To belittle/belittle oneself

Feel unworthy (of interacting with others)

Will only be pessimistic and disappointed

Be ashamed of one's inferiority

1. See yourself clearly

Idiom pronunciation: w à ng z wàng zīf ibo

Idiom definition: false: random; Look down upon, despise Overestimate yourself. Describe inferiority.

The origin of the idiom: Zhuge Liang of the Three Kingdoms Shu wrote "The Former Teacher's Watch": "It is not advisable to belittle yourself, and the metaphor is meaningless, so as to block the road of loyalty and admonition."

Idiom example: these few people alone can't achieve great things. But for himself, Sun Fu never ~. (Mao Dun's Midnight III)

2 Be self-contemptuous and self-contemptuous.

[Pinyin]: z and q and ng z and ji an

[explanation]: it means: contempt. Look down on yourself. More refers to lowering yourself.

[Example]: None

[Source]: Feng Ming Menglong's "Ancient and Modern Novels" Volume 2: "It is well documented to send you to the old garden with your family. Don't underestimate yourself."

[Reference Dictionary]: Idiom dictionary

3 feel ashamed.

[Pinyin ]: zü cá n xí ng hu

[explanation]: ugly: ugly, extended to shortcomings. I am ashamed that I am inferior to others.

Example: She just stayed in a dark corner and dared not say a word.

★ Chapter 11 of Yang Mo's Song of Youth.

[Source]: Liu Yiqing's "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Rong Zhi" in the Southern Song Dynasty: "Zhu Yu is around, and I feel ugly."

[Reference Dictionary]: Idiom dictionary

4 give up on yourself

[Pinyin]: z bào züq

[explanation]: violence: spoiling and destroying; Dislike: despise. I look down on myself and am willing to fall behind or degenerate.

[Example]: Scholars are pessimistic and disappointed. But how strong and brave those workers are!

★ Ouyang Shan's Struggle 53

[Source]: "Mencius Li Lou": "Self-destructors should not talk to them; People who give up on themselves can't make a difference. "

[Reference Dictionary]: Idiom dictionary

5 inferiority and shame

[Pinyin]: z and ku and b and rú

[explanation]: F: No, it's worse to be ashamed of yourself than others.

[Example]: In that place, saints proliferated and became the privileged class that made Sakyamuni and Socrates.

★ Lu Xun's Two Essays of Confucius and Jieting in Modern China.

[Source]: "The Warring States Policy Qi Ce I": "Xu Gong will come tomorrow, but he thinks it is better to be familiar with it."

[Reference Dictionary]: Idiom dictionary

Allusions:

Guan Yunchang (Guan Yu) defeated Maicheng.

Masu lost street pavilion-exaggeration.

This is a short story in the romance of the Three Kingdoms. The story goes like this: Ma Su was a general in the Three Kingdoms period. He and his brother Ma Liang are both officials under Liu Bei. Ma Su likes to talk about military affairs, and Zhuge Liang, the Prime Minister, values him very much. But Liu Bei always thought that Ma Su was talkative and unrealistic. Before he died, Liu Bei said to Zhuge Liang, "Ma Su is a grandiose man. It is beyond his practical ability and cannot be reused. The Prime Minister should pay attention! " In 227 AD, Zhuge Liang wrote an article to Liu Chan, namely the famous "Model". The following spring, he led an army to attack Wei. Because he forgot Liu Bei's advice, he sent Ma Su to a strategically important street pavilion, which led to the fall of the street pavilion and the failure of cutting Wei. Afterwards, Zhuge Liang reported to Liu Chan, the late leader, that he was relieved of his post as prime minister and reduced to the third class, in order to punish himself for his gross negligence in employing people improperly and causing defeat. At this time, he remembered that Liu Bei told himself before he died that Ma Su's words were grandiose and beyond his practical ability, so he could not reuse them and should pay attention to them. I made a big mistake because I didn't do it.

If you want others to be salty, you must first touch yourself.

The pen is the tongue of the mind.

It is not enough for a poet to have inspiration, but his inspiration must also belong to a cultured spirit.

Poetry is the queen of art.

Poetry is an expression of talent touched by emotion.

Just like choosing a dish, you have to choose when you talk.

Words can be taken back, but life can't be like this

We have two ears and one mouth in order to listen more and talk less.

Silence is an excellent conversation skill.

He who complains the most is to blame.

The knower does not speak, and the speaker does not know.

Smile is the language of silence.

Fierce words show the weakness of their reasons.

When humans have nothing to say, they always speak ill of others.

There is no word "impossible" in my dictionary.

You must have a superhuman memory to lie.

Be calm when discussing. Fierce arguments will turn mistakes into shortcomings and truth into hegemony.

I don't agree with what you said, but I will risk my life to support your right to say it.

The beauty of a woman is a knife and a smile is a sword.

Beauty is like summer fruit, which is perishable but not lasting.

The most beautiful things in the world, such as peacocks and lilies, are the most useless things.

Music is the poetry of the air.

Music, in people's minds, is the biggest thing that affects lust.

Music is the common language of human beings.

Fishing is naive and cruel.

The purpose of sports is not to win or lose, but to compete.

Among all kinds of happiness, the fruit of labor is the sweetest.

Fashion is an unbearable ugliness. Therefore, fashion should be changed once every six months.

Love is the spark of life.

Love is the process of marriage, and marriage is the purpose of love.

Love can make life burn and enrich.

Before you love, you must know something.

Love makes people forget time, and time makes people forget love.

There are many drugs to treat love diseases, but they have no effect.

Love is a lovely flower and friendship is a sweet fruit.

The only thing of value in the world is love.

Open your eyes wide before marriage and close one eye after marriage.

Choose a wife with eyes, not ears.

An unfilial daughter must be an unruly wife.

Marriage is formed by misunderstanding.

⊙ A beautiful woman with a long history; A kind woman is firm.

You should teach your children to walk; However, children should learn to walk by themselves.

A gentleman breaks up without saying goodbye.

Friendship is the spice of life and the painkiller of life.

Doubt is the poison of friendship.

Studying alone without friends is ignorance.

When dealing with people, we should treat each other with sincerity in order to get sincere friendship.

The real name of happiness is "contentment".

Being loved is not happiness, but loving others is happiness.

Giving is happier than taking. Love is better than being loved, and it makes people happier.

Happy people are often kind.

People who don't think they are happy will never be happy.

People who don't think they are happy are always enjoying happiness.

Where there is life, there is hope.

There is no word "impossible" in my dictionary.

Hope is the bread of the poor.

Dreams are the fulfillment of wishes.

Pain is short, happiness is eternal.

The pain of the mind is heavier than that of the body.

Although the pessimist is still alive, the optimist will never get old.

Goodness is a realization of personality.

Do you cherish life? Then please don't waste time, because life is made of time.

People who cherish life should not waste time, because time is the element that constitutes life.

Life is a novel, not long, but good.

What do you think, how do you live.

Be content with your own life and don't compare it with others'.

If there is a mistake in thought, life will not be correct.

Survival of the fittest.

Don't take life too seriously, we won't leave alive anyway.

Waste of life is the greatest tragedy in the world.

Neither the weak nor the strong can escape from the palm of fate.

In the vicissitudes of fate, it is easiest to see a person's integrity.

Friendship is a fragile thing, and we need to protect it as carefully as we cherish fragile things.

Friendship is like candlelight, it is brightest when it is dark all around.

A friend is a mirror.

The most precious gift between friends is forgiveness and forgiveness.

True friendship is like health. You don't know how precious it is until you lose it.

Self-doubt and distrust people, and self-trust and distrust people; Don't doubt people, don't doubt people.

It is beneficial to have three friends, and it is beneficial to have honest, tolerant and knowledgeable friends.

A gentleman takes his fellow travelers as his friends, while a villain takes common interests as his friends.

Making bad friends is enough to reduce your value.

Wealth is not a permanent friend, but a friend is a permanent wealth.

Success can attract friends, and setbacks can test friends.

If you want to have friends, you must make friends yourself.

Advise friends behind their backs and boast that friends need to be open.

Don't base your happiness on the pain of others.

A happy mood is as good for health as good medicine.

A happy smile is the sunshine in the room.

Everyone is an engineer who builds his own happiness.

Facing the light, the shadow is always behind us.

The happiest thing is to do what you do.

Health begets happiness, and happiness begets health.

What's going on in the world, how can you do what I want to do? You must be comfortable, do your best on me and have fun with it.

Satisfied people are poor and happy, dissatisfied people are rich and worried.

Happiness is health, depression is disease.

Time can alleviate and alleviate sadness.

Only the strongest people can stand up alone.

People who fall to the ground no longer need to be afraid of falling.

If you can't bear small things, it will bring disaster.

The secret of success lies in being ready to seize the opportunity at any time.

⊙ The weak bide their time; The strong create opportunities.

⊙ Honest people are meticulous about finance; A believer will not cheat when he speaks.

You must be true to yourself before deceiving others.

If you don't trust others, others won't trust you.

The shortest straight line is moral and geometric.

Hypocrisy is the root of all evil.

We will never be deceived by others, only by ourselves.

One lie must be made up by another, otherwise it will be full of loopholes.

The full and best ear of rice is closest to the ground.

It is my duty to be humble to my superiors; Humility to peers is kindness; Humility to subordinates is noble.

Humility is the noblest self-denial.

Kindness is the sunshine in your heart.

Compassion is the highest virtue of all morals.

The success of Pepsi must be respected. If it fails, it must be slow.

Don't ask success or failure, just ask your conscience to do it, and then make up your mind to fight.

Young people really have to work hard. How can they climb up after one year?

No matter what it is, as long as it is completely successful from beginning to end, it is a big deal.

When it's okay, it's clear Cut it off as soon as something happens. Be indifferent when you are proud. Be too natural when you are frustrated.

Accumulate knowledge with the heart of accumulating wealth, and seek morality with the heart of fame and fortune.

Rich without arrogance, poor without resentment.

When the bow is full, it will be folded, and when the moon is full, it will be missing.

Teachers are easy to find, but rare.

If you accumulate money, you will never study.

Learning without skill is darker than Dali.

If you don't fly, you will fly to the sky. If you don't sing, it will be a blockbuster.

Don't be proud when you are proud, and don't be angry when you are frustrated.

⊙ Leave room for doing things and limit tolerance for speaking; Never be ten years old. When you are ten.

Don't be ungrateful to others

Those who love him will always love him. People who respect others will always respect others.

After the ancients, discuss the loss of the ancients. Being in the position of the ancients is difficult for them.

Advice and good guidance.

Doubt when you hear people are good, believe when you hear people are evil, and say that people are short, and there will be evil if there is no good in life.

Those who are right and wrong are also right and wrong.

By other's faults, wise men correct their own.

Pay with money, pay with money. People who pay with color fall in love with Chongqing.

A scholar dies for a bosom friend.

Walking with a gentleman, I entered Lan Zhi's room, but I didn't smell it for a long time, so I merged with it.

Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to the ink.

Know people, know faces, but don't know hearts.

A gentleman uses words as his friend and helps others with kindness.

In the bitter fleabane bitter fleabane, don't help yourself straight. White sand in the mud, black clothes.

If two people unite, their profits will be cut off.

Gentlemen don't break up with evil voices.

When you die, you know friendship. Poverty and wealth are a state of knowing each other. One is expensive and the other is cheap, but friendship is visible.

If you want to trust people, you must first be confident. If you want to know people, you must know yourself first.

A gentleman who loves others is also virtuous; A good man's lover is also appeased.

Be lenient with the little people. Be strict in preventing villains.

Kiss and be kind to people, be kind to people and care for things.

Love is benevolence.

Filial piety is the foundation of virtue.

Filial piety, lifelong respect for parents.

The tree wants to be quiet and the wind will not stop, and the son wants to raise it.

Stay when you are older, and leave when you are older.

A bad wife doesn't go to court.

A poor family wants a good wife, but a chaotic country wants a good general.

Distant relatives are better than close neighbors.

A gentleman must choose his hometown when he is alive and a scholar when he travels.

Millions buy houses, millions buy neighbors.

The housekeeper said "thrift" and "frugality".

⊙ There is no disaster in the German house.

A loving mother has a loser.

Don't read evil books, say evil words, see evil people, and don't go to evil places.

Snakes bite, strong men break their wrists.

Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren. Don't be cattle and horses with them.

Etiquette, justice, honesty and shame, the four dimensions of the country, the four dimensions are not open, the country will perish.

The product of husband's country is also. The device of human mind is also the psychological phenomenon of a group of national politicians.

There are no complete works, no omnipotent saints, and no omnipotent everything in the world.

Learn, and then know less. Teach and get sleepy.

⊙ erudite, interrogative, thoughtful, discerning and persistent.

Learning less is like sunrise. Strong and studious, like sunshine. Old and studious, bright as a candle.

Learn after time, and you will work very hard, very hard.

Diligence is good at diligence, but not good at playing.

Ancient scholars were themselves, and today's scholars are people.

Learning is like a boat, you can't slow down.

Learning must be good at asking questions, and asking and learning complement each other. Without learning, there is no doubt, without asking, there is no knowledge.

⊙ Learning can't be shine on you but better than blue; Ice, water, but colder than water.

teacher for a day, father for a lifetime.

No matter what you study, strict teachers are embarrassed. If the teacher is strict, then Tao Zun; Respect the Tao, then the people know and respect learning.

In a threesome, there must be a teacher: choose the good and follow it, and change the bad.

Teachers, so those who preach, teach and solve doubts are also.

If you can't bear it, make a great plan.

Worry and fatigue can rejuvenate the country, and leisure can die.

Everyone is proud of luxury, and my heart is only beautiful if it is frugal.

Luxury people are not rich enough, and frugal people are poor enough.

I don't want others to impose it on me, and I want to impose it on others.

I dare not blame others for what I can't do. People cannot be strong.

Don't be arrogant, but don't be arrogant.

Virtue helps, and evil is eliminated.

A gentleman has a clear distinction between good and evil.

A gentleman's heart wants others to be kind to him. The heart of a villain is evil to others.

Don't do small good, don't do small evil.

Don't draw wealth, don't care about poverty.

Use personal wisdom, not public stupidity.

Born in sorrow, died in happiness.

Love makes a blessing, resentment makes a curse.

⊙ Dayu sage, but cherish inch Yin; As for everyone, we should cherish Yin.

The ancients valued Yin more than rulers, and their ways were natural.

Don't wait to see the boy's head, it's empty and sad.

Between heaven and earth, it's just a flash in the pan.

Dieting, eliminating diseases, abstinence and prolonging life.

People who keep themselves alive have little desire.

The people are the country, and this is the country.

Kindness is not enough for politics. Acts, not on your own.

Punishment is the medicine stone of chaos.

To govern a country that is about to be in chaos, we must use heavy codes. A long-term chaotic country should be given a chance to live.

Wood is straight, gold is sharp.

⊙ Dyeing light is light, dyeing yellow is yellow.

Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle.

The brave don't fight, and the soldiers don't fight.

Don't doubt people, don't doubt people.

Hurry, hurry, speed, speed, speed, speed, speed, speed, speed, speed, speed, speed, speed.

My generation just wants to have a clear conscience and do their duty.

Carrying firewood to put out the fire, without paying wages, the fire will be even bigger.

⊙ It's messy when you're interrupted.

It is better to retreat into a net than to fish in the forest.

Raise the soup to stop boiling, and you will get something.

If you draw a circle with your left hand and a square with your right hand, you can't do it.

Do your best until you die.

A gentleman would rather die than surrender.

Civil servants don't love money, military officers don't hesitate to die, and the world is at peace.

It is not enough to talk about politics. What is Gu's ear?

Officials are not allowed to perform their duties, so go. Those who are responsible for their own words, don't say what they say, then go.

You steal vegetables slowly! ! ! ! ! ! !