1. Summer is turning here, dear, dear, dear, we can’t go back to the past.
2. I hope someone will understand me, even if I don’t say anything.
3. Only the smartest women know that consideration and understanding can always make a man more attractive than the most attractive appearance.
4. I know that there is someone in my heart. No matter how many years pass, he will always be there.
5. Losing something after having gained it is more hurtful than never gaining something at all.
6. I want to hide, I want to pick up the dust in life and cover the memory. Finally, my story has come to an end; finally, it has an unresolved ending; finally, I am about to give up on my humble love. I think, I want to be myself again and no longer be trapped in the prison of loving you
7. Sometimes, what you say may hurt others, but sometimes, your silence will make people sad. It hurts deeper.
8. If you are full of doubts and the reality is very different from your imagination, you might as well calm down, take a good look at yourself, what is the best way to do it, and be good at facing it and accepting it. Reality, only by quickly responding to changes in the outside world can you become a strong person in this fiercely competitive world;
9. If you have difficulties, grievances, or are in a bad mood, don’t swallow it down; Know how to ask for help from others, ask or request others;
10. Just such a simple sentence can alienate two people who were originally close. People who have never experienced it will never understand how painful it is. --Blue Balloon and Su Xia
11. Freedom is not about doing whatever you want, but not doing anything you want not to do.
12. If you lie in bed and always like to think wildly and can't control it, you might as well get up, relax, and continue with your own thoughts. This may be the beginning of a dream;
13. If you see something you like and want to buy it but are concerned about the price, please let go of your worries. You can earn money later, but once you miss something you like, it may be difficult to get it back;
14. It’s the last time when young people are separated. If you leave, there will be no time left.
15. If you encounter something uncertain, please do not jump to conclusions easily, such as your evaluation of someone you just met or your decision-making at a critical moment. Please do not be impulsive. As the saying goes, impulsiveness is devil. Don’t jump to conclusions about things that have no results, such as a new research invention. Only through continuous practice can it prove its practicality and then put it on the market;
16. If you are a perfectionist If you don’t, please be kind to yourself, because everything can’t be perfect. If you blindly pursue perfection, you will be hard on yourself;
17. Don’t be sad when your friends ignore you, everyone has it. In your own life, no one can always accompany you.
18. Don’t complain that life is unfair to you, because life doesn’t know who you are at all.
19. If you are a person who is not firm-willed and wavers, when faced with temptation, you'd better ask in your mind "what do you want", then other things will be just a passing thing. It's not enough to tempt you;
20. When different people do the same thing for you, you will feel a huge difference. Because what we care about is often not what people do, but only the people who do it.
21. If you feel very irritable, you should calm down, and then look at and solve the problem with a natural attitude. It is best not to show off your face;
22. If you When you are numb and find nothing that arouses your interest, you might as well go to a park or the beach, as long as the venue is open enough, go for a walk and relax, believing that nature is the best "flirtant";
23. If emotions can hibernate, will we not be hurt again?
24. The weather is getting colder. I have grown up, learned to smile, learned to be strong, and learned not to shed tears, but I still cannot learn to forget him.
25. If you feel that the nameless anger in your heart is burning you, then you might as well do an exercise that you like. When the "sweat" is dried by the wind, your "anger" will be exchanged for your whole body. The coolness and happiness; sincerity is a feeling of the soul
26. If the prosperity is destroyed, let me sleep well.
27. I am like cocklebur, wanting to follow you to the end of the world, but you lost me in the summer when I was sixteen, and I can never find my home again.
28. If you are sad, please don’t forget those who have suffered worse than you. You may also want to watch some touching and sensational TV series or documentaries to let your sadness “accumulate” into tears and your emotions It will be released accordingly;
29. If you are happy, please don’t forget to share it with others, because only shared happiness can “maximize” happiness;
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30. If you feel that you are inexplicable, that you are always emotionally disturbed, and do some unselfish actions, then please let your mind rest for a moment, take a proper vacation, and let yourself do whatever you want for a day; p>
31. If you feel tired easily, it is best to go to the hospital for a physical examination to find out if there is any discomfort in your body that you did not notice, or you can register a psychological forum ID for free consultation;
32. When water comes, I will wait for you in the water; when fire comes, I will wait for you in the ashes.
33. If anyone lets me go, I will forget him. No matter how busy your life is, you still have to forget her.
34. If you feel very depressed, then you might as well make an appointment with a few friends to have a high in a lively place;
35. In fact, there are not so many ifs in this world. Sometimes, what we lose in an instant is eternity.
36. There is a girl who is waiting for you. There is a girl who wants to say sorry to you. There is a girl who wants to say to you, I love you too.
37. If you really want to talk, but after searching through your address book, you find that there is no one to talk to, you might as well write down what you want to say, or submit it, or upload it online;
38. If you are unhappy, you can try to find your own interests;
39. If you are still unhappy, you can go to the beach and shout a few times, or talk to your close friends;
40. If you feel inexplicably tired, pay attention to sleep and rest, don’t think too much, and increase the amount of social activities;
41. If you really want to go out and play , but if you can’t find the right person to accompany you, you might as well sign up for a suitable local activity center, and your daily life will be much more colorful;
42. If you are confused, hesitant, and at a loss. , just don’t do anything. You can go to relevant experienced people for consultation. After all, the latter has reference value;
43. There are also life and death friends in love. Yes, if a woman is willing to risk her life to give birth to a child for a man, then she must love him very much. Sometimes, dedication is also the ultimate happiness.
Non-mainstream decadent mood phrases
Non-mainstream decadent mood phrases
1. The bravest thing in the world is to listen to the love between you with a smile!
2. Don’t ask me if I have loved you, because my love has nothing to do with you.
3. I really like you, why did it end like this?
4. The words have been spoken, the love has been let go, the love is no longer there, and there will be no future.
5. Decided to turn my back to you and look for my own happiness. Don’t worry, we will all be happy!
6. I used to think that the so-called missing you all the time was just a fancy word, but now I miss you.
7. The arrangement of fate once made us very happy, but after the happiness passed, it was eternal darkness.
8. I really love you. I closed my eyes and thought I could forget it, but the tears I shed did not deceive myself...
9. If one day, I I don’t ask you to look for me crazily, as long as you miss me occasionally, I will be satisfied...
10. I like you, but I have a sour feeling. I am really afraid that one day, I will lose you. . Why does it hurt even to breathe when I lose you?
11. If I can hate you, I will hate you without hesitation and with all my strength.
12. My concern is nothing more than a humble attempt to please you, so why should I pawn my youth for you without any regrets?
13. We can leave nothing behind in time, including pain, happiness and life.
14. I like getting something for nothing, but getting something for nothing doesn’t like me!
15. Watch other people’s stories and shed your own tears; listen to other people’s songs and hum your own solo...
16. Don’t say love easily, make a promise The promise is the debt owed!
17. What withers is the beauty of flowers, what falls are broken tears, and what is hard to redeem are the sins of the past life.
18. If you can still feel heartache, it proves that there is hope... If you don't even feel the heartache, then there is really nothing...
19. If love had never come, if dreams had never been broken, if my heart had never hurt, would I still be the me you know?
20. You took away happiness and left loneliness with me.
21. I use the persistence of one person to deal with the loneliness of two people.
22. The wings of birds vibrate in the air. It is a noisy and crackling sound, full of fear, and a flow of uncertain destination.
23. Count the fallen leaves in front of the door, listen to the sound of rain outside the window, and the sound of wading through the water reminds me of this time, whether your heart soaked by the rain is still the same.
24. You walk in the rain, you never hold an umbrella, you have your own sky, it never rains.
25. I gave up my dignity, personality, and stubbornness, all because I couldn’t let you go!
26. The dew hates the morning sun and the flowers hate the autumn. After being drunk, I just feel sad.
27. You are in the south of the sky, and I am in the north of the earth. Who said: The moon waxes and wanes, and the flowers bloom and fade?
28. Who takes whom seriously, who feels sorry for whom.
29. After the pain, you will no longer feel the pain, but you will only have an indifferent heart.
30. There is nothing wrong with liking someone. The only thing wrong is liking someone who doesn’t like you.
31. Most sensitive people are unhappy...
32. My tears flowed down, watering the soft grass below. I don’t know if it will bloom in the coming year. A place full of memories and sorrows.
33. I have always wanted others to know my feelings, the heaviness, the unspeakable sorrow and desolation, but how can I draw all my life wheels for you on the blank paper? How can I make you understand?
34. Happiness is another kind of pain pretending to be seen by others, and carnival is another kind of loneliness left to the pain of oneself.
35. You think letting go can fulfill my happiness, but you don’t know that my greatest happiness is to be able to hold hands with you.
36. A lifelong promise cannot be said easily. You cannot give me a future...
37. My dear, can we love each other like this one day?
38. If you talk too much, it is better to remain silent; if you think too much, I will be sad. Get out...
39. If I don’t tell you, you don’t understand. We are pretending to each other. This is our distance.
40. I cried on the way home, and my tears broke down again. I was helpless and walked like this, and I no longer dared to be proud and ask for anything. What else can I say, what else can I do? I really hope you will hear it, because I love you, I let you go... Decadent sentences to talk about mood phrases
Decadent sentences to talk about mood phrases Selection 1:
How so Everything that is fake, I am just a replacement for you
Today is our common birthday, but you accompany others to party together
And you have the habit of smiling, There is also a sad instinct
No matter what, it is unforgivable for a person to be decadent on an excuse
You live a happy life without me, and I cry alone without you.
I am not a suitable lover, but I fell in love with you with all my heart
You call me easily, and I will come to you, but you don’t know how to cherish it
A lonely patient, facing all the sorrows alone
I dream of being with you, but I don’t want you to leave so simply
Alone If you learn to be patient, you won’t shed tears so easily
I am just superfluous, just like a cotton-padded jacket in summer and a cattail leaf fan in winter
I don’t feel sorry for myself, it’s my fault with you It's irrelevant
Did you realize that I am not the person you want to love after we have been together for a long time?
I always persist when I can't persist because I rely too much on you
After all, we have been together before, can you not tolerate me that much?
Leaving you, I learned not to shed tears when facing sadness
The scene on the street corner unfolded Love makes me so heartbroken
An optimistic performer, you and her supporting role are still so excited
Bearing everything alone, but never willing to come out easily
The lonely breath caused you to turn around and leave
The external light spot of time is still the subtle floating point of the heartbeat
Depressive sentences describe your mood Selected Phrases 2:
1. No woman is loved because of the beauty of her soul.
2. What I miss is not you, but the fatal past you gave me.
3. Fate is that the person I love is you, but you love someone else.
4. I once had it, but inadvertently, I lost it
5. The shortest spell in the world is your name.
6. As long as there is such a person in this world, everyone else will become a makeshift person. And I don't want to give in.
7. True love is not that you want to be together because you know how good he (she) is, but that you still don’t want to leave even though you know that he (she) has too many bad qualities.
8. Happiness is like poppies blooming, but people want to pick the flowers and the flowers have faded; happiness is like snow drifting in the river, the water wants to carry the snow, but the snow has melted.
9. The sun has set, but the stars will still rise. Wandering on the abandoned railway tracks, I hold tightly the letter that has expired for a year and quietly ask Liuyun. I like that sentence written at the end. You
10. Hello. Why? I hope you can learn to take good care of yourself after I leave. Hello. Why? I hope he can take good care of you on my behalf. Hello. Why? Actually, I have liked you for a long, long time.
11. Love is like a colorful bubble, which looks beautiful but actually bursts when you poke it.
12. When you want to conquer the other person emotionally, you have actually been conquered by the other person to a certain extent. First is the other person's attraction to you, and then is your desire to conquer the other person.
13. When a person doesn’t love you, but he doesn’t reject you, he still wants to remain friends with you. Well, forget it and abandon him. He doesn't love you, you should know, he just wants to use you to satisfy his vanity.
14. Those who cannot get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored are confident.
15. The first time I cried was because you were not here, the first time I laughed was because I met you, the first time I laughed and cried because I couldn’t have you.
16. The cruelest way to treat your lover is not to love and hate, or to cheat or betray. It is love that gradually becomes indifferent after extreme love.
17. Loneliness is a person’s carnival. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people.
18. Since you love me, why don’t you say it out loud? If something is lost, you can never get it back.
19. Pretend I don’t love you, and pretend you love me. Which one is more cruel.
20. The couple on the street are like us, they let go of their embrace and go their separate ways.
21. Is there someone who can see through my bravery and protect my vulnerability? He would cover my eyes with his big palms before my tears fell. I said softly that my eyes only look their best when I smile. He would put my head on his shoulder when I was wronged. Tell me that in front of him, I never need to pretend to be strong. Tell me that even if everyone doesn't believe you, there will still be me.
22. You can love persistently but don’t become humble. You can give to the other person but don’t lose yourself.
23. Falling in love is missing someone's heart, marriage is tying one's heart, and love is swallowing one's heart.
24. Slowly, I learned to let go. It's not that I've changed, it's that I'm really powerless, I've given up, I can't stand it anymore.
25. Every woman who dares not to love again must have loved deeply. It may seem that a hundred poisons are immune to it, but in fact, it has already been invaded by a hundred poisons.
26. Mu Xi said, you are mine and I am bound to get it. Su Cheng said, Heaven and earth can be used as a guide, children and old men are not deceived, I like you very much. I like these two sentences
27. At that moment, I seemed to see the whole world collapse in front of me. The pieces of tiles in the ruins are all engraved with vivid memories, and they are now quietly attached to the ground. No matter how careful I am to keep walking quietly, I will eventually find that I am just a person exiled by memory.
28. You will understand that seriousness comes only once in a lifetime, and it is gone once you use it. You will understand that a person smokes, drinks, curses, and has tattoos. He is just an insecure child. You will understand that when a person keeps silent about him or her, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love him anymore, but that he really feels pain.
29. You can’t see the expression on my face clearly. Be it disgust, be uneasy, be indifferent, be smiling, or still have wet eyes.
30. The most regrettable thing in life is to give up easily what should not be given up and stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted.
31. If you fall in love, don’t let go of the opportunity easily. Being reckless may make you regret it for a while; being cowardly may make you regret it for a lifetime.
32. If you can’t give it all to me, don’t give it all to me.
33. If a man takes the initiative to carry your bag for you, puts you on the side of the road, or pulls out a chair for you, don’t be grateful for it. This can only mean that he has had countless girlfriends teach him this before. And the woman he can remember will always be the woman who changed him, not you. Therefore, the more perfect a man is in every detail, the more challenging it is for women.
34. What would you do if you fell in love with someone you couldn’t get no matter what?
35. What if you came back. -If I were still here. -If you come back. - I wish I was still here.
36. If anyone asks, just say you forgot. No explanation, no sadness, you know.
37. After too long, we start to miss you. Miss those people and things that have been forgotten and are being forgotten. I miss everything that has died long ago.
38. Is it because I love you so hard that you want to escape?
39. What is mine is ultimately mine. I am your passer-by after all. You never love me. It is doomed that nothing will happen between you and me. Doomed. Doomed. It is just doomed. Regardless of me. How to cross, no matter how much I want to be close to you, you will still leave me
40. Time is like a river, the left bank is the unforgettable memories, the right bank is the youth worth grasping, and the fast flowing in the middle is The faint sadness of youth. There are many beautiful things in the world, but not many that truly belong to you. Watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court
41. In order to no longer be sad, in order to no longer cry, in order to no longer be hurt, in order to no longer be confused, I decided to abandon all my memories. From now on, we are just strangers. .
42. I am not afraid of old age, nor of death. I am only afraid that the one I love will not have a good life.
43. How I want to meet you and see how you have changed recently.
44. There are too many helplessness in our lives. We cannot change and are unable to change. What is worse is that we have lost the idea of ????changing.
45. We will feel inferior. I will be depressed, just like me who is careless and self-righteous, and I will be at a loss when I see you.
46. We practice smiling all the time, and finally become people who dare not cry.
47. I wish someone told me. Sometimes missing me makes him uncomfortable.
48. There is always fear in my heart. I have gone far, far away from fear, for a long time. But in the end there was no place or person that I could go back to.
49. I always thought that people grow old slowly. Actually no, people grow old in an instant.
50. I will never go out of my way to love someone again, even you.
51. I just want to cross the sky above my head with you, as if we have crossed forever
52. I like to leave my mark on you, but I have never Remember you were never mine. If one day I no longer like you, will my life be as decadent and decadent as before? I don’t want that kind of life anymore, so I won’t let go until I do it.
53. Carousel It is the most cruel game in the world. The two people sitting on the wooden horse were spinning around and around. They were so close but couldn't touch them.
54. In the past, you told me that you were sad. Now, you choose to remain silent about my sadness.
55. Sometimes, ears are more important than eyes. Many things are heard with ears rather than used. Keep your eyes open. A person pretends to be happy, but his voice cannot. You will know if you listen carefully.
56. When you meet these two types of men, you must cherish them. One is a man who only sheds tears and shed blood for you. One is a man who can only bleed and shed tears for you.
57. We all thought we could die for love. In fact, love can't kill people, it only sticks a needle in the most painful place. Then we want to cry but have no tears, we toss and turn, we become healed after a long illness, and we become steel after being tempered a hundred times.
Quotes about being in a formality_Quotations about being in a formality
All true beauty comes from the ugliness, all real success comes from the struggle in mediocrity, and all true freedom comes from the struggle in imprisonment. . True happiness is never just a formality, but created with hands, interpreted with heart, pursued with all your strength, proven with time, and experienced throughout your life
The busy streets are just a formality. . Amidst the hustle and bustle, I just want to stare ahead. ---- "To me, Ge Ping, ten years later"
) Our country’s definition of driver’s license is: A motor vehicle driver’s license refers to a person who is permitted by law to drive a motor vehicle. But in this case, I have mastered the knowledge of traffic laws and driving skills, passed the examination of the national education department, and issued a legal certificate permitting me to drive a certain type of motor vehicle. Driving license dehydration is a penalty for a driver's traffic violation. Depending on the severity of the traffic safety violation, dehydration is worth only 12 points at most and 1 point at the lowest. However, she thought that the driver's qualifications were not considered, but she also thought that the driver's qualifications were gone, and she regarded the person who had no water as a judge, and regarded the person who had 12 points as a judge. If the husband is no less than 7 years old and has taken traffic safety education and passed the examination, his driving qualification can be restored. The lack of hydration plays a strong role in preventing drivers from complying with traffic safety laws. It can reduce the accident rate due to traffic accidents. Therefore, firstly, in law enforcement, the penalties for drivers without hydration are taken seriously. Nature and normativeness make it possible to divide the water into form.
In addition to walking around in life and death, the country has formulated many laws, regulations and subtle rules, and you must put shackles on yourself on the road of life. State affairs frame and weave networks? It’s most comfortable to do whatever you want. What I hate the most is rigidity and machinery, mere formality, a waste of time and life.
Meditation cannot be a formality, but must return to the most fundamental point. First, there must be a kind of observation, and at the same time, this observation must be turned into a practical life. What kind of care? It's when you know what you're doing. ---- Fei Yong, "How to Live Without Depression: Mind Training Lessons from the Sixth Patriarch's Altar Sutra"
A person's self-cultivation has nothing to do with the nutrients he consumes every day. Self-cultivation is not just a formality that suits the occasion. Rather, it is about constantly introspecting and revising the habits rooted in the heart.
In the process of choosing a topic, you can keep in mind the following points: First, you must be willing to listen when choosing a topic. No matter how sociable you are in the outside world, if you are just cold and formal, you will eventually feel that you are just trying to attract a good impression of you. Second, try to maintain a dual perspective. Not only do you think about what you want to hear and say, but you also take into account your own needs. The most annoying thing about nerds is the indifference to people's thoughts and needs. ----Alan Garner "You've got to work hard to win the right country"
Only by eliminating the strangeness of the first meeting as soon as possible can you leave an everlasting impression on your new colleagues. Since people spend half of their day at work, speaking can sometimes become a formality. How to attract the attention of new colleagues lies in how you choose the topic. You are smart, why not use your creativity to create miracles? In the company, colleagues inevitably help each other. What attitude should you take towards this kind of thing? Usually, people always say "helping others is fun". How can helping others in the office really become fun and be accepted by both parties? As long as you are a human being, there will be good and evil, but you should not think so when making friends in the office. It is best to deal with them equally. ----Wu Qingxin "Don't lose because you don't know how to speak"
I believe that if a person likes a writer and laughs, he will definitely laugh too. Walking with love and laughter comes from the culture to which the writer belongs.
If a person thinks that the culture to which the writer belongs is too close to the point where one laughs, or even if you think that anyone is annoying, then you should say that he has laughed out of the writer. Praising him really makes him smile, but it's just a formality and the outside world is indifferent. ----If you can use this to open the root of Wei, you can use it
Haig later realized that he had a very good evaluation of Confucius and He De, which can be regarded as an appreciation of traditional Chinese culture. Evaluation, yes, Confucius may have some wisdom. He said that he was a sinner of China. He was a sinner of China. He was a sinner in China. He was a sinner in China. He was a sinner in China. He was a sinner in China. He was a sinner in China. wisdom. After the country has reached the point where the things advocated by the master and me are harmonious, it becomes a mere formality, accidentally demonizing people's thoughts, and accidentally using them like the people of the times. Let me tell you that I am a Chinese: But after the country has changed things, I will definitely feel that I am still the same person in my heart. Even if the country has the right thoughts, there will be a suitable era. China will forget every trend to question China. It's dangerous.
We will reward those who do well, and those who do poorly must focus on examples and implementation, and never become mere formalities. ----Su Qingcan
The people I have loved, the places we have been together, the scenery we have seen, all the past, treasure these memories, walk through the corridor of yesterday, what kind of stories will be waiting ahead, sometimes lost. The direction can only be meaningless fantasies, youthful ignorance, growing up in stumbling traffic, busy streets and formal cutscenes, surrounded by impetuous hustle and bustle, I just want to stare ahead and write a letter for me ten years later. Have you seen what happiness looks like? Aren't you still letting tears flow freely because of sadness? Maybe now you have the power to defeat the years by your side. In those unnoticed times, you will always watch quietly. I will seal my thoughts in a time capsule and let time take over the memories. The journey is lengthening step by step. The dreams I once carried are deliberately disguised. One day I will face it again and I will no longer hesitate. —— "To Me Ten Years Later"
Many people have interacted with us, and they are indifferent. Form, ending at the center of energy, is similar to going out to exhort, to echo, to echo, to comfort, to comfort, and to celebrate, the shouts of celebration have already become numb. After the formality, loneliness remains as before, we have to go to the meeting. She was homesick for the first time in her heart, as if she was missing someone who cared about her.
Since the expression of sincerity is limited, it is best to lend a helping hand as much as possible. This is the meaning of sincerity. Since she wants to learn from those who have gone too far, it is better to deal with them. Even if she has an excessive burden, she can see through this level of people who don’t have many ways. If she can gain too much benefit, she can lead upright and smart people. The human society is like Jin Jun Bian Ruzhong’s sincerity, and the moon brings spiritual morale. If you want to dedicate yourself to everything in West Africa, just say that you should go abroad, and Feng Di Neng cannot just be a formality.
The role of Buddhism is in the realm of small and medium-sized water, which has already reached the level of praying for you. We can't focus on the self-made Buddha Dharma. The Buddha Dharma practice is based on a kind of arising water, which only has many qi flowing in the form. ----The Venerable Yixiaojia Houjiangcuo "The Venerable Yixiaojia Houjiangcuo Sina Weibo"
I am used to thinking that this is just a formality. I want to be recognized by a woman who wants to go to the green campus to the military holy church to hold hands and put away her uninhibited hair to protect her hair with her life. Business people recognize that they are not as good as the first person online, but they recognize talents as the first one. The sky outside is as colorful as the first one. The one who is greedy for hair is just a colorful butterfly; I want to be a tsundere. It will be better if I come more. I am a very affectionate and dedicated person, but I don’t know much about romance. First of all, I am so considerate that I am a bit overbearing. I want to find a man who can smile and protect the one he likes. He is pure and cute. Kind Ruyi has his own little universe.
Now it is almost impossible for the Heavenly Army to defeat him alone. So, the above, Bai Qi, Xu Mo, Fu Zeyan, Zhou Qiluo
It is not just the eyes, ears, mouth, and back that can deceive people. If you can come to the west, you have a heart. If you are good at it, you can use your eyes, mouth, and ears after you leave. It can only deceive you for a while. If you get the one who thinks you are thinking about the west when you are born, it will be the one with the heart and the other side. So, you can deceive you for the rest of your life. So, . Everything is better than before, no matter how it is. In our family, Huang Zhongdao, only Ge Chengshui does not have to face it. He thinks that there are contradictions and stains in people's hearts. Don't deceive yourself. No matter how much things are, it is better than before. It doesn't matter. I think that the calmness of the heart is actually the calmness of thinking and thinking. Whether the love will become a mere formality after a year or not, only your own heart knows!
Without a sincere heart to carry the emotions of love, all formalities are empty bubbles and phantoms.