a successful man: rationality, responsibility and the ability to face and deal with hardships.